Long term pain, the gift that keeps on giving

[Kim_Burly]

I want a way to give Lynn, my sub, pain throughout a work day, more than just being sore from a beating the day before. Everything Sir and I have come up with is not practical in reality, she does still have to be able to do her job, after all. I just want her in mild to moderate pain throughout the day so she thinks of how own and love her. I especially like causing her boobs pain. It really needs to be something she can do to herself as she lives 45 minutes away. Ideas please.

 

[RawHumor]

I'm surprised that there aren't any (deliberately) sadomasochistic shoes out there yet.

I like the idea of just a little something to make every step a bit tough to bear.

I saw that you don't like the idea of stinging nettles in her bra - what about sewing sandpaper into the bra cups? Not nearly as painful, but uncomfortable, I would suspect.

 

[Loverskitten]

I'm surprised that there aren't any (deliberately) sadomasochistic shoes out there yet.

Really? There are, they are called high heels :/
Ballet boots especially. Although those probably couldn't be worn to work.
6 inch+ heels with no platform are incredibly painful. I have a pair of Louboutin heels I have only worn once thanks to the pain they cause.

 

[RawHumor]

Really? There are, they are called high heels :/
Ballet boots especially. Although those probably couldn't be worn to work.
6 inch+ heels with no platform are incredibly painful. I have a pair of Louboutin heels I have only worn once thanks to the pain they cause.

LOL That's why I added the word "deliberately".

All women's heels look sadomasochistic to me.

At work, our owner site is now in France. Those French dudes where some oddly pointy shoes that look almost as uncomfortable as some women's shes.

 

[RawHumor]

I have a pair of Louboutin heels I have only worn once thanks to the pain they cause.

I failed as a Litster. I meant to add - pics or it didn't happen.

 

[KoPilot]

How about a little tiger balm around the bumhole? Or how about a few inches of untreated hemp rope tucked into her crack? Talk about chafing!

 

[Kim_Burly]

I'm surprised that there aren't any (deliberately) sadomasochistic shoes out there yet.

I like the idea of just a little something to make every step a bit tough to bear.

I saw that you don't like the idea of stinging nettles in her bra - what about sewing sandpaper into the bra cups? Not nearly as painful, but uncomfortable, I would suspect.

I like the stinging nettles in her bra, as long as it won't cause her a serious reaction and it won't be used on me. I have thought about some thumb tacks in he bra, that's the only idea I have so far. She mostly wears black bras, so a drop of blood here or there wouldn't be noticed. I think I will try that on myself tomorrow for fun and see how it feels after a few hours. The sandpaper would be worse for me where I have a little room to roam in my cups. Lynn wears DD when she should be wearing something larger E, EE, F or whatever comes next. I don't think she would even know there was sandpaper in there.

 

[Kim_Burly]

Really? There are, they are called high heels :/
Ballet boots especially. Although those probably couldn't be worn to work.
6 inch+ heels with no platform are incredibly painful. I have a pair of Louboutin heels I have only worn once thanks to the pain they cause.

Lynn is a tall woman and she still wears at least 3" heels every day and sometimes 4". She might actually get away with 5"Louboutins without drawing any undue attention. But I really want to cause her pain in the fun places.

 

[Stella_Omega]

I makes me sad to know that stinging nettles don't grow in my area. But the research I've done suggests that you don't leave them in the bra, or panties either-- you brush them along the skin and the tiny silicone hypodermics break off in the skin... leaving you with a day or so of rashes I would assume?

Anyone played with them?

 

[Kim_Burly]

How about a little tiger balm around the bumhole? Or how about a few inches of untreated hemp rope tucked into her crack? Talk about chafing!

I have worn a ginger root in my butt, but the intensity dies rather quickly. I could make her send me a little video of her reapplying Tiger Balm to her pussy at lunch time .

I like to rope idea, it sounds very uncomfortable, but how does she pee or poop? I don't want her wearing a smelly piece of rope all day. If there is a way that she could take it off to do her business and then easily put it back on while still having enough tension to make it painful that would be great!

 

[Stella_Omega]

I have worn a ginger root in my butt, but the intensity dies rather quickly. I could make her send me a little video of her reapplying Tiger Balm to her pussy at lunch time .

I like to rope idea, it sounds very uncomfortable, but how does she pee or poop? I don't want her wearing a smelly piece of rope all day. If there is a way that she could take it off to do her business and then easily put it back on while still having enough tension to make it painful that would be great!

How about a green kitchen scrubber in her panties?

(I've been thinking along these lines waaay too much lately)

 

[lovecraft68]

Nothing to add here except it always amazes me -when I see discussion s like this- that people in this lifestyle have the stones to get mad when "society" deems us sick or questions whether or not we are mentally ill.

Ever do that? Just read through these things and stop and think...Wow, yup, that is twisted.

I mean, let's see, how can we cause someone 24/7 pain? How can we hurt them when we can't get at them? How can we make their entire day unbearable?

Not that I'm condemning it, but wake up people.

We're a sick lot.

 

[J D Danger]

having only read the original post I will suggest this and forgive me if it has been brought up

why not something as simple as nipple clamps or clothespins tighten on her nipples at your direction the night before work

the clamps could be tightened to the point of pain or even leaving slight bruising or marks and those marks would serve as a reminder that she is owned and loved

it seems simplistic as I explain it. I just remember when I had a long distance submissive many years ago we did something like this over the phone on a Sunday night

the next night my sub told me that simply brushing her hands over the marks left by the clamps as she worked reminded her that she was mine and she had to bite her lip at times to stop from moaning

 

[Kim_Burly]

How about a green kitchen scrubber in her panties?

(I've been thinking along these lines waaay too much lately)

I like the way you're heading. Would a loofah in her kooter be over the top?

