Litiquette VII

[Trekka]

Have you had your second or third cup of coffee yet?

still on my first
so
tread lightly

 

[SassySheDevil]

Yes I’m Scottish but I live in England sooooo....

No wonder I loved your voice so much ❤

 

[SMNaughtywife]

It’s filthy Friday.
My original question got scratched.
I’m hungry, feeling feisty and gonna preface my day with some Chris Issak.

It's easier to ask for forgiveness than permission.

Yes, no or maybe so?

 

[tnman03]

still on my first
so
tread lightly

I'll call in an order to have coffee delivered there if it helps. And yes, treading lightly is the operative objective.

 

[Daisy_Love]

No wonder I loved your voice so much ❤

Hey Sassy

I’ve never posted my voice
Are you listening in on my Google Home Hub

 

[Orchidea73]

How about communication instead of permission? I like that one better.

I like this too.

 

[SassySheDevil]

Hey Sassy

I’ve never posted my voice
Are you listening in on my Google Home Hub

I swear you posted it back on one of the other threads when you were new-er. I had barely even talked to you yet.

Damn. Whom am I drooling over now.

 

[Daisy_Love]

I swear you posted it back on one of the other threads when you were new-er. I had barely even talked to you yet.

Damn. Whom am I drooling over now.

Haha nope not me

 

[Trekka]

It’s filthy Friday.
My original question got scratched.
I’m hungry, feeling feisty and gonna preface my day with some Chris Issak.

It's easier to ask for forgiveness than permission.

Yes, no or maybe so?

Oh hell. Chris Isaak!
*Turns up the volume and waits for Parker to chime in.

I kinda get off on asking for permission.
And I usually get what I want.

But alas, I am human. Sometimes I break a little. tiny. rule.

 

[SassySheDevil]

It’s filthy Friday.
My original question got scratched.
I’m hungry, feeling feisty and gonna preface my day with some Chris Issak.

It's easier to ask for forgiveness than permission.

Yes, no or maybe so?

I guess it depends. I ask permission if it's something that might involves disruptions or comfort of others (if I do something and they will have to take care of my chores as an example. since I have animals)

I ask permission if it involves going somewhere without my husband/family for any length of time (like my few lit vacations to visit friends) Again, this also involves taking care of my animals. But also money.

When I'd go visit my daughter at School. I just informed my husband I was going. "need to go .... "pant, pant.. miss the little.. cry, cry""

Asking for forgiveness came after stupid decisions.

 

[SassySheDevil]

Haha nope not me

Oh. You'll have to send me one then to make up for it (smooth right???)

 

[Daisy_Love]

Oh. You'll have to send me one then to make up for it (smooth right???)

Ohhhhh yeahhhhh
You smooth operator you

 

[Trekka]

This is hot.

You're hot.

It's a hot af kinda day down here, tbh...

I may be doing some permission asking
I may be doing some forgiveness begging

Day is young

 

[Deleted member 1306910]

Oh. You'll have to send me one then to make up for it (smooth right???)

*raises hand* Seconded?

 

[Daisy_Love]

It’s filthy Friday.
My original question got scratched.
I’m hungry, feeling feisty and gonna preface my day with some Chris Issak.

It's easier to ask for forgiveness than permission.

Yes, no or maybe so?

I really don’t find either difficult
If I’m in the wrong I always ask for forgiveness
I’ll ask for permission for significant amount of money being spent etc but it’s more discussion I think than permission per say.
I suppose it depends on the context but I’m open in my communication but if it’s something I feel strongly about I’m pretty good at getting the outcome I want

 

[Orchidea73]

I do not usually ask for permission. Unless, I need something that it isn't mine, obviously. Regarding work, money spent (it's my money), friendship, where do I go, to whom I speak etc. I would inform my partner and talk with him but not ask permission. I would give him the same freedom, so I expect the same in return.

As for forgiveness, I have no problems. Sometimes I do apologise even if I am not in the wrong, if I care that much about a person. There are things that is better to let it slide, even if you think you are right. I don't need to have the last word or to be right all the time.

 

[parker77]

Oh hell. Chris Isaak!
*Turns up the volume and waits for Parker to chime in.

I kinda get off on asking for permission.
And I usually get what I want.

But alas, I am human. Sometimes I break a little. tiny. rule.

no escaping the wicked game. it's meant to be played.

permission vs. forgiveness....why do i need either?

 

[The_gladiator]

I prefer communicating about things rather than having to ask permission. I have also spent more time than I’d like asking for forgiveness than permission for what it’s worth. However I feel like with heathy communication neither would be as needed.

 

[hotwords229_A]

I wouldn’t say I ask for permission or forgiveness (obviously depending on what we’re talking about). Generally, I just give a heads up that “this is what I’m doing, if you’re not cool with it say so now”.

I think that pretty much covers me.

Sometimes waiting for permission gets you nowhere. You have to push a little.

But again, it depends on what we’re talking about.

 

[SMNaughtywife]

I actually hate this statement. I think it allows a person to be inconsiderate.

Hmmm... It’s easier for the transgressor, it’s harder for the transgressed.


I don’t ask for permission, anymore. I do roll things past people, but in the end I do me. (Right hand, 2 fingers.) How about communication instead of permission? I like that one better.

I was thinking more light hearted and playful. But I get where you’re coming from.
And what first comes to mind is my college kiddo saying this all through HS. Seems like the quote best defining the teenage years.

Oh hell. Chris Isaak!
*Turns up the volume and waits for Parker to chime in.

I kinda get off on asking for permission.
And I usually get what I want.

But alas, I am human. Sometimes I break a little. tiny. rule.

Oh Mr Isaak, you have my panties wet this morning.

I really don’t find either difficult
If I’m in the wrong I always ask for forgiveness
I’ll ask for permission for significant amount of money being spent etc but it’s more discussion I think than permission per say.
I suppose it depends on the context but I’m open in my communication but if it’s something I feel strongly about I’m pretty good at getting the outcome I want

My thinking exactly.

no escaping the wicked game. it's meant to be played.

permission vs. forgiveness....why do i need either?

I’m kinda digging this today ya know.

 

[Mr_bogey]

*wakes up, checks thread, wonders how many mea culpa PMs Mr Bogey will be writing this weekend... !

I have kind of a crazy weekend and doubt I'll be here much, so . None?

I mean, I'm pretty good at pissing people off but last night was just a little fun with a couple insomniacs.

 

[Mr_bogey]

I actually hate this statement. I think it allows a person to be inconsiderate.

Hmmm... It’s easier for the transgressor, it’s harder for the transgressed.


I don’t ask for permission, anymore. I do roll things past people, but in the end I do me. (Right hand, 2 fingers.) How about communication instead of permission? I like that one better.

If I want to do you, do I ask permission or.....

 

[Trekka]

If I want to do you, do I ask permission or.....

*sighs*

 

[Mr_bogey]

I was looking more “big picture/cheating/quitting your job/“ kinda stuff.

Your context? Yeah. I beg. I like it and so does he.

I do? Well, yeah, I guess I do.

 

[Mr_bogey]

*sighs*

Relax. I promise, she'll laugh even if you don't.

As far as answering the question, why bother? Apparently trekka knows me better than me.