Long hair

[cutedemon]

Just a quick question. Do most of you Dom/mes make your sub tie back their long hair or do you like it hanging loose? Because I've noticed mine gets in the way, sticks in my mouth, etc. If so, what do you do to their hair to keep it from becoming a nuisence? Just curious, wanting new ideas on how to keep it out of my face and allowing Him access to my neck and such without much trouble.

 

[BlueSugar]

I have long hair and either I bun it, pull it back simply bc He also enjoys when he can pull it and hold it (in a high ponytail) or put pencils/chopsticks etc in it to keep it up and away, and its easy to pull them out. There is even a bun cage type deal thay I found for my hair, they're a pain to get all my hair in, but its beautiful and it works.

((my hair is almost down to my butt, 5 inches away ))

 

[cutedemon]

Mine's getting down there, I've got six or seven inches to go before it hits my butt. I've never been able to get chopsticks to work in my hair, otherwise they would be the perfect solution.

 

[rosco rathbone]

A pigtails

B girls with cute, short, dykealike/ riot-grrrl/pixie hair have it goin' on....

C punitive head shaving.

 

[esclave_PP]

Master usually has me put it up -- either in pigtails or in a ponytail -- mine is about mid-back length.

 

[catalina_francisco]

Master loves mine loose and flowing for him to caress when it pleases, or to wind his hand in to either remove it from my neck for biting, or to giude my head/body where he needs it at any required moment....or pull, another favourite of his.

Catalina

 

[shaymless]

Mine is mid back and with my current partner, I'm allowed to wear it back but NOT up for sleeping, doing chores, etc. (low hold pony tails, a barrette at the back of my neck, etc. The only thing I've not tried around him is braids of any kind because when I asked once, he said "oh, that would be interesting to pin to things" and well, I just haven't screwed up the courage to find out what he meant)

Otherwise he prefers it down...and I'm becoming an expert in what I call the "porn star hair swing" to keep it out of my way.

shay

 

[catalina_francisco]

The only thing I've not tried around him is braids of any kind because when I asked once, he said "oh, that would be interesting to pin to things" and well, I just haven't screwed up the courage to find out what he meant)

Sounds like a bit of hair bondage in mind. LOL. Is an interesting method of play.

Catalina

 

[Desdemona]

It drives me crazy to have my hair get in the way when we play. If I know in advance, I generally pull it back in a ponytail. In general, when out and about or I'm at work, I wear my hair up. When we're together and just relaxing, my hair is down. It's about mid back length now.

 

[Netzach]

Really long hair....hm.

Hair bondage has to happen.

I like pulling it.

I also like brushing it softly and running my fingers through it lovingly while doing something particularly horrific with my other hand. That's my favorite.

I don't have any hair strictures, although shaving someone's head has huge erotic appeal, especially some girl who's really fixated on her hair.

Other than completely denying someone her hair, style is too much a personal expression for me to get nuts about. Some people work short hair better some work long better. A mullet on the right butch dyke has a sick appeal for me, even.

 

[thegreenfairy]

My hair is down to my butt (I really need to cut it though), and I usually pull it back for any kind of sex. Ponytails and braids are good because they can be pulled - I haven't tried pigtails but I might. There's one guy in my life who has a long hair fetish, and insists that I leave it down. The concept is sexy, but I find the reality annoying. I once hooked up with a guy who has long hair, and became very sympathetic to those who have to deal with mine. What does everyone think? Is the sterotypically "sexy" long hair worth it?

 

[Limbhugger]

Well from a long-haired man's POV, my hair is almost never pulled back during sex. Once in a while I'll leave it in a ponytail for her but she generally prefers it loose for her grip.

My hair is pretty damned long, well past the bottom of my shoulder blades. It's funny because when I'm clothed and in my daily life people seem to see my hair as a source of strength and rebellion and I reckon in a sense it is. But when I'm naked and with Wife, it is simply a reminder of my subserviance to her.

The only time I find my hair getting in the way is when I'm trying to please her body with my lips. Other than that, if it gets in my eyes, mouth, etc. then I just consider it a part of the experience.

I've actually found myself hiding behind my hair. Letting the lengths of it cover my eyes and shield me. Using it to hide my reluctant but obvious desire.

