Long absence

[BeachMomma]

I haven’t been here in a looong time. 8 1/2 years to be precise. I used to hang out here a lot. Some things you should know about me. I’m disabled. Right now I need heart & brain surgery which are both coming up within the next few months.

I’ve been with a man for 8 1/2 years. We’ve been thru a lot together. I sensed about 3 weeks ago that he was having an affair. Yesterday he confirmed it.

Today he basically broke up with me. He said we’re no longer partners. He sees himself as my caregiver. Period.

I told him...remember when I told you I couldn't do this without you by my side? He said yeah. I said yeah well now I'm doing this without you by my side. Ya know what that makes you? An asshole. Do you feel like an asshole? He said no he didn't. I said well you are.

So now I have a game plan. That man won't know what to think when I'm done with him! You’re all invited to join in. The one thing I ask is that your posts should absolutely make me laugh. Wanna help make him jealous? On your mark! Get set! Whatcha waiting for? Goooooooo!

 

[Mo_Bandy]

How long before you bang some random dude? That will show him. Or notz

 

[SassySheDevil]

I'm sorry. This is weird as fuck.

 

[BeachMomma]

How long before you bang some random dude? That will show him. Or notz

Random? Never
Someone I know and develop a relationship? I have some ugly surgeries to get through first, then? We'll see.

 

[BeachMomma]

I'm sorry. This is weird as fuck.

Completely agree. Truth is stranger than fiction.

 

[ydahecnot]

How long before you bang some random dude? That will show him. Or notz

Was this the Frasier gal?

 

[Dom70]

Have actually been through something close to your situation. First off...I am sorry he did that to you...especially with that timing. Now....let's get your heart fixed...then that head....and get back to "normal"..ok? Sending a caring hug your way tonight.
I was in a fight today. This guy slammed on his brakes and I rear ended him. As I sat there he got out of his car and walked back to mine. He was a "small person". He walked up to the car door...put his hands on his hips and said "I'm not Happy." Well..I couldn't help myself... and said, "Then which one ARE you?" That's when the fight started....
You DID say to make you laugh! Hope it did!

 

[Texastuffbbc]

I am very sorry for your terrible experience and my prayers go out to you. On a happier note, assholes are full of shit anyway. Lol.

 

[Mo_Bandy]

What happened to the rest of the story? Did you find someone else to bump uglies with or get back together with your dude. I need a goddamn update.

 

[willingwriter]

I haven’t been here in a looong time. 8 1/2 years to be precise. I used to hang out here a lot. Some things you should know about me. I’m disabled. Right now I need heart & brain surgery which are both coming up within the next few months.

I’ve been with a man for 8 1/2 years. We’ve been thru a lot together. I sensed about 3 weeks ago that he was having an affair. Yesterday he confirmed it.

Today he basically broke up with me. He said we’re no longer partners. He sees himself as my caregiver. Period.

I told him...remember when I told you I couldn't do this without you by my side? He said yeah. I said yeah well now I'm doing this without you by my side. Ya know what that makes you? An asshole. Do you feel like an asshole? He said no he didn't. I said well you are.

So now I have a game plan. That man won't know what to think when I'm done with him! You’re all invited to join in. The one thing I ask is that your posts should absolutely make me laugh. Wanna help make him jealous? On your mark! Get set! Whatcha waiting for? Goooooooo!

Certainly not weird. Your nightmare of emotional betrayal just became a reality. No wonder you are angry x

 

[stumpy1076]

just need to find some pics of his new woman gettin banged by a big black guy lol

 

[IsItBad]

I haven’t been here in a looong time. 8 1/2 years to be precise. I used to hang out here a lot. Some things you should know about me. I’m disabled. Right now I need heart & brain surgery which are both coming up within the next few months.

I’ve been with a man for 8 1/2 years. We’ve been thru a lot together. I sensed about 3 weeks ago that he was having an affair. Yesterday he confirmed it.

