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[37_ttej]

That always amused me.

*grin*

It's simple. Do we have chemistry? Is that chemistry going to lead to a connection? If so, then I'm willing to share those kinks and thoughts. Without that, it's pretty much not going to happen. I'm still willing to be friends, but that's all it's going to be.

There have been times I think there's chemistry with someone, but if they're not willing to engage with me, I don't put the effort to do so. I don't chase that stuff. I figure that if it's going to go anywhere, it takes two people to make it happen.

Mostly my chemistry leads to a correction.
It would be nicer if it were an erection, but sadly that is not the case.
My pharmaceutical prescriptions sadly do not include Viagra.
Or Horny Goat Weed.

 

[sweetsophie512]

Mostly my chemistry leads to a correction.
It would be nicer if it were an erection, but sadly that is not the case.
My pharmaceutical prescriptions sadly do not include Viagra.
Or Horny Goat Weed.

It leads to a correction?

Hmmmm ... is that a combination of a connection and an erection?

You're more awesome than most!

 

[37_ttej]

It leads to a correction?

Hmmmm ... is that a combination of a connection and an erection?

You're more awesome than most!

Yeah, my comedic mania sometimes goes a little too far.
Thanks for the compliment though.

Hang on ... whaddya mean by "than most"?
Is that sneaky code for "on the scale of awesomeness you're just a bit better than average"!?

*humph*

Appreciation retracted.

(kidding - really, thankyou )

 

[Aurantica]

We all have certain kinks. Not me, because I'm really sweet and vanilla. But you know many of you are kinky freaks. When you meet someone, how important is it that your partner shares those same kinks? How much do you need them to share? Every kink? Most of them? Or do you keep your kinks all hidden inside? How easy do you find it to express them?

For me, a partner HAS to share a few of my basic kinks, bondage and some domination being foremost in my mind. Other stuff like styles of submission, what is expected of me etc. is important too. Really specific stuff like certain setups and acts can come and go, so those are usually brought up during "list sessions" or pre-play. Very often He's mentioned stuff that he likes, I say " me too!" and we include it in our play.

 

[sweetsophie512]

Yeah, my comedic mania sometimes goes a little too far.
Thanks for the compliment though.

Hang on ... whaddya mean by "than most"?
Is that sneaky code for "on the scale of awesomeness you're just a bit better than average"!?

*humph*

Appreciation retracted.

(kidding - really, thankyou )

You're welcome!

Oh wait. You retracted it?!?

Most translates to 98% of the population.

That's not good enough?!?

 

[RubenesqueAphrodite]

Sharing similar sexual preferences and kinks with a partner is, in my humble opinion, crucial to the overall sustainability of the relationship. Unless I'm missing something here, if you don't share those things with your partner, then you are close friends at best, but not lovers.

 

[SmileyGirl]

Hello all. I've decided to take an extended break from Lit. Life is getting busy and the fun and excitement that I used to find here is no longer there. I've taken breaks previously for varying periods of time but this one feels different going in. For some reason, feels more permanent.

For those that have enjoyed what I brought to our little community, I'm glad to have provided. As the saying goes around here, never say never, and never say good bye.

Feel free to continue with this thread as you are wont. It can flourish or it can wither, for what it is is not defined by what it may become.

Chained

Take care Chains
I hope you come back and visit.

 

[Lord Pmann]

Looks like I'm a shitty thread overlord.

It's a quick and lazy question tonight. When the weekend comes to an end, do you look forward to the week or dread it?

For me, I have elements of both. Some things about the week are wonderful to me. The restful nature of the weekends are nice, but these days I'm really enjoying the weekdays.

 

[dutchrain]

Looks like I'm a shitty thread overlord.

It's a quick and lazy question tonight. When the weekend comes to an end, do you look forward to the week or dread it?

For me, I have elements of both. Some things about the week are wonderful to me. The restful nature of the weekends are nice, but these days I'm really enjoying the weekdays.

Elements of both for me too. Also when looking at the upcoming weekend at the end of the week. I wouldn't call the feeling "dread" though. Maybe annoyed. I sometimes am annoyed by the boring chores which just pop up day after day.

 

[JennyNo1]

The longer I work, the more I enjoy my time off. In fact, it's starting to feel more normal than work days do. So while I don't dread weekdays, they're not my favorite

 

[Miasorrow]

When I was back at school, I used to hate weekdays. I can still rememeber that Sunday's evening melancholy.

Now that I am working, I really enjoy the start of the new week. Getting some relaxed moments with friends and family on weekends fuel me up.

 

[dutchrain]

When I was back at school, I used to hate weekdays. I can still rememeber that Sunday's evening melancholy.

Now that I am working, I really enjoy the start of the new week. Getting some relaxed moments with friends and family on weekends fuel me up.

I didn't hate the weekdays when I was in school, but I do remember the Sunday evening melancholy. It was about the routine setting in again. The weekend was for fun. And for helping my mom cleaning the house on Saturday. But that was rewarded by some pocket-money. And I could decide when to do my chore as long as it was done by midday. Which sounded much more appealing than "Do it at ten"

 

[Lord Pmann]

Alright. Hello my valued subjects. After a weekend of laziness, I've decided to roll out of bed, climb over the four lingerie models in bed with me, throw on my kingly robe and get my ass back into some proper thread ruling. As always, I'm the most stylish king of all. Hear ye, hear ye fuckers!

http://i1161.photobucket.com/albums/q518/pmann83/image_zpsdbf47464.jpg

Now, I'm a bit rusty with thread managing and all. So, forgive your king if he fails. Papa Chained did leave me his gun and his bullet. Let that be a warning for anyone trying to have fun and enjoy themselves.