 

[catalina_francisco]

My hair is down to my butt (I really need to cut it though), and I usually pull it back for any kind of sex. Ponytails and braids are good because they can be pulled - I haven't tried pigtails but I might. There's one guy in my life who has a long hair fetish, and insists that I leave it down. The concept is sexy, but I find the reality annoying. I once hooked up with a guy who has long hair, and became very sympathetic to those who have to deal with mine. What does everyone think? Is the sterotypically "sexy" long hair worth it?

I have to vote long hair for me. I grew it when I reached my teens, as my mother forbade long hair before that point. It kept growing, past the butt at one stage, used to get tied (knotted) up in my office chair at work, dragged along the floor on the way to the operating theatre once, but has never since been shorter than bottom of the shoulder blades. I find for pulling it hurts much more when loose than if in some form of restriction such as a ponytail, simply because those few single strands which get caught in the full grab and pulled harder has more impact than an evenly pulled ponytail.

Catalina

 

[catalina_francisco]

I've actually found myself hiding behind my hair. Letting the lengths of it cover my eyes and shield me. Using it to hide my reluctant but obvious desire.

LOL, in my much younger days when I was painfully shy in and out of intimate situations I found my veil of thick golden hair past my butt as good a screen from view as clothing. I perfected the art of leaning my head in just the right way to make it fall around me shadowing face and body so I could see out, but few could see in. I learned a lot about people through invisible observation in those early days.

Catalina

 

[James G 5]

Well, I have long hair, and I like longer hair on my women, preferably loose so I can touch it & play in it and tug on it & twist it and yank it, and do hair bondage with other long haired girls, and all sorts of other things
If *I* feel it's in the way I will move it or have her tie it back
Otherwise, long & flowing is good

 

[Luna_Wolf72]

Personally, I love short short hair..it's far easier to tend to and makes hair tugging an immediately erotic experience because the hair is so tight to the scalp.

I have had pets with exceedingly long hair and i prefer it loose. Nothing sexier than long hair flowing over ones body.

I would hope that the quality of my submission (or Dominance) would make the hair question almost nil but there will always be those who have preferences.

<<<<<as ya'll can see, short hair works for me...

 

[Etoile]

Sometimes Daddy likes it down, and sometimes Daddy likes it up. E has told me e likes to feel my hair brushing against eir skin, so I try to do that consciously. But sometimes my hair gets in the way, so we pull it up. When it's up, it makes an easy handle for pulling. When it's down, it's better for wrapping fingers around and grabbing and pulling. So sometimes my hair is down, and sometimes it's up. When I'm on top (physical position!) I usually prefer to have it up.

 

[Scarlett_t2]

On my "Pet" I have to say I like his hair long so I can get a good handful. It is an easy way to direct him to the things I want him to do. I love the feeling of the control I have and no words are said. It also feels wonderful running across my body. MMMMM
Scarlett

 

[willie11a]

I truly love all aspects of long hair. It is very soft and silky to the touch and can be a very erotic part of love making. Having hair draped over my body and having a hair massage is very exciting. Sometimes the mere act of shampooing hair is very sensual. As to cutting butt length hair, I do suggest trimming frayed ends to keep the hair healthy. Yes, I suppose I do have fantasies, but have luckily lived most of them. I love talking about hair, long hair especially. Oh and as for the knots the hair has after lovemaking, I do help brushing them out.

 

[Bandit58]

I had long hair all through high school (just past the shoulder blades) but got it cut at 17 and have had it short all over ever since. Right now it's in a feathery style which is easy to care for and Master still manages to get a good grip if He wishes to....

 

[TigerClaw]

Long and Flowing unless it would cause her to get hurt unexpectantly.

 

[ethereal~minx]

Long and Flowing unless it would cause her to get hurt unexpectantly.

"unexpectantly" *laughing*
just had to laugh TigerClaw~~ haven't seen you here in quite a while=== this is cute : )

 

[TigerClaw]

lol, Hello.

Admittedly I had issues to let heal.

 

[Vixandra]

I have to keep mine around my shoulder blades- any longer and I can't put it up right in a bun or clip.
Normally is in either a clip or ponytail for sex though- I hate getting a mouth full of hair while trying to do something.
Though cold wet hair streamed across hot skin can be quite fun sometimes.

 

[morninggirl5]

My hair is waist length and i almost never put it up in a ponytail or bun. It's never really gotten in the way in any play situation. Getting it caught in the car door on a windy day was a new experience, though.