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Lit is a world of alts. How many Lit identities have you posted under?

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I've already been growled at twice today for having the audacity to schedule a meeting on the first day after the holidays.

I got shit to do, people! ;)

The glow is fading fast...
 
I've already been growled at twice today for having the audacity to schedule a meeting on the first day after the holidays.

I got shit to do, people! ;)

The glow is fading fast...

The glow has faded, someone scheduled me for a 7 am call..bastards.


I may be one of the ones growling. I could not drag it out of bed this AM, and was clearly not mentally prepared to be back in the office.
 
My holiday glow is at a low flicker. Took down the Christmas tree and all the decorations today. Ahh, it's nice to have my living room back and the ever falling tree needles have come to a halt.
Now the cat will have to find a different spot to resume his 18hr sleep schedule. Such a rough life. :cattail:
 
This about sums up my holiday glow:

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That was pretty funny Sam!

So the glow is gone and nothing is left but the bills. Thus endeth the Christmas season.

What is it that you want? Not the type of thing you had on your Christmas list but what is that deep down inside you want? Health and happiness, sure, of course. A roof over your head, yep, that makes sense too. But neither are what I'm talking about. What is that you want......
 
That was pretty funny Sam!

So the glow is gone and nothing is left but the bills. Thus endeth the Christmas season.

What is it that you want? Not the type of thing you had on your Christmas list but what is that deep down inside you want? Health and happiness, sure, of course. A roof over your head, yep, that makes sense too. But neither are what I'm talking about. What is that you want......

Sam...love it.


Well..what is it that we can want...since you've cancelled out many of the options?;)

I want.....
...to feel whole...by myself, with others.
...i want to be selfish and be on a doorstep in an instant
...I want puppies! !!!
...and a million bucks lol
 
I want diamonds. I'm due for some expensive jewelry.

Really, what I want is health to be restored to one of my loved ones. In lieu of that, I'll take those diamonds.
 
Is that your first request for anal of 2016, I mean that's fine and all, just want to make sure I have a good read on things.

Are you asking "for a friend"? And I just said the holiday can kiss it. Not fuck it. At most it's a request for a rim job.
 
That was pretty funny Sam!

So the glow is gone and nothing is left but the bills. Thus endeth the Christmas season.

What is it that you want? Not the type of thing you had on your Christmas list but what is that deep down inside you want? Health and happiness, sure, of course. A roof over your head, yep, that makes sense too. But neither are what I'm talking about. What is that you want......

Guitar #18. I need it. I truly do.
 
What I really want is:
A month long vacation. Two weeks to myself, one week with hubby and one week as a family. I'd like this four times a year please and destinations TBA prior to mood and season. And budget, yeah, there isn't one.
 
Guitars, vacations, even skittles....such a diverse group.

Diversity is a good thing, too much of the same perspective starts to cloud, bias our judgment. It's said that this seems to be a polarizing viewpoint these days but I don't want to make this political, instead, I'll make it sexual. (Sounds like the beginning of a song).

What are the things you do as part of your sex life that you always do? Every time , or nearly every time. And if you were to diversify your sexual activities what would you add in, would it be something complimentary or would you you go for something completely different? Or, are you good with what you are doing and see no need for diversification?
 
I don't like to call it a bias as much as a preference. maybe I have too much of the same thing because I like it that much. maybe I avoid that other thing because I've had it plenty and it's just not good for me.
anyway..
in my life.. sex isn't always the same but it isn't different enough that I'd say it isn't usually similar. I like when he orgasms more than once.. and I like when we lose count of mine
 
The only thing I can think of that we do EVERY time is kissing. Without fail there is always kissing.
We have a pretty diverse sex life, though oddly, we are in many ways sexually incompatible. Somehow we make it work. If we were to diversify it would have to be to some truly filthy level. And that's just not in one of our repertoires - I'll let you decide who. Either way, I'm happy and he's happy. Mewstly.

Everyone knows YOU are the filthy tart, not your sweet, innocent husband.

Like Rainshine, my sex life is pretty good. We incorporate toys and sex furniture and all that goodness into our routine. I get sex often, so that's not a problem either. So, it's not monotonous. But the one thing that happens every time is my wife gets fingered. She likes that, so we do that a lot.

However, like Rainshine, there are a few areas where sexual incompatibility exists. It's maybe on a 5-10% level. But sometimes that 5-10% needs to be scratched. In my fantasies, if I could add something else in it would be another girl. But trying to get that to happen is less likely than me pulling a bowling ball from a hummingbird's ass with tweezers from a mile away.
 
Let's see, kissing for one. Always some kissing back and forth. And two, I'm a fan of giving some oral pleasure. Teasing, licking, sucking... I've earned a golden star in my bedroom for my love of wanting and even begging for a cock in my mouth. Shrugs shoulders, guilty and filthy wrapped with a beautiful bow.

Oh I have a list of things I'd like added to the bedroom fun. It's all quite lovely now, but a few more doors could be opened. Baby steps, we'll get there eventually.
 
SM's comment about baby steps triggered a thought. It's about how do we proceed in getting what we want. For her, she pointed out baby steps, presumably happy with the slower road to get where she wants with an almost certainty of getting there. The complete opposite is jumping right in, sink or swim style. Almost instant gratification if it works but way higher risk of sinking, which nets you zero benefits. So which is it for you, working your way toward what you want baby steps style or jumping right in? Do different situations call for different approaches?
 
It's situational for me - though overall my preference is for slow and steady when opening new doors. Gives you a chance to slam it quick if there's a tiger waiting on the other side. (And a hungry tiger that wants to maul you, kill you, and eat you.)
 
Situational for me as well. For the most part though, I am a slow and steady kind of girl, methodical in my approach to things.
 
I, too, think it depends on the situation. Small steps, for example if I'm trying to hit a new p.r. in the gym or learn a new piece on the piano ...but other things may not need baby steps at all--jumping in for that instant gratification is sometimes just what I need. ;)
 
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