Longest FFriend relationship.

[Bianca_Sommerland]

Just out of curiousity, while I'm waiting for mine to come over I was wondering. What's your longest run with a FFriend? Mines five years running, mutually satisfying and no strings attached. I know some people have problems getting that close with friends, and things can get messy (and not in the intended way)

Anyone got any interesting stories, good or bad? Could be good fodder for someones story. (Not mine, have a hard time with reality based stories). I'd say try not to turn it into a morality discussion, but there's no point. So sling away.

 

[penandpaper]

Two weeks. Generally after that, either by curse or blessing (depending on how you look at it) they espouse their love for me. I would like to think it's my incredible bedroom skills, my witty conversation, and my adonis like figure. (All of which I probably view using the 80/20 rule.) But, in truth, it's really just the type of woman I attract.

I guess better to be loved than not.

 

[TheeGoatPig]

I have never had one.

 

[OhMissScarlett]

I also had the same booty call for about five years or so. He was a guy who I'd dated seriously for a little while the year after high school and our relationship didn't work out. We broke up because he was such a slut. But, then it happened a couple of times when we were older that we ended up living just one street over from one another. So, whenever we weren't in relationships, we had a non-verbal agreement to hook up.

Of course, by then I had a different attitude about his sluttiness. I appreciated it a lot. I loved the way he could bang me exactly how I needed it, but also give me all the emotional tenderness I needed and then GO THE FUCK HOME. I remember one time I got dumped by another guy and went out drinking and dancing and met up with the booty call boy. We got it on in the bathroom of the club about five minutes after we noticed each other there. The whole time, he was like, "I'm gonna fuck you so hard, you'll forget all about him. You're mine again, baby..." GUH. I'll forever be grateful for his help through some really rough times.

 

[Bianca_Sommerland]

I also had the same booty call for about five years or so. He was a guy who I'd dated seriously for a little while the year after high school and our relationship didn't work out. We broke up because he was such a slut. But, then it happened a couple of times when we were older that we ended up living just one street over from one another. So, whenever we weren't in relationships, we had a non-verbal agreement to hook up.

Of course, by then I had a different attitude about his sluttiness. I appreciated it a lot. I loved the way he could bang me exactly how I needed it, but also give me all the emotional tenderness I needed and then GO THE FUCK HOME. I remember one time I got dumped by another guy and went out drinking and dancing and met up with the booty call boy. We got it on in the bathroom of the club about five minutes after we noticed each other there. The whole time, he was like, "I'm gonna fuck you so hard, you'll forget all about him. You're mine again, baby..." GUH. I'll forever be grateful for his help through some really rough times.

That's awesome. I've had simular situations with my man, who just left and I love how he is still such a good friend. The sex never gets in the way. And since we never got serious, there's no baggage. He knows me, I know him, we can talk about anything and when the moments right it's like it's all brand new again.

I think the secrecy is part of what keeps it fresh. He was good friends with my ex, so being open about it isn't an option (even though we were friends long before the ex came in the picture). It feels so deliciously naughty to get a random call saying he's swinging by for a smoke, and then finding ways to tease each other until we need to find the closest solid object to screw on or against.

Funny thing, I'm more prone to experimenting with him then I was with any of my boyfriends. Maybe it's the comfort zone, or the trust. All I know is I owuldn't change a thing

 

[OhMissScarlett]

Funny thing, I'm more prone to experimenting with him then I was with any of my boyfriends. Maybe it's the comfort zone, or the trust. All I know is I wouldn't change a thing

Yeah, I think we experimented more due to keeping our involvement on the DL. I trusted him not to talk trash behind my back. Well, and there's a lot of freedom in never having to deal with the humdrum aspects of a serious relationship. We weren't taking any issues to bed with us like real couples sometimes do. Seriously, if it's working for you, don't change it. In retrospect, I sometimes wonder how I ended up married.