Litiquette2

[dutchrain]

It's a quiet Sunday morning. How many of you are already planning Lit naughty fun for today? Maybe your man will be busy watching football. Or a partner is going to be out for a couple of hours. Do you make plans for your naughty fun or do you just let it happen?

I just let it happen most of the time.

 

[Collar_N_Cuffs]

No real need to plan naughty fun, as it is rather really available here...

 

[BrokenRomantic]

It's a quiet Sunday morning. How many of you are already planning Lit naughty fun for today? Maybe your man will be busy watching football. Or a partner is going to be out for a couple of hours. Do you make plans for your naughty fun or do you just let it happen?

Maybe I'm the weird one. I've got laundry to do. Who has time for naughty fun?

 

[Violetvixen1]

Maybe I'm the weird one. I've got laundry to do. Who has time for naughty fun?

Story of my freaking life right there.

 

[RubenesqueAphrodite]

It's a quiet Sunday morning. How many of you are already planning Lit naughty fun for today? Maybe your man will be busy watching football. Or a partner is going to be out for a couple of hours. Do you make plans for your naughty fun or do you just let it happen?

What is this 'naughty fun' of which you speak??!??

 

[ChainedUp]

Apparently everyone was full up on being naughty and couldn't make their way in. Looks like deep thinking topics will return tomorrow.

 

[SweetSam42]

I didn't get to participate in free for all Saturday, and Friday's topic was too deep for me.

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[RubenesqueAphrodite]

Apparently everyone was full up on being naughty and couldn't make their way in. Looks like deep thinking topics will return tomorrow.

Please, God, no... no more thought provoking..

How about something fun like do you like wet walnuts with your two scoops...?

 

[rubydlite]

It's a quiet Sunday morning. How many of you are already planning Lit naughty fun for today? Maybe your man will be busy watching football. Or a partner is going to be out for a couple of hours. Do you make plans for your naughty fun or do you just let it happen?

3 kids and a hub and lit being a secret...i take naughty fun when I can get it . I wish I could.plan...but it never ever works out.

I didn't get to participate in free for all Saturday, and Friday's topic was too deep for me.

http://cdn.iwastesomuchtime.com/662012184350ggg.gif

This birdie is adorable!!!!

 

[rubydlite]

Please, God, no... no more thought provoking..

How about something fun like do you like wet walnuts with your two scoops...?

I feel this is in innuendo but I don't get it...lol

 

[RubenesqueAphrodite]

I feel this is in innuendo but I don't get it...lol

I'm shocked...absolutely SHOCKED, I tell you, that you'd imply any innuendo from me..

 

[rubydlite]

I'm shocked...absolutely SHOCKED, I tell you, that you'd imply any innuendo from me..

Lolol....it'll be my secret

 

[Bitesback]

A catch up for Chained

I am a victim of time zones....my time here does not always mean I can comment in a timely manner. And speaking of time, might I suggest that a Free a For All Fridays works better with people in Chained's time zone winding down for the week and getting a bit frivolous for such an open field, but Saturdays are for more directed interests?

Now to directed interests....

Perceptions. We try to manage them but it's a never ending job. We say we don't care what others think but we do. We hope our deeds speak louder than our words but often they do not.

Vicious surmised that I wouldn't have a tattoo. Do I want to foster that perception? If I have one, should I correct her? What if I want my perceived persona to be someone who wouldn't have one. Maybe I can use this as an opportunity to say I do have one an weave that fact into the perception model.

How often do you work on managing how others see you.

I think managing is the key word here. Managing would be over stating it. I try to be respectful, open, honest and show an interest in others. Hopefully that means some will find me engaging. But I don't try to orchestrate my words or deeds to try to achieve those things beyond my normal inclination. Whether I care what anybody thinks of me depends upon the other person. I don't like disappointing the people people I care about, and would rather others felt positive in their interactions with me.

Did I read correctly that someone has a tattoo story they should share?..

It's a quiet Sunday morning. How many of you are already planning Lit naughty fun for today? Maybe your man will be busy watching football. Or a partner is going to be out for a couple of hours. Do you make plans for your naughty fun or do you just let it happen?

My Sundays are, for most of you, your Saturday nights. My focus is on my family on Sundays and most of you lot have better things to do on your Saturday nights than play here.
Monday mornings are far more interesting for me.

And almost nothing happens without some planning. Life is just too complicated. But, plans build anticipation...

