Litiquette VI

[blade_rocknut]

I'll admit, I've had interactions here that's I wouldn't IRL, and there are several reasons.
For one, I am a visually simulated creature, and as you mention; appearances are generally our first impression irl.

I'm also sapiosexual, *but* turned off my intellectual elitists. Smart, yet grounded? You have my attention. It's easier to discern that here without potentially getting into an uncomfortable exchange.

I'm more confident in my ability to communicate through written word than in person, so that turns a big real life negative of mine into a positive. Chicks dig confidence, and I admittedly fall short in that category. Honestly, this permits me to talk to more attractive women online than I'd ever chat up at a bar

Also to wit; I'm not here to hook up, so my level of attraction to someone doesn't really affect the way we interact. If you're fun? Cool. Wanna show me nudes? Cool also, .
I dunno. I'm rambling now.
However, if any intelligent yet humble, confident but not uppity ladies with great tits feel like becoming harmlessly acquainted, well...here am I.
Extra credit if you like guys in heels.

Edited to fix autocorrect fails...

 

[hotwords229_A]

Like Blade, I’m not really here to hookup. Get my rocks off, absolutely.

I like people who are funny, clever, sexy, etc.
In a way, I almost don’t want to know what everyone looks like—even though I’m totally curious at the same time. I consider Lit to be an inhibition-less never ending party where we can all have crazy sexed up fun.

Now get that bikini off and get in this pool!

 

[tnman03]

Physical attraction is important, but I've learned that I can be attracted to people whose face I have never seen. While it's ideal to be attracted to the "whole package", it definitely isn't necessary. I have found myself completely enamored by people here before that had nothing to do with their looks. Once you fall for a person's soul, you kinda love the rest of them by default. It all kind of falls into place. Even in person, there is no one type of person I'm attracted to. The spectrum is pretty fucking broad.

I like this comment. Indie makes an excellent point.

 

[hotwords229_A]

Physical attraction is important, but I've learned that I can be attracted to people whose face I have never seen. While it's ideal to be attracted to the "whole package", it definitely isn't necessary. I have found myself completely enamored by people here before that had nothing to do with their looks. Once you fall for a person's soul, you kinda love the rest of them by default. It all kind of falls into place. Even in person, there is no one type of person I'm attracted to. The spectrum is pretty fucking broad.

It seems like all the hot girls hang out by default. He’s very popular here

 

[Suz_anne]

Now get that bikini off and get in this pool!

He's talkin' to you, Pmann.

 

[hotwords229_A]

He's talkin' to you, Pmann.

It’s that profile pic—can’t take my eyes off it!

 

[Suz_anne]

It’s that profile pic—can’t take my eyes off it!

Yeah, yeah... he's beating them off with that thing.


In response to today's question - I totally understand that getting to know someone and finding their intelligence, humor and filthy brain attractive helps boost their overall attractiveness. Of course that makes sense to me.

But I find it hard to believe that I'm the only one who has been a bit... disappointed upon seeing someone's face and it not matching up with what I had imagined in my head. It can change my perception of them. And I don't think there's anything wrong with that.

Like blade and hw, I'm not here trying to hookup or form any sort of romantic relationships, so perhaps that's part of the reason why I feel this way. It's not like I've been in a 6-months-of-hot-and-heavy-sexy-stuff-back-and-forth situation only to be confronted by, as Pmann so delicately put it, an Uggo. Maybe I'd feel differently then. But I think I'd still feel a bit... let down?

Perhaps I'm being shallow, but I am also being honest. We're in the trust tree, right?

 

[hotwords229_A]

Yeah, yeah... he's beating them off with that thing.


In response to today's question - I totally understand that getting to know someone and finding their intelligence, humor and filthy brain attractive helps boost their overall attractiveness. Of course that makes sense to me.

But I find it hard to believe that I'm the only one who has been a bit... disappointed upon seeing someone's face and it not matching up with what I had imagined in my head. It can change my perception of them. And I don't think there's anything wrong with that.

Like blade and hw, I'm not here trying to hookup or form any sort of romantic relationships, so perhaps that's part of the reason why I feel this way. It's not like I've been in a 6-months-of-hot-and-heavy-sexy-stuff-back-and-forth situation only to be confronted by, as Pmann so delicately put it, an Uggo. Maybe I'd feel differently then. But I think I'd still feel a bit... let down?

Perhaps I'm being shallow, but I am also being honest. We're in the trust tree, right?

Completely agree ^^^^ This is why I tell everyone I look like Ernest Borgnine (and I don't mean when he was alive) I always try to lower expectations so it will be a more pleasant experience when and if.

 

[Suz_anne]

Completely agree ^^^^ This is why I tell everyone I look like Ernest Borgnine (and I don't mean when he was alive) I always try to lower expectations so it will be a more pleasant experience when and if.

I resemble Imogene Coca (circa 1984) - wanna make out?

 

[hotwords229_A]

I resemble Imogene Coca (circa 1984) - wanna make out?

HELL YEAH!

 

[Suz_anne]

HELL YEAH!

Let's go make some unfortunate-looking, geriatric babies.

 

[hotwords229_A]

Let's go make some unfortunate-looking, geriatric babies.

You never know, I have known some super hot women and when I meet their parents I think "how did that happen?"

We might make a super baby!

 

[aussiegeekygal]

I am cautious with my attractions here because like Suz, I'm willing to admit I'm limited with what i can do knowing what someone like like *

I'm still willing to fuck around, but fuck? Nah. Not for me.

There's only one RL example of me even coming close to hooking up with someone who i wouldn't call "my type". He was short and I'm not. I'm shallow. I know it. Sorry guys.

