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[Mebtaz2000]

I keep my dirty deep inside my head. So if you only knew me IRL and then you stumbled upon the lit me, you would say I am a giant contradiction but I tend to think it is not that at all, that we all have different facets of "us" and sometimes you are only able to share those parts of you with like minded (re: kinky f-ers) people.

I go to church every Sunday so no worries chained. You would be fine.

Lil-Sis, did you just call us at Lit (kinky f-ers)?

 

[Little_Sister]

Yes but 'kinky f-ers" is MUCH more endearing than "horny f-ers"!!

 

[BongoGal]

Yes but 'kinky f-ers" is MUCH more endearing than "horny f-ers"!!

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[sweetsophie512]

Nope, didn't get hit by lightning although I will admit to being worried about that whenever I walk into a church.....

And that brings up the thought of contradictions. Are you willing to admit yours? What are you willing to put up with? What makes lightning bolts crash around you?

I've always been a picture of contrast, contradictions. Am I willing to admit it? Sure, for a price of admission. Some of it, I'm aware of, others I'm just starting to be. Those things that I'm still working on takes a bit of introspection and I'm not too eager to share those and *only* with people that I trust. I'm not too keen on exposing that side of myself that I'm not quite sure of yet.

In my opinion, that's what makes someone interesting - the complexity in their personality. If everyone was the same, it wouldn't be exciting to discover what lies beneath the surface, at least for me.

The things that make my heart race with apprehension are usually the things that I'm drawn to, lightning included.

 

[multitalentman]

Nope, didn't get hit by lightning although I will admit to being worried about that whenever I walk into a church.....

And that brings up the thought of contradictions. Are you willing to admit yours? What are you willing to put up with? What makes lightning bolts crash around you?

I am able to admit mine, in certain company. The lightning only charges my batteries. Currently at 400% capacity.

 

[multitalentman]

Yes but 'kinky f-ers" is MUCH more endearing than "horny f-ers"!!

I doubt you could write anything that isn't endearing hon. your just too sweet.

 

[multitalentman]

I've always been a picture of contrast, contradictions. Am I willing to admit it? Sure, for a price of admission. Some of it, I'm aware of, others I'm just starting to be. Those things that I'm still working on takes a bit of introspection and I'm not too eager to share those and *only* with people that I trust. I'm not too keen on exposing that side of myself that I'm not quite sure of yet.

In my opinion, that's what makes someone interesting - the complexity in their personality. If everyone was the same, it wouldn't be exciting to discover what lies beneath the surface, at least for me.

The things that make my heart race with apprehension are usually the things that I'm drawn to, lightning included.

I knew I liked you for more than those hot legs!

 

[ChainedUp]

Hello all. I've decided to take an extended break from Lit. Life is getting busy and the fun and excitement that I used to find here is no longer there. I've taken breaks previously for varying periods of time but this one feels different going in. For some reason, feels more permanent.

For those that have enjoyed what I brought to our little community, I'm glad to have provided. As the saying goes around here, never say never, and never say good bye.

Feel free to continue with this thread as you are wont. It can flourish or it can wither, for what it is is not defined by what it may become.

Chained

 

[dutchrain]

Hello all. I've decided to take an extended break from Lit. Life is getting busy and the fun and excitement that I used to find here is no longer there. I've taken breaks previously for varying periods of time but this one feels different going in. For some reason, feels more permanent.

For those that have enjoyed what I brought to our little community, I'm glad to have provided. As the saying goes around here, never say never, and never say good bye.

Feel free to continue with this thread as you are wont. It can flourish or it can wither, for what it is is not defined by what it may become.

Chained

(rose:))

I wish you all the best, and a whole lot of RL fun and excitement between the business. I'll miss you!

 

[Thandi]

Hello all. I've decided to take an extended break from Lit. Life is getting busy and the fun and excitement that I used to find here is no longer there. I've taken breaks previously for varying periods of time but this one feels different going in. For some reason, feels more permanent.

For those that have enjoyed what I brought to our little community, I'm glad to have provided. As the saying goes around here, never say never, and never say good bye.

Feel free to continue with this thread as you are wont. It can flourish or it can wither, for what it is is not defined by what it may become.

Chained

I will miss your insightful ponderings.
Stay well and happy.

 

[Lord Pmann]

Hello all. I've decided to take an extended break from Lit. Life is getting busy and the fun and excitement that I used to find here is no longer there. I've taken breaks previously for varying periods of time but this one feels different going in. For some reason, feels more permanent.

For those that have enjoyed what I brought to our little community, I'm glad to have provided. As the saying goes around here, never say never, and never say good bye.

Feel free to continue with this thread as you are wont. It can flourish or it can wither, for what it is is not defined by what it may become.

Chained

I bid you good tidings papa chained. You were like a father to me.

As you requested, I'll be sure to help keep your thread alive. I'll ensure not a single person has too much fun. If they do, I'll pistol whip their asses.

But seriously, best of luck with whatever it is you've got going.

Cheers.

 

[dutchrain]

I think Pmann needs a deputy. A deputy who is able to keep him from pistol whipping our asses too soon and too hard.

 

[jameslewis]

Hello all. I've decided to take an extended break from Lit. Life is getting busy and the fun and excitement that I used to find here is no longer there. I've taken breaks previously for varying periods of time but this one feels different going in. For some reason, feels more permanent.

For those that have enjoyed what I brought to our little community, I'm glad to have provided. As the saying goes around here, never say never, and never say good bye.

Feel free to continue with this thread as you are wont. It can flourish or it can wither, for what it is is not defined by what it may become.