 

[ChainedUp]

Times zones can be the bane of life here at Lit. A couple hours or 14, it seems like no matter what, it's hard to overcome. In RL there's the romantic notion of love conquering all. On lit, it seems like list doesn't quite have that sort of perseverance. Does Lit lust come easy for you or is it a game of give and take?

 

[dutchrain]

On Lit lust conquers timezones sometimes. Of course the lust has to be so big and promising one of the involved people gladly scarifies some sleep over getting the satisfaction the lust offers.

For me it mostly is a game of give and take though. With some it comes easy. It all depends on the connection there is. Just like in RL, you can't hurry it ...

 

[All_4_Love]

Times zones can be the bane of life here at Lit. A couple hours or 14, it seems like no matter what, it's hard to overcome. In RL there's the romantic noticing of love conquering all. On lit, it seems like list doesn't quite have that sort of perseverance. Does Lit lust come easy for you or is it a game of give and take?

Mmm…

Love does, indeed, conquer all. *swoons*

I know very little of this Lit lust of which you speak. I imagine it would be the same as in real life, the chaos of every day stuff getting in the way. That’s why in RL, quickies are so awesome, because there may only be that small window of opportunity, but at least you’re still fortunate enough to experience connecting with your partner on a physically and emotionally intimate level.

Is there such a thing as a “Lit quickie”? If not, perhaps there should be.

 

[makinmepurr]

Is there such a thing as a “Lit quickie”? If not, perhaps there should be.

Yes, yes there is.

 

[All_4_Love]

Yes, yes there is.

Oh, stop it! You're makin' me purr.

 

[dutchrain]

Yes, yes there is.

The famous LQ!

 

[All_4_Love]

The famous LQ!

Wow! There's even an acronym for it!

 

[Bitesback]

Mmm…

Love does, indeed, conquer all. *swoons*

I know very little of this Lit lust of which you speak. I imagine it would be the same as in real life, the chaos of every day stuff getting in the way. That’s why in RL, quickies are so awesome, because there may only be that small window of opportunity, but at least you’re still fortunate enough to experience connecting with your partner on a physically and emotionally intimate level.

Is there such a thing as a “Lit quickie”? If not, perhaps there should be.

Of course there is such a thing as a Lit quickie. Two people who manage to connect here and quickly find that their needs for sexual release are met online...I am sure happens all the time. For me, probably not with someone new, although I do believe that people connect here on a 'one and done' basis. But someone with whom I feel comfortable already and we both know enough about each other to make it a mutually satisfactory encounter without feeling constrained by the time constraints, I could be up for that... Friends with benefits, perhaps?

Does it beat a real life quickie with a partner on a physical and emotionally intimate level? Well, it's hard to see how it could... hard to beat that...

Love may conquer all but love on Lit is not necessarily sought nor found. For those who enjoy continuing online relationships, it is difficult accommodating schedules constrained by time differences and real life routines. And three hours difference can be just as hard to accommodate as 14, whether you are hoping for a quickie or something more.

***Thank you ladies for enlightening me about the LQ...clearly I missed that memo.
Long hand suggestions are more likely to put me in the mood than acronyms and text speak, but that takes time....and would defeat the purpose of the quickie.

 

[BrokenRomantic]

Times zones can be the bane of life here at Lit. A couple hours or 14, it seems like no matter what, it's hard to overcome. In RL there's the romantic notion of love conquering all. On lit, it seems like list doesn't quite have that sort of perseverance. Does Lit lust come easy for you or is it a game of give and take?

LIT lust doesn't come easy for me, period. It would take a connection and trust, as would real life, and that takes time.

As far as differing time zones and routines go, they're difficult enough just to maintain a decent friendship, much less a relationship. Thankfully, technology allows us the freedom to communicate without the need of sitting at home on a computer or paying for expensive overseas phone calls. In that respect, we have a bit more freedom to include a friend that's so far away into our daily life.

 

[makinmepurr]

Oh, stop it! You're makin' me purr.

You're welcome.

As for answering the original question, when it comes to lit lust, I have very limited time these days, and my windows of opportunity aren't always open at the right time for certain special lovers to crawl in....

 

[DesEsseintes]

my windows of opportunity aren't always open at the right time for certain special lovers to crawl in....

A beautiful metaphor. Though also quite rapey.

 

[All_4_Love]

A beautiful metaphor. Though also quite rapey.

Geez! I don't know which is hotter, what you just said here, or your new AV picture...

Either way, I'm putting my hands together.