 

[Dribble]

Words are a manipulative tool. At least they can be. The honesty comes from how much they are willing to share about their real life. Then you can believe half of their words

 

[SMNaughtywife]

Words are a manipulative tool. At least they can be. The honesty comes from how much they are willing to share about their real life. Then you can believe half of their words

So very true. When someone doesn’t let you in, it certainly makes you wonder.
You can’t constantly withdrawal and never deposit funds, it only works for so long.

 

[Dribble]

So very true. When someone doesn’t let you in, it certainly makes you wonder.
You can’t constantly withdrawal and never deposit funds, it only works for so long.

People see what they want to see. This isnt a criticism...it is just being human. I was once told I could sell snow to an eskimo. That hurt me and i have never forgotten it.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

I'm honest about myself but I'm still guarded. I've had stalkers. I'm really aware how easy it is to find someone in RL.

I once figured out someone's street address because of two photos they posted that gave me enough information to figure out their whereabouts. I don't practice this skill, but knowing I can do it means others can too.

 

[LurkingPhoenix]

I've had to become careful with who I've let in over the years, because I know that this medium is dangerous for me, Words house a power to me that simple visuality does not and can not.

That was a lesson hard earned. It took me being on the receiving end of more than one "You're nice and all, but I'm sorry I'm just not attracted to you..." message after sharing a simple picture (with someone I thought had mutual affinity with up until that point) to teach me that I shouldn't be sharing my visage with anyone unless I was 100% sure it was a good idea, and 1000% sure I was prepared for the impact of being rejected after clicking "Send".

 

[aussiegeekygal]

I've had to become careful with who I've let in over the years, because I know that this medium is dangerous for me, Words house a power to me that simple visuality does not and can not.

That was a lesson hard earned. It took me being on the receiving end of more than one "You're nice and all, but I'm sorry I'm just not attracted to you..." message after sharing a simple picture (with someone I thought had mutual affinity with up until that point) to teach me that I shouldn't be sharing my visage with anyone unless I was 100% sure it was a good idea, and 1000% sure I was prepared for the impact of being rejected after clicking "Send".

That's brutal.

 

[Lord Pmann]

The people that I’ve talked to here with any interest are those who I would be attracted to either way. But I have absolutely no standards.

I’m kidding. I have the highest of standards. Pretty much unachievable. Thanks Barbie Dolls. I actually adore that girl next door look and plastic boobs.

Usually, we exchange pics pretty early on. Not because I won’t talk with ugly people. I mean, I won’t. But, I am just curious how people look.

I’ve truly found that there are some beautiful people here, both inside and out. But you have to be careful, if their personality is too good... what are they trying to cover?

 

[Trekka]

Trekka, being the intelligent, thoughtful word wizard she is, came up with a nice topic for today.

Oh Pmann. Pshaw.

I'm sure I'm not alone here on experiencing the following:

Encounter someone hot IRL. Realize they are a douche. Suddenly it's as if their face morphs and they look uggo.

Encounter someone average, maybe even unattractive by conventional standards, IRL. Realize they're a lovely human being (funny, kind, smart, whatever non-physical stuff floats your boat). Suddenly it's as if their face morphs and they become quite cute.

I feel like the same phenomenon happens online. For me, at least. Regardless of when or if I see a pic.

And yes, the initial attraction here on Lit is not typically visual. So that's one difference...

Imagine how many people have overlooked my hotness IRL whilst examining my back fat! Ha ha ha.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

I’ve truly found that there are some beautiful people here, both inside and out. But you have to be careful, if their personality is too good... what are they trying to cover?

Herpes

 

[Suz_anne]

But you have to be careful, if their personality is too good... what are they trying to cover?

<--- Wearing my pretty in pink robe tonight.
https://66.media.tumblr.com/26c4be60cff5c62022ca3a92736c2965/d7f157b342a9811c-1b/s400x600/a1eed7ba2b4f22fd8052b4e586ffbb81bad91d6c.jpg

I've had to become careful with who I've let in over the years, because I know that this medium is dangerous for me, Words house a power to me that simple visuality does not and can not.

That was a lesson hard earned. It took me being on the receiving end of more than one "You're nice and all, but I'm sorry I'm just not attracted to you..." message after sharing a simple picture (with someone I thought had mutual affinity with up until that point) to teach me that I shouldn't be sharing my visage with anyone unless I was 100% sure it was a good idea, and 1000% sure I was prepared for the impact of being rejected after clicking "Send".

I'm curious if you've ever had the reverse situation - a time when you were talking to someone and were developing an interest only to be a bit disillusioned once you saw photos?

I know this probably isn't a fair medium for men. Most women can send or post photos here and someone will be drooling all over them in a matter of moments. But I'm sure there have to be cases where men were disappointed once they saw the woman with whom they were flirting/sexting/jerking it.

 

[SMNaughtywife]

Oh Pmann. Pshaw.

I'm sure I'm not alone here on experiencing the following:

Encounter someone hot IRL. Realize they are a douche. Suddenly it's as if their face morphs and they look uggo.

Encounter someone average, maybe even unattractive by conventional standards, IRL. Realize they're a lovely human being (funny, kind, smart, whatever non-physical stuff floats your boat). Suddenly it's as if their face morphs and they become quite cute.

I feel like the same phenomenon happens online. For me, at least. Regardless of when or if I see a pic.

And yes, the initial attraction here on Lit is not typically visual. So that's one difference...

Imagine how many people have overlooked my hotness IRL whilst examining my back fat! Ha ha ha.

Yeah, I don’t recall seeing any back fat when I pulled off your shirt and unhooked you’re bra.
Nope, sure didn’t.

 

[Lord Pmann]

Yeah, I don’t recall seeing any back fat when I pulled off your shirt and unhooked you’re bra.
Nope, sure didn’t.

The question for tomorrow. Did these two hook up? Or is this fake, on the board lezzing out?