Chained

Fare thee well and good luck. You've made a valuable contribution. Hope you find the fun and excitement you seek, wherever you happen to seek it.

 

[TheSilverLining]

Hello all. I've decided to take an extended break from Lit. Life is getting busy and the fun and excitement that I used to find here is no longer there. I've taken breaks previously for varying periods of time but this one feels different going in. For some reason, feels more permanent.

For those that have enjoyed what I brought to our little community, I'm glad to have provided. As the saying goes around here, never say never, and never say good bye.

Feel free to continue with this thread as you are wont. It can flourish or it can wither, for what it is is not defined by what it may become.

Chained

See you later, papa chained!

 

[RubenesqueAphrodite]

good luck

 

[Endless_Night]

Best wishes.

 

[Lord Pmann]

I think Pmann needs a deputy. A deputy who is able to keep him from pistol whipping our asses too soon and too hard.

Papa gave me his tights and everything. And his gun. And his bullet.

 

[dutchrain]

Papa gave me his tights and everything. And his gun. And his bullet.

Just the one bullet? We are in the clear then. You'll never use it because then you won't have it anymore.

 

[Little_Sister]

Sad to see you go but I understand the need to run away, screaming... oh I mean take a break. We will miss you big guy. Take care.

 

[Lord Pmann]

Okay... Since Papa Chained has headed out, I'll ask questions until a more suitable replacement steps up. And we all know, that ain't happening. I kid, I kid.

But I'll ask this today...

We all have certain kinks. Not me, because I'm really sweet and vanilla. But you know many of you are kinky freaks. When you meet someone, how important is it that your partner shares those same kinks? How much do you need them to share? Every kink? Most of them? Or do you keep your kinks all hidden inside? How easy do you find it to express them?

 

[JennyNo1]

Hello all. I've decided to take an extended break from Lit. Life is getting busy and the fun and excitement that I used to find here is no longer there. I've taken breaks previously for varying periods of time but this one feels different going in. For some reason, feels more permanent.

For those that have enjoyed what I brought to our little community, I'm glad to have provided. As the saying goes around here, never say never, and never say good bye.

Feel free to continue with this thread as you are wont. It can flourish or it can wither, for what it is is not defined by what it may become.

Chained

Sorry I missed this yesterday. In case you check in.....best of luck. You will be missed, and thanks for starting and nurturing such a thought-provoking thread. It has been an invaluable contribution to the Lit community.

 

[dutchrain]

Okay... Since Papa Chained has headed out, I'll ask questions until a more suitable replacement steps up. And we all know, that ain't happening. I kid, I kid.

But I'll ask this today...

We all have certain kinks. Not me, because I'm really sweet and vanilla. But you know many of you are kinky freaks. When you meet someone, how important is it that your partner shares those same kinks? How much do you need them to share? Every kink? Most of them? Or do you keep your kinks all hidden inside? How easy do you find it to express them?

It depends. On how much I crave a certain thing, on the partner, on it all happening online or in RL. Living out my kinks online does help enormously with not being able to do so with some in RL. It is a surrogate, but a very nice one. Thank you internet!

 

[Lord Pmann]

^^^
I agree.

And hey, sometimes people just click. Sometimes it seems like an obvious thing. Sometimes it's not.

For me, most people would have no idea that sometimes I even like having sex from behind. Yeah. Totally crazy.

 

[Little_Sister]

Okay... Since Papa Chained has headed out, I'll ask questions until a more suitable replacement steps up. And we all know, that ain't happening. I kid, I kid.

But I'll ask this today...

We all have certain kinks. Not me, because I'm really sweet and vanilla. But you know many of you are kinky freaks. When you meet someone, how important is it that your partner shares those same kinks? How much do you need them to share? Every kink? Most of them? Or do you keep your kinks all hidden inside? How easy do you find it to express them?

It depends. On how much I crave a certain thing, on the partner, on it all happening online or in RL. Living out my kinks online does help enormously with not being able to do so with some in RL. It is a surrogate, but a very nice one. Thank you internet!

I agree. Are we talking real life or online?

Real life- hubs doesn't share any of my kinks so I would say it is not important at all.

Online- that is why I am here after all but I like having a connection first. There are many people who may share my kinks that I have no desire chatting with but there are also many that may not share my kinks but I still like chatting with. It boils down to connection... can you make me laugh? can you take me teasing you and not get your feelings hurt? do you get mad if I post on the board *gasp* before returning a PM? do you want a friend or a flame? All those are more important than kinks but that said if all of the above are in line, and you want to talk about something I find nauseating, it still wont work.

 

[sweetsophie512]

I agree. Are we talking real life or online?

Real life- hubs doesn't share any of my kinks so I would say it is not important at all.

Online- that is why I am here after all but I like having a connection first. There are many people who may share my kinks that I have no desire chatting with but there are also many that may not share my kinks but I still like chatting with. It boils down to connection... can you make me laugh? can you take me teasing you and not get your feelings hurt? do you get mad if I post on the board *gasp* before returning a PM? do you want a friend or a flame? All those are more important than kinks but that said if all of the above are in line, and you want to talk about something I find nauseating, it still wont work.

That always amused me.

*grin*

It's simple. Do we have chemistry? Is that chemistry going to lead to a connection? If so, then I'm willing to share those kinks and thoughts. Without that, it's pretty much not going to happen. I'm still willing to be friends, but that's all it's going to be.

There have been times I think there's chemistry with someone, but if they're not willing to engage with me, I don't put the effort to do so. I don't chase that stuff. I figure that if it's going to go anywhere, it takes two people to make it happen.