Litiquette VI

[SassySheDevil]

Make up sex. Not sex with makeup on, Blade. But sex after a fight...

I am not a make up sex kind of guy. When I’m mad, it’s just not me to be motivated to fuck someone. I don’t get mad often and I have a very long fuse. But if I’m pissed, sex isn’t going to make it up to me.

So the questions are this:

1. Are you a grudge holder when you are angry?

2. Are you a hothead who loses your temper?

3. What are your thoughts on makeup sex?


It’s Hard To Kiss the Lips At Night (that chew your ass out all day long) by Vince Gill

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8cWAB2vSy0o

1- Yes. I am a grudge holder, though I have gotten better at not doing it, as I age. I think it depends on the person and the reason.

2-I can be a hot head. I don't lose my temper very easily. Although, I think I do with people that I expect more from.

3- When I was younger. Make up sex was fun. Now that I'm older. No. Just no.

I can honestly say that the book "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus" helped me understand many of the differences in how men and women deal with issues. So I stopped picking fights, just for attention/sex. I learned how to handle how my husband dealt with issues, vs how I dealt with them.

 

[blade_rocknut]

I never knew makeup sex was a actual thing until my current wife came along. She is a huge fan of the practice.

I'm more like Pmann on this. It takes a lot to switch the gears in my brain from negativity over to horny. I've received bj's in protest, in order to have my mind changed, lol.

I don't hold grudges, *if* the issue gets settled appropriately. I never being up old shit in an argument, though. I want to stay on topic and get it sorted.

I'm not a hothead. I've a very long fuse and a great dealof patience, however when that runs out, I'm uncompromising, can get loud, and quit giving any fucks about hurting feelings. The other person has already crossed those lines, though in order for me to lose my cool.
Basically, an Irish temper with a long fuse.
I can engage in adult discourse for a goodly bit without anger or insult. I'd rather deescalate than inflame.

 

[Dribble]

Make up sex is a manipulation. It is nothing more than empty words saying you are sorry to end a fight. To each their own. My first wife was a firm believer in one should never go to bed angry. Perfect...let us discuss big issues exhausted. Stupid.

Define "grudge". I never forget. Motives are what matters. Do I forgive? Sure...I can easily let the past be past. But if you start a new argument...and bring up the past...again...and again...and again...you think I am going to keep my mouth quiet?

So that comes to...am I hothead? Define hothead. Dont ever back me into a corner. I take no prisoners. See above where I said I never forget? When it comes to my daughter...I will do whatever is necessary to protect her. I always give plenty of chances to de-escalate the situation. I sit down. I calm my voice. But if you choose to throw shit...slam doors...be verbally abusive...fuck you...call the police. But understand I have been recording the whole thing. I am a fast learner. Is that a hothead? Then yes....I can be.

 

[Lord Pmann]

I'm more like Pmann on this. It takes a lot to switch the gears in my brain from negativity over to horny. I've received bj's in protest, in order to have my mind changed, lol.

I feel like you and I are long lost brothers. I could’ve written this answer.

I’m normally quite good at being able to perform no matter what. A swarm of bees could attack my eyes and I would be okay to finish. But not anger. Never. Going. To. Happen.

I’m not a grudge holder. I try to look at the motives of people. But if the same thing keeps happening, I move on and cut you out.

Even when I’m at my angriest, it’s not loud or yelling. I don’t need to yell to get my point across. I’m quite confident in my opinions so I’m not really going to be pushed to yell. I’m more indignant and smug, if you all could use your wildest imaginations to fancy that.

 

[Trekka]

Yes; Yes; No.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

1. Are you a grudge holder when you are angry?

2. Are you a hothead who loses your temper?

3. What are your thoughts on makeup sex?

No. I'm fairly empathetic and can see the other point of view. I don't see bad behavior as much as I see unmet needs.

Never. I have real issues with my inability to feel anger. I'm getting better and recognizing it and allowing myself to sit with the anger, but I don't explode. I just go numb, mostly.

If things are resolved it can be a nice way to reconnect. I live in a very kind household and sometimes sex is my apology act (I always try to apologize in person, too. I don't do angry sex, though.

 

[Orchidea73]

So the questions are this:

1. Are you a grudge holder when you are angry?

2. Are you a hothead who loses your temper?

3. What are your thoughts on makeup sex?

1. No, I do not hold grudges for long. I forgive, though I do not forget.

2. I definitely am. I go into both extremes. Either I lose my temper , I gesticulate, make faces and all that stuff. And that's the "best" part of me. Or, I am so angry, that I shutdown completely. When I am like that, I do not want to talk. I don't want to hear your voice, or see your face, for about 1 hour. And I mean, I really do not want to hear you breath or make a sound. Just get out of my sight. Go and have a beer or take the dog out, until I calm down.

However, I do not have problems apologising. I know when I'm wrong and I own it.

