Litiquette VII

[QuietCanadian]

Agree
But then sometimes music makes my mind wander to places I don’t wanna go...

This is true. Music is both the best and the worst because it can make you feel all the things.

 

[Trixxii]

Sex and scuba diving.
The two best ways for me to stay in the present moment.
What are yours?
How do you keep that mind from hurtling into the future or lingering too long in the past?

Meditation. Between 4.30 and 5.30 am. Every day. It's been a great way to redirect my insomnia, also makes my OCD and any/all chaos much more bearable. Before Covid, it was mostly all guided ...Zoom isn't the same at all, so it took alot of discipline to get on a schedule, but it's working for me.

And, other than sex, partner or self... I'd say my nightly hot soaks. Sometimes just with myself, sometimes with a book or music and glass of wine.

 

[QuietCanadian]

I'd say my nightly hot soaks. Sometimes just with myself, sometimes with a book or music and glass of wine.

I'm not going to lie, that sounds like a fantastic idea.

I just started doing some guided meditations. I understand that, like anything, it takes practice, but man alive I need someone telling me what to do while I meditate right now.

 

[Trixxii]

I'm not going to lie, that sounds like a fantastic idea.

I just started doing some guided meditations. I understand that, like anything, it takes practice, but man alive I need someone telling me what to do while I meditate right now.

Good for you! It does take practice. If you have a busy mind, it also takes patience. I keep meditation separate from everything else, mind only for me. In time, you’ll know what works best for you too. Hardest is just learning to be still. I started, advice from an instructor, minutes in the morning, minutes at night, in bed, practicing just that. It was 8 minutes for me and I built up from there. Keep this in mind if you feel frustrated or like it's not working for you.

 

[numeniusa]

Sex and scuba diving.
The two best ways for me to stay in the present moment.
What are yours?
How do you keep that mind from hurtling into the future or lingering too long in the past?

I'm quite enjoying projecting into the future and remembering the past at the moment - mainly in the hope of being able to do those things again, or looking forward to doing new things when the world is more normal again. I'm finding it ... sustaining.

But 'in the moment' - that would probably be cycling, for me. There's enough to do to keep you focussed (lest you fall off!), but it's not massively intense, and that combination is very mentally relaxing to me.

 

[investor2020]

The hot tub . . . 4 different jet seats . . . 102 degrees . . . 20 minutes, three times/week . . . perfect for relaxation and the thought process.

 

[QuietCanadian]

Good for you! It does take practice. If you have a busy mind, it also takes patience. I keep meditation separate from everything else, mind only for me. In time, you’ll know what works best for you too. Hardest is just learning to be still. I started, advice from an instructor, minutes in the morning, minutes at night, in bed, practicing just that. It was 8 minutes for me and I built up from there. Keep this in mind if you feel frustrated or like it's not working for you.

Thank you! This is helpful. I have a very busy mind and I do find it difficult to stop being fidgety, do I've started with five minutes... Baby steps.

 

[Trixxii]

Thank you! This is helpful. I have a very busy mind and I do find it difficult to stop being fidgety, do I've started with five minutes... Baby steps.

No problem. And absolutely! Baby steps!

 

[parker77]

Sex and scuba diving.
The two best ways for me to stay in the present moment.
What are yours?
How do you keep that mind from hurtling into the future or lingering too long in the past?

i got older, and this problem took care of itself. all i know that i have is the moment.

 

[Orchidea73]

Sex and scuba diving.
The two best ways for me to stay in the present moment.
What are yours?
How do you keep that mind from hurtling into the future or lingering too long in the past?

Carpe Diem.

 

[investor2020]

Carpe Diem.

Illegitimi Non Carborundum

 

[SMNaughtywife]

Happy Monday.

Trekka and I are both a little hungry, wanty and needy today.
And in the mood for something to snack on. Drool over. Let our imaginations run wild. Sneak to a quiet spot with our wandering fingers, vibe in the pocket and see how wet our panties get.

So, let’s all be caring and share some of your fav smut.
Links to your fav hot porn go to’s.
A pic or two will work.
+5 Bonus points if it’s of you.
Filthy words.
A story.
Give it to us.


OH. And follow the rules in posting your smut you filthy animals!!!
I don’t need Chained getting all riled up and turning my ass crimson. Although I do thoroughly enjoy that.

 

[QuietCanadian]

Look at all this sharing! With the great fall of Tumblr, Suz having a life, and the Pornhub cleanse of 2020, smut seems harder to come by these days then it once was. Wait, check that, good smut. I find most porn sites I've found to be wading through 50 feet of crap to find one good thing (Pornhub the same, but favoriting helped until they wiped 9 million videos.)

What I'm saying is, please share.

Give it to us.

Is this mutually exclusive from the smut?

 

[Trekka]

Happy Monday.

Trekka and I are both a little hungry, wanty and needy today.
And in the mood for something to snack on. Drool over. Let our imaginations run wild. Sneak to a quiet spot with our wandering fingers, vibe in the pocket and see how wet our panties get.