Today he basically broke up with me. He said we’re no longer partners. He sees himself as my caregiver. Period.

I told him...remember when I told you I couldn't do this without you by my side? He said yeah. I said yeah well now I'm doing this without you by my side. Ya know what that makes you? An asshole. Do you feel like an asshole? He said no he didn't. I said well you are.

So now I have a game plan. That man won't know what to think when I'm done with him! You’re all invited to join in. The one thing I ask is that your posts should absolutely make me laugh. Wanna help make him jealous? On your mark! Get set! Whatcha waiting for? Goooooooo!

well here are some random thoughts in reaction to your post:
first of all, i am sorry for your health issues and hope that you can survive the surgeries and recover quickly

because he left you in an hour of such need, yes he is a quintessential asshole but more importantly either he doesn't know what love is, or he never loved you to start with

as your situation sounds quite serious, is it really worth spending your valuable time on him in any shape form or fashion? you probably can not get revenge on him and simply judging by his leaving you at this time, nothing you do matters much to him anyway

in fact, if possible, it would be better to kick his sorry ass to the curve and go it alone than to know that someone is probably begrudgingly taking care of you out of pity versus love

i hope for you peace and calm and medical success. hopefully a long future life with lots of opportunities and best loves yet to be found!

 

[NewOldGuy77]

I haven’t been here in a looong time. 8 1/2 years to be precise. I used to hang out here a lot. Some things you should know about me. I’m disabled. Right now I need heart & brain surgery which are both coming up within the next few months.

I’ve been with a man for 8 1/2 years. We’ve been thru a lot together. I sensed about 3 weeks ago that he was having an affair. Yesterday he confirmed it.

Today he basically broke up with me. He said we’re no longer partners. He sees himself as my caregiver. Period.

I told him...remember when I told you I couldn't do this without you by my side? He said yeah. I said yeah well now I'm doing this without you by my side. Ya know what that makes you? An asshole. Do you feel like an asshole? He said no he didn't. I said well you are.

So now I have a game plan. That man won't know what to think when I'm done with him! You’re all invited to join in. The one thing I ask is that your posts should absolutely make me laugh. Wanna help make him jealous? On your mark! Get set! Whatcha waiting for? Goooooooo!

OK, so this dude has TOTALLY betrayed you, a long-term partner, when you're vulnerable, going through a crisis and need him most.

In the courtroom of Judge NewOldGuy77, I hereby declare him lower than the following:

• The basement of the Mariana Trench (36,037 feet)
• The bottom of Crater Lake, (1949 feet, the second-deepest lake in North America)
• The wreckage of the Titanic (12,500 feet below the Atlantic)
• The remains of the Edmund Fitzgerald (530 feet below Lake Superior's surface)
• The 50+ warships laying beneath Iron Bottom Sound in the Solomon Islands (1967 feet beneath the waves)

And worst of all:

• The guy who wrote the Kars-4Kids jingle

THAT'S PRETTY DAMNED LOW!!!

 

[Gbchris]

I haven’t been here in a looong time. 8 1/2 years to be precise. I used to hang out here a lot. Some things you should know about me. I’m disabled. Right now I need heart & brain surgery which are both coming up within the next few months.

I’ve been with a man for 8 1/2 years. We’ve been thru a lot together. I sensed about 3 weeks ago that he was having an affair. Yesterday he confirmed it.

Today he basically broke up with me. He said we’re no longer partners. He sees himself as my caregiver. Period.

I told him...remember when I told you I couldn't do this without you by my side? He said yeah. I said yeah well now I'm doing this without you by my side. Ya know what that makes you? An asshole. Do you feel like an asshole? He said no he didn't. I said well you are.

So now I have a game plan. That man won't know what to think when I'm done with him! You’re all invited to join in. The one thing I ask is that your posts should absolutely make me laugh. Wanna help make him jealous? On your mark! Get set! Whatcha waiting for? Goooooooo!

What a selfish bastard