Litiquette VI

[Trekka]

Recalling a "pandering" accusation last time this item came up in this thread...

A late night pandering and jelly sandwich. Classic.

 

[85Ironman]

Well the good news is since you didn’t join in on the jelly rhetoric, we’ll let you watch via Skype.

A late night pandering and jelly sandwich. Classic.

Only an idiot would turn this down.
And I'm not an idiot.

 

[Trekka]

Wait are we accidentally pandering again?

Or is this different because we’re dead serious?

I’m so confused on the pandering rules.

 

[85Ironman]

Wait are we accidentally pandering again?

Or is this different because we’re dead serious?

I’m so confused on the pandering rules.

I don't think you're pandering - now or before. And I don't think you can accidentally pander - I think it's purposeful by definition.

More importantly - do you really care about the rules?

 

[SMNaughtywife]

Wait are we accidentally pandering again?

Or is this different because we’re dead serious?

I’m so confused on the pandering rules.

Can we just tie the man up, please?!!
I really think he needs a taste of what he’s getting into.
And when he starts talking, I’ll slip my blue silk thong off and shove it in his mouth.

 

[Trekka]

I don't think you're pandering - now or before. And I don't think you can accidentally pander - I think it's purposeful by definition.

More importantly - do you really care about the rules?

You’ve elevated your linguistics above my pay grade, sir. I may need to retain a lawyer to interpret the definitions.

Rules... I’m a bender, not a breaker

Can we just tie the man up, please?!!
I really think he needs a taste of what he’s getting into.
And when he starts talking, I’ll slip my blue silk thong off and shove it in his mouth.

Hell no!

If anyone is getting tied up here, it’s me.

 

[hotwords229_A]

Hmmmm... That was a hard day to beat. Damn. Lots of good stories.

Since we talked about bizarre stuff that we've experienced, let's go on with that theme. I'd like to hear about some of the weirdest things you've seen on Lit. Could be a weird PM. It could be a bizarre picture. Or thread. Or interaction.

Let's hear your weird stuff.

Super Freak by Rick James

https://youtu.be/QYHxGBH6o4M

So we went through an entire day of people talking about weird threads we’ve seen on Lit and Little Sister’s name never came up?
For shame.

 

[The_gladiator]

You’ve elevated your linguistics above my pay grade, sir. I may need to retain a lawyer to interpret the definitions.

Rules... I’m a bender, not a breaker



Hell no!

If anyone is getting tied up here, it’s me.

sounds fun.

 

[Trekka]

So we went through an entire day of people talking about weird threads we’ve seen on Lit and Little Sister’s name never came up?
For shame.

You’re. So. Right.

sounds fun.

Watch out. She’ll tie you right up too. She’s a menace.

 

[The_gladiator]

You’re. So. Right.



Watch out. She’ll tie you right up too. She’s a menace.

you can't rape the willing.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

you can't rape the willing.

Doesn't count if you yell "surprise"

 

[Lord Pmann]

Competition... It's all over the place here. People are peacocking and trying to grab the attention of the fairest maiden or the knight with the shiniest dick.

How competitive are you? With relationships? With games? With sports? With work?

How important is winning? Are you a good winner? A bad loser?

We Are the Champions by Queen

https://youtu.be/KXw8CRapg7k

 

[Richard_C]

I'm not very competitive really. I like to win, but I don't obsess over it like some do.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

I'm pretty damn competitive. I like being the best. It feels good.

I've done a lot of work understanding my drive. It's internal. I rarely compete against others, although I do from time to time. Mostly I'm driven to be the best I can be at a given subject. If someone is better than me, I study them. Figure out their success and emulate it. Because of that, I actually love finding people who are better at things than me.

If it's a structured competition, it does sting to not come in first, but only when I'm really expecting to win. Most of the time I know when I'm not going to get that blue ribbon. Some times I lie to myself about how's I performed. Other times I may have been legitimately cheated. But mostly, I know when I'm not winning.

I don't compete for or in relationships. Unless it's one I'm already in.

 

[Lord Pmann]

I’m fiercely competitive. Winning is important to me. Not to show others. But for myself. I’m not a sore loser, at all. But as you might imagine, I’m an obnoxious winner.

Board games- I’ll trick my own mother to win. I have no scruples and will do anything to win.

Sports- I was once a semi-professional athlete (up until about 5 years ago). I was to the level where I had endorsements and such. I worked hard to be the best I could be. To win.