So, let’s all be caring and share some of your fav smut.
Links to your fav hot porn go to’s.
A pic or two will work.
+5 Bonus points if it’s of you.
Filthy words.
A story.
Give it to us.


OH. And follow the rules in posting your smut you filthy animals!!!
I don’t need Chained getting all riled up and turning my ass crimson. Although I do thoroughly enjoy that.

And what if I wanna watch Chained turn your ass crimson?

My fave porn go-to’s are the clips SMNaughty sends me.
Smutty dot com is my fave for pics. They have good hashtags!

I DIY alotta my porn.
Don’t yall?
Por ejemplo.

Dirty talk? I’m an insatiable, hungry, badly behaved slut tonight, and probably need to be put in my place.

I can wait.

Look at all this sharing! With the great fall of Tumblr, Suz having a life, and the Pornhub cleanse of 2020, smut seems harder to come by these days then it once was. Wait, check that, good smut. I find most porn sites I've found to be wading through 50 feet of crap to find one good thing (Pornhub the same, but favoriting helped until they wiped 9 million videos.)

What I'm saying is, please share.

Lame!

Sex and swimming, are my sure fire sanity savers.

Not lame.

 

[hotwords229_A]

My favorite porn is Lit (Mira su exemplo ariba^^^ )

I also like tumblr. You can’t see the archives anymore and far too much of it is censored, but there is still plenty to see (uncensored) and enjoy. The hotwords tumblr page can give anyone a boner!

 

[QuietCanadian]

And what if I wanna watch Chained turn your ass crimson?

My fave porn go-to’s are the clips SMNaughty sends me.
Smutty dot com is my fave for pics. They have good hashtags!

I DIY alotta my porn.
Don’t yall?
Por ejemplo.

Dirty talk? I’m an insatiable, hungry, badly behaved slut tonight, and probably need to be put in my place.

I can wait.



Lame!

You give the best examples. And yes, yes I am.

 

[Trekka]

Maneuvers!
What rocks your boat?
Like when I’m on top of a man and he suddenly turns the tables, and rolls me over till he’s on top of me. A show of strength, dominance, rawr. Rocks my world. Or someone gently cupping my face with their hands. Purrs like a kitten....

So, not sexual positions. But moves! Maneuvers!
Which ones drive you wild?

 

[QuietCanadian]

Maneuvers!
What rocks your boat?
Like when I’m on top of a man and he suddenly turns the tables, and rolls me over till he’s on top of me. A show of strength, dominance, rawr. Rocks my world. Or someone gently cupping my face with their hands. Purrs like a kitten....

So, not sexual positions. But moves! Maneuvers!
Which ones drive you wild?

1) That first bit certainly sounds like it's in my repertoire.
2) This is a good question, more difficult than I expected on first glance, actually. Most things that spring to mind are more positions than moves. And there are rules against that. Not forgetting about the balls goes a long way, normally. Kisses, licks, some light nibbles. Right underneath the sack? Look out. I mean, there's no bad pizza, but there's life changing pizza, so why not do the things to ebb that way?

 

[hotwords229_A]

I think it’s so hot when she doesn’t call the cops.

 

[Corbal]

Maneuvers!
What rocks your boat?
Like when I’m on top of a man and he suddenly turns the tables, and rolls me over till he’s on top of me. A show of strength, dominance, rawr. Rocks my world. Or someone gently cupping my face with their hands. Purrs like a kitten....

So, not sexual positions. But moves! Maneuvers!
Which ones drive you wild?

....a solid rear choke hold with a knife has always made me grin a little

 

[Trekka]

....a solid rear choke hold with a knife has always made me grin a little

omg same!

 

[Corbal]

omg same!

LMFAO. I knew I loved you the first time you offered to do some blow off Suz's asscheek.

 

[Dribble]

Yawn...if you turn me on...I will take it. "Moves" can be faked. Need...can't

 

[Trekka]

LMFAO. I knew I loved you the first time you offered to do some blow off Suz's asscheek.

Quit running that hot mouth and fuck me with a snickers bar like a good girl.

I’m a fan of holding her wrists over her head with one hand as the other hand roams freely over her body while kissing and sucking her neck and chest and tits. Works best standing with her back against the wall, but I’m happy to take care of it anywhere.

Or, if we’re keeping it simple, just having my hand on her neck as we fuck, regardless of position, gives me just enough feeling of power in an otherwise “everyday” moment.

*smooths skirt
Oh, hello...

Yawn...if you turn me on...I will take it. "Moves" can be faked. Need...can't

Dribble. For fucks sake.
Yawning is not a good maneuver.

 

[Corbal]

Quit running that hot mouth and fuck me with a snickers bar like a good girl.

*smooths skirt
Oh, hello...

It's hard to smooth that skirt out with a candy bar crammed in your crack, slick.