In proper tribute to Papa Chained, I'll ask this question in regards to his departure. He said that his time here seemed like it was coming to a close because it wasn't fun anymore. How many of you feel that way about Lit sometimes? Do you feel like it's more burden than benefit? And if it is, can you take that needed step back from it all?

 

[GiggLeGasm]

Alright.. Do you feel like it's more burden than benefit? And if it is, can you take that needed step back from it all?

I really can step away from Lit and tend to life. Lately, things have been hectic here. My son had surgery that isn't going as well as he'd hoped. We're too busy at work (I've worked 7 of the last 9 days). I joined a group that is letting me sing again. I have an aunt AND an uncle in the hospital.. extra sad because they've been married forever and their hospitals are about 45 minutes apart.. it's just a lot of attention spent elsewhere..
so, I deal with the things I need to deal with.
If I notice that this place isn't "fun" or that I'm trying to hard, I tend to back off and try to figure out what my other stressors are so that I can focus on those things.

btw.. lovely breakfast attire. I especially like the accessories.

 

[Bitesback]

btw.. lovely breakfast attire. I especially like the accessories.

I have to ask, Pmann, what happened to your balls?

Are they now mounted on your scepter?

Who knackered you? And how did you get them back?

 

[Lord Pmann]

I have to ask, Pmann, what happened to your balls?

Are they now mounted on your scepter?

Who knackered you? And how did you get them back?

They are there. It's just cold! Leave them alone.

 

[SmileyGirl]

If I felt like Lit was ever a burden then I would stay away for sure. What's the point in being somewhere that causes you unhappiness? Lit is supposed to be fun...atleast that's how I see it

 

[sweetsophie512]

How many of you feel that way about Lit sometimes? Do you feel like it's more burden than benefit? And if it is, can you take that needed step back from it all?

It's just like everything else, you keep it in perspective.

If it's getting pervasive, you evaluate and then you decide how you want to handle it. I think for some, it gets to the point where they need to focus on other things and so they do. I don't think it's a matter of it isn't fun anymore. We all have 24 hours in a day and we have to decide what's important and allocate our time as needed.

By the way, pmann, love the teal robe!

 

[dutchrain]

Lit doesn't get a burden to me, but sometimes it is too much of a good thing. Sometimes I feel like I have indulged too much. You know that queasy feeling when you ate too much of your favorite food? A bit like that. And then I'll pull back a little.

Or actually, I don't pull back, I just don't open it as much as before. And if I open it, I'll take a look at my subscriptions and if somethings there interests me, I'll look at the thread, and maybe post.

Pmann, are you gong to post a pic of you everyday now? I really do hope so ...

 

[Lord Pmann]

I think Papa Chained would be sad if this turned into a pmann pic thread, as awesome as that would be. But perhaps whilst I am dancing about in my kingly robe, I shall snap a photo for ye lot. Maybe when it's not so cold, as that will settle the questions about the existence of my balls. *squints*

 

[Endless_Night]

In proper tribute to Papa Chained, I'll ask this question in regards to his departure. He said that his time here seemed like it was coming to a close because it wasn't fun anymore. How many of you feel that way about Lit sometimes? Do you feel like it's more burden than benefit? And if it is, can you take that needed step back from it all?

For me, Lit is about relaxation, a frivolity I don't have the time or inclination for in daily life. Like anything else, it's expected there will be ups and downs. But if it isn't fun, doesn't make my heart light, then there's no point.

Once or twice, the burden/benefit ratios have come into question. Taking a step back seems the logical, smart course of action.

Loving those pink shoes Pmann!

 

[Lord Pmann]

The royal pink shippers seem to be a hit.

 

[Bitesback]

They are there. It's just cold! Leave them alone.

I've never had a man ask me to leave his balls alone before.

Take note, ladies, do NOT touch Pmann's balls!

Some days are more fun at Lit than others. There have been threads that have gone off the rails for a bit and I've chosen to stay away for a while. Others are more fun for some silly asides. My concern is that Chained is far from alone. Some have left to deal with major events in their lives but plenty of others have left out of boredom and frustration. The reinforcement of image posting rules put a few people off continuing here, especially when threads disappeared without contacting the OP. And the restrictive image posting rules have made plenty of threads harder to follow and much less fun. The continuity is lost when you are forever clicking open and shut links to see a post.

I've stepped back for a bit before. I think that's a good thing to do anyway regardless of experiences here.

Good question Pmann, and it didn't take balls to ask it.

 

[Lord Pmann]

Quick question today and it's one I'm always interested in. I may have even asked before when I was interim thread king.

Guilty pleasures... What are yours? Here at Lit. And in your everyday life. What draws you in that you wish you could steer clear of, but you just can't? Bad music (Nickelback? Bad TV (Family Guy)? Bad food (Kraft Mac N Cheese)? Stupid threads? Ridiculous Listers?

 

[Collar_N_Cuffs]

Quick question today and it's one I'm always interested in. I may have even asked before when I was interim thread king.

Guilty pleasures... What are yours? Here at Lit. And in your everyday life. What draws you in that you wish you could steer clear of, but you just can't? Bad music (Nickelback? Bad TV (Family Guy)? Bad food (Kraft Mac N Cheese)? Stupid threads? Ridiculous Listers?

I honestly don't feel guilty about my pleasures, which are probably too many to count... If anything comes close, I would say a few too many glasses of wine Because I enjoy so many things though, nothing really gets to the point where it's out of hand. Yet

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PS - The hairy bit on the scepter... over the line. Well done