Work- I do like to be good at work, but I’m not a win at all cost person there. That’s not how my company operates and I’ve been fortunate to work with some amazing people. No need for such there. However, I do try to collect as many letters after my name as possible. So far, I’m winning.

Relationships- Not at all here. I’m not particularly jealous. I mean, I don’t like when guys flirt with the girl I like. But I like pretty girls and what am I to expect. I don’t try to be better than my partner or anything. In fact, I fucking hate inequity in relationships, on either side.

Sex- I always win here. I finish first every time. Hi five.

 

[The_gladiator]

I’m fiercely competitive. Winning is important to me. Not to show others. But for myself. I’m not a sore loser, at all. But as you might imagine, I’m an obnoxious winner.

Board games- I’ll trick my own mother to win. I have no scruples and will do anything to win.

Sports- I was once a semi-professional athlete (up until about 5 years ago). I was to the level where I had endorsements and such. I worked hard to be the best I could be. To win.

Work- I do like to be good at work, but I’m not a win at all cost person there. That’s not how my company operates and I’ve been fortunate to work with some amazing people. No need for such there. However, I do try to collect as many letters after my name as possible. So far, I’m winning.

Relationships- Not at all here. I’m not particularly jealous. I mean, I don’t like when guys flirt with the girl I like. But I like pretty girls and what am I to expect. I don’t try to be better than my partner or anything. In fact, I fucking hate inequity in relationships, on either side.

Sex- I always win here. I finish first every time. Hi five.

you being an obnoxious winner just fits... at least you can own it.

 

[StacyLeigh]

I’m not really a competitive person. We all love winning, but it’s not the most important thing to me – at least not in most situations. I’m a gracious winner (obvs!) and I take losing, in general, just as easily.

Relationships – I’m never competitive in relationships. If I have to compete for your attention, I’ve already lost. That’s not to say I don’t continuously try and keep you once I have you, but I’m not going to play games.

Games – The only games I’m competitive at are Scrabble and Chess, because I know I CAN win, therefore I SHOULD win (I’m looking at you NRJ…)

Sports – In a past life, I was a competitive cyclist and I definitely took winning seriously (not PED level serious!). Not so much because I wanted the glory but more to justify my hours on the bike in training. And if my hockey team is playing, I’m a wee bit competitive from afar

Work – Oddly, I’ve always been a one person team in my professional life, so there has never been any real competition. But I do pride myself on quality, performance, and exceeding expectations, so if there was a Stacy #2 I would likely aim to be better than her.

 

[Cthulhu1138]

Unless you’re talkin swanky Chicago hotel rooms...
#MadeItHappen

Tell me more about these hotel rooms in my home town....

 

[Cthulhu1138]

To answer the question posed,

I am not very competitive, but I do not enjoy losing.

When it comes to sports, I follow no organized teams or organizations;. I do not think that a group of people created by a millionaire to make them more money in any way shape or form reflects my worth or skill.

But I will foul someone in the pool and dive in the sand to save a volley about to go amiss.

At work I have to compete a little for resources with other departments, so I try to get my 'team' to be their best so I can please my case for why we need new stanchions or windows or widgets.

In relationships, I do my best not to be jealous, but online is a weird animal. So much can be going on behind the scenes, there is no little conveyed by simple text.

I have been guilty of being jealous here in the past, and it turned out that it was for good reason.

 

[Lord Pmann]

you being an obnoxious winner just fits... at least you can own it.

Of course I own it. I might be a jackass, but I know I’m a jackass. I’m their king.

I’m like Trump, without the neato hair and the cool tan.

 

[The_gladiator]

Of course I own it. I might be a jackass, but I know I’m a jackass. I’m their king.

I’m like Trump, without the neato hair and the cool tan.

every group needs a leader, even jackasses.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

I don't know how to play chess, and I totally want to play games with bpmann. This could be fun.

You know, that would actually get me on a plane to meet someone from here.

 

[parker77]

Tell me more about these hotel rooms in my home town....

it better be The Peninsula or i’m not paying it any further attention.

 

[Suz_anne]

I'm competitive about weird things. And while I'm not one to rub it in when I win, I get grumpy when I lose.

In relationships, I am fine as long as I'm getting the amount of attention, stroking, time...that I need.

I refuse to compete with another woman for male attention. I will bow out.

At work, I have always excelled and have never felt like I was competing with a colleague. Because I've always been better at my job than them.

 

[Lord Pmann]

I'm competitive about weird things. And while I'm not one to rub it in when I win, I get grumpy when I lose.

What weird things?