3. Makeup sex for me it's when all the above is over and we have solved whatever issues. Sex when I'm really angry is probably not a good idea for you.

 

[catherinewheel77]

1. Somewhat. But not to the RHONY extreme - grudges are an olympic sport for those dizzy dames.

2. Well, I’m part Russian. And whenever I get in a snit, my husband starts humming the USSR anthem.

3. Only if Chibs were involved.
https://i2.wp.com/images2.fanpop.com/image/photos/14000000/Chibs-Telford-sons-of-anarchy-14018250-624-352.jpg?zoom=2

 

[Orchidea73]

2. Well, I’m part Russian. And whenever I get in a snit, my husband starts humming the USSR anthem.

I love that anthem. It's my ringtone.

 

[catherinewheel77]

I love that anthem. It's my ringtone.

It is pretty.

Although, it’s verboten to admit such things lest we might be labeled agents for the Kremlin.

 

[Orchidea73]

It is pretty.

Although, it’s verboten to admit such things lest we might be labeled agents for the Kremlin.

Ha! I can imagine. lol

Fortunately, I don't have that problem here. There has always been a love for Russia, their history, art and culture. I would love to visit it someday.

 

[catherinewheel77]

Ha! I can imagine. lol

Fortunately, I don't have that problem here. There has always been a love for Russia, their history, art and culture. I would love to visit it someday.

And this is one of the myriad reasons why I adore the people of Italy.

 

[Lord Pmann]

I’m reporting you ladies to Homeland Security. You sound like Russian spies.

 

[Orchidea73]

And this is one of the myriad reasons why I adore the people of Italy.

https://i.imgur.com/NHHVHEJ.gif

 

[Dribble]

I’m reporting you ladies to Homeland Security. You sound like Russian spies.

I knew it. They have infiltrated more than the GB...

 

[catherinewheel77]

I’m reporting you ladies to Homeland Security. You sound like Russian spies.

Lord Strzokmann
https://i.redd.it/0phgojewen911.gif

 

[aussiegeekygal]

I’m reporting you ladies to Homeland Security. You sound like Russian spies.

I often joke my green card photo looks exactly like a Russian spy

 

[Peaches83]

Make up sex. Not sex with makeup on, Blade. But sex after a fight...

I am not a make up sex kind of guy. When I’m mad, it’s just not me to be motivated to fuck someone. I don’t get mad often and I have a very long fuse. But if I’m pissed, sex isn’t going to make it up to me.

So the questions are this:

1. Are you a grudge holder when you are angry?

2. Are you a hothead who loses your temper?

3. What are your thoughts on makeup sex?


It’s Hard To Kiss the Lips At Night (that chew your ass out all day long) by Vince Gill

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8cWAB2vSy0o

1) Yes. I can hold a grudge forever. It’s not a good trait to have.

2) Sometimes, you just have to have a yell!

3) Make up sex is good. It is always AFTER the fight. Not during. But, I do hold a grudge, so it is dependent on what the argument was about. It’s not my favorite kind of sex though.

 

[Orchidea73]

I don’t usually hold a grudge, but I do get to a point where, once I’m done with you, I’m done.
I have a hot temper, forgive easily, until... see above.

Same here. It takes a lot to cut bridges. But when I do, I never look back.

 

[LurkingPhoenix]

I don't hold grudges...it might be better for me if I did, honestly. I forgive easily, whether or not that is healthy for me...and knowing that I don't consider myself worthy of forgiveness makes that even weirder.

Makeup sex? Fuck a lot of that. I'm too old for that shit.

 

[Lord Pmann]

So pretty much nobody likes makeup sex.

 

[SMNaughtywife]

So the questions are this:

1. Are you a grudge holder when you are angry?

2. Are you a hothead who loses your temper?

3. What are your thoughts on makeup sex?

99% of the time I can forgive, doesn’t mean I forget.
There’s one grudge I have that I refuse to forgive, forget and it’s best not to even talk about it. It’s not front and center and doesn’t surface very often.

I’m the polar opposite of hot head. It takes a lot to ruffle my feathers.
But if I’m angry, you’ll sure as shit know it.

I don’t even want to be in the same house with my husband if I’m seeing red let alone naked in bed with him.
Fuck that pony ride.

 

[Orchidea73]

So pretty much nobody likes makeup sex.

I think makeup sex is just sex after the storm, so to speak. When you are cooled down and the problem resolved.
At least that's how I intend it.

 

[SassySheDevil]

So pretty much nobody likes makeup sex.

I did when I was younger. But not any longer.

 

[85Ironman]

So the questions are:

1. Are you a grudge holder when you are angry?

2. Are you a hothead who loses your temper?

3. What are your thoughts on makeup sex?

1. I don't even need to be angry. Sometimes mere annoyance is sufficient. Grudges can be motivating.

2. No. I get angry, but I get cold and calculating. Not hotheaded.

3. I'm all for it. Because, well, sex. I may or may not still hold my grudge, though.