 

[RawHumor]

I makes me sad to know that stinging nettles don't grow in my area. But the research I've done suggests that you don't leave them in the bra, or panties either-- you brush them along the skin and the tiny silicone hypodermics break off in the skin... leaving you with a day or so of rashes I would assume?

Anyone played with them?

Not as a sex thing, but I did know someone who accidentally brushed against some growing near her place here in my town, and she was NOT happy about the rash and burn she got on her arm.

 

[Kim_Burly]

Nothing to add here except it always amazes me -when I see discussion s like this- that people in this lifestyle have the stones to get mad when "society" deems us sick or questions whether or not we are mentally ill.

Ever do that? Just read through these things and stop and think...Wow, yup, that is twisted.

I mean, let's see, how can we cause someone 24/7 pain? How can we hurt them when we can't get at them? How can we make their entire day unbearable?

Not that I'm condemning it, but wake up people.

We're a sick lot.

About a year ago I decided to accept who I am, I wish I were vanilla, but I'm not. BTW, I don't want to make her day unbearable, just unpleasant enough to make us both happy.

 

[twister947]

Not as a sex thing, but I did know someone who accidentally brushed against some growing near her place here in my town, and she was NOT happy about the rash and burn she got on her arm.

Yeah. They are not all the same...the stuff that grows here is brutal. Google "Queensnake" for some vids of nettle play.

 

[RawHumor]

I like to rope idea, it sounds very uncomfortable, but how does she pee or poop? I don't want her wearing a smelly piece of rope all day. If there is a way that she could take it off to do her business and then easily put it back on while still having enough tension to make it painful that would be great!

If it was just tucked in, it could easily be removed for bathroom activities, and then replaced afterward.

Another idea - what about having her put a couple sliced of jalepeno into her panties - either pressed against her mound/clit or against her lips?

 

[Stella_Omega]

I like the way you're heading. Would a loofah in her kooter be over the top?

My experience (can't believe I'm embarrassed to admit it) is that inside the cooter there are not many nerve endings-- they are on the outside parts, like the lips and the clit... but what happens on the outside feels real good inside.

I think loofas would soak up moisture like a mofo, being a dried plant material and all. Might be good, maybe not. Maybe you could lube it first.

 

[Kim_Burly]

having only read the original post I will suggest this and forgive me if it has been brought up

why not something as simple as nipple clamps or clothespins tighten on her nipples at your direction the night before work

the clamps could be tightened to the point of pain or even leaving slight bruising or marks and those marks would serve as a reminder that she is owned and loved

it seems simplistic as I explain it. I just remember when I had a long distance submissive many years ago we did something like this over the phone on a Sunday night

the next night my sub told me that simply brushing her hands over the marks left by the clamps as she worked reminded her that she was mine and she had to bite her lip at times to stop from moaning

I think a full-fledged clamp would show through. But that does give an idea, I have some old CZ stud earrings for non-pierced ears and I could cut off the setting and stone and just use the clasps as nipple pinchers. I can have her send me a couple of videos with her pulling on them to bear the weight of her boobs so I know they are tight enough.

I could also make her send me a video of her digging her nails into her boobs until she draws a little blood. She has beautiful, perfectly kept nails.

I love the concept of the accountability video. Sir has used the idea on me many times.

OK, this thread has my creative and other juices flowing. I appreciate the inspiration.

 

[Stella_Omega]

Nothing to add here except it always amazes me -when I see discussion s like this- that people in this lifestyle have the stones to get mad when "society" deems us sick or questions whether or not we are mentally ill.

Ever do that? Just read through these things and stop and think...Wow, yup, that is twisted.

I mean, let's see, how can we cause someone 24/7 pain? How can we hurt them when we can't get at them? How can we make their entire day unbearable?

Not that I'm condemning it, but wake up people.

We're a sick lot.

"If a cat don't know, he just don't know..."

 

[twister947]

Breasts don't bleed reliably. They are adipose tissue, and not very vascular...you can stick a dozen needles in a breast, and be lucky to get one "bleeder."

I like the image, though.

 

[KoPilot]

I have worn a ginger root in my butt, but the intensity dies rather quickly. I could make her send me a little video of her reapplying Tiger Balm to her pussy at lunch time .

I like to rope idea, it sounds very uncomfortable, but how does she pee or poop? I don't want her wearing a smelly piece of rope all day. If there is a way that she could take it off to do her business and then easily put it back on while still having enough tension to make it painful that would be great!

The rope wouldn't be attached to anything, lol. It could just be like 6-8" that is held in place by the panties, or is something she has to hold in place by clenching her cheeks. Makes for double the fun if she constantly feels the need to "adjust" things throughout the day?

 

[seela]

The nettles stop stinging after a while when you pick them, so they aren't a long term pain solution. It works maybe 10 minutes and then it would be just like having a twig of spinach in your bra - just as tasty, just as painless. And how do I know this? As kids my friends and I used to whack each other with nettles and pick them up with our bare hands. The stem doesn't sting, only the leaves do. Unless you have different kind of stinging nettles there, which is entirely possible considering I live half the world away.

My favorite thing is to aim at feet. Crop 'em enough and she'll feel it the next day when she walks.
Make her squat and burn her thighs out, or aim at whichever muscle group you see fit (haha, I maded a punny).
For the sandpaper thing I'd go for inner thighs. Most women's thighs rub together at least partially, so put the sandpaper there and tell her to wear a skirt.

On the boob torture idea front I have zilch.

 

[eastern sun]

I have a pair of panties that I have sewed beads into strategically; what seems like a pleasurable sensation at first actually becomes quite painful over time, and especially when you're trying to concentrate on something else.

Imagine some of the spikier collar rivets sewn along the crotch line or in the underwire area of a bra.