Litiquette VI

[tnman03]

Sorry I choked on my banana...

Nibble, don't gobble.

I'm super jealous. I've been trying to choke on my banana for years!

Your going to end up in traction in a hospital bed and listening to nurses giggling about what actually got you there.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

I'm super jealous. I've been trying to choke on my banana for years!

Need help with that??

 

[hotwords229_A]

Need help with that??

Auto-assist-fellatio?

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

Auto-assist-fellatio?

Hehe not what I meant

 

[hotwords229_A]

Hehe not what I meant

Oh, Whoops! Wanna share?

 

[Lord Pmann]

Oh, Whoops! Wanna share?

I don't know how I feel about this. It would be like learning about sex from walking in on your parents. You just learn about sex. But... It was from seeing your parents. A real paradox, there.

 

[Suz_anne]

Papa Chained came out of his lair to greet us. Well hello! The sun is about to rise, you better get your ass back in that coffin!

Here is a question for Friday...

How quickly do you find yourself interested in people here? I'm not talking about finding some deep love or something serious. But what is it about someone that catches your eye? Is it a single, eloquent post? A series of posts of pictures that click your freak check boxes? Some guy white knighting it for some lady whose name has been besmirched? Do you know immediately if someone is your type of friend/chat partner/fuck buddy/etc? Or does it take some wooing?

I find that talking about boogers brings all the boys to the yard.

 

[tnman03]

I find that talking about boogers brings all the boys to the yard.

Boogers?? Please. You can breeze through this place saying most anything and have folks falling all over you. If you've got the girf than use it for all its worth. You've got the gift.

 

[ChainedUp]

Seems like a proper question is needed.

Motivation and transparency. Can you see through the post and understand the why behind it? Is that even important to you? Should it be? Is there a greater need to understand the why behind the what? If there was, I suspect clarity would be our new best friend.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

<wonders what this post really means>

I kid. I assume every post is an attempt to get e-laid.

So.... you're saying you want to call me??

 

[default24]

Seems like a proper question is needed.

Motivation and transparency. Can you see through the post and understand the why behind it? Is that even important to you? Should it be? Is there a greater need to understand the why behind the what? If there was, I suspect clarity would be our new best friend.

I try to take almost everything at face value. But what's the 'why' behind your question? Were you deceived by one of the harlots on this site? Led you along and then betrayed your trust, now causing you to question every other word in a post? WHO HURT YOU?!?!?

 

[ChainedUp]

I try to take almost everything at face value. But what's the 'why' behind your question? Were you deceived by one of the harlots on this site? Led you along and then betrayed your trust, now causing you to question every other word in a post? WHO HURT YOU?!?!?

You'll learn I never answer my own questions nor share any insight on what makes me post what I post.

 

[SMNaughtywife]

Seems like a proper question is needed.

Motivation and transparency. Can you see through the post and understand the why behind it? Is that even important to you? Should it be? Is there a greater need to understand the why behind the what? If there was, I suspect clarity would be our new best friend.

If I know the person, then I have a pretty good idea on the reference. But I don’t play detective and figure out what’s what on the boards. Nah, not my thing and doesn’t strike any interest.
Need to find a psychologist to give their insight on all this hoopla.

 

[numeniusa]

Seems like a proper question is needed.

Motivation and transparency. Can you see through the post and understand the why behind it? Is that even important to you? Should it be? Is there a greater need to understand the why behind the what? If there was, I suspect clarity would be our new best friend.

Are you saying Pmann's question was improper?

I sometimes enjoy speculating to myself what the why might be in a particularly opaque post. Or, alright, weaving elaborate back-stories in my head *grins*.

I suspect the reality is pretty much always more mundane, though...

(so good to see this thread alive again )

 

[ChainedUp]

infatuation. It's not only for the young, we all experience it. Lit can be wrought with it, be it the stories, our new freedom of self expression, or that special someone that has entered our lives. It can be such a great feeling, and yet so fleeting. Can infatuation be held onto, or is it inevitable that it slips through our fingers?

 

[Rivvie]

Ahhh infatuation.... yes. Lit is wrought with it. It sometimes hits hard and fast and for seemingly no reason. I have a couple people that it’s been ongoing for months. Someit came hard and fast and went in the night. I open myself up far too much sometimes. It’s how I am. But it also opens me up for emotions and ache. I’d still do it.

Some infatuations are well worth just enjoying them for what they are, for as long as you can

 

[tnman03]

Infatuation is transitory and either morphs into something stronger or fades away like mist in the sunlight. You can’t hang onto it but that doesn’t make it any the less sweeter while its happening or saddening when its fled.

 

[NorthRockJohnson]

infatuation. It's not only for the young, we all experience it. Lit can be wrought with it, be it the stories, our new freedom of self expression, or that special someone that has entered our lives. It can be such a great feeling, and yet so fleeting. Can infatuation be held onto, or is it inevitable that it slips through our fingers?

Crushes and infatuation comes and goes. Sometimes it develops into something deeper, a lot of times it doesn't. Infatuation is really just a spark. It either starts a fire or it dies quickly. Or it burns for awhile and dies out. It is what it is.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

infatuation. It's not only for the young, we all experience it. Lit can be wrought with it, be it the stories, our new freedom of self expression, or that special someone that has entered our lives. It can be such a great feeling, and yet so fleeting. Can infatuation be held onto, or is it inevitable that it slips through our fingers?

Infatuation is a starting point. It never lasts. You can use it to springboard into something deeper or it makes you realize that maybe friends is better. It's a nice feeling but you can't live in constant infatuation land.

 

[SMNaughtywife]

In most instances infatuation is only short lived, it’s there hot, heavy and very sexual in the beginning. The new and shinny has you googley eyed and not thinking straight.
I think it starts to fade when one discovers turn offs, fake personalities or screams high maintenance / low self esteem / needy as fuck.
One moves on for their next fix, the cycle starts over again.

But I think infatuation morphs over time, the sexual aspect is still there, but now comes the being in awe on how someone ticks, wanting to figure them out. How and why can they possibly be the way they are; day after day, year after year unfaltering. Where do they get their sparkly magical mojo and will it ever run out.
I’m not sure how long this can last, maybe until you realize you can’t figure them out. Their simple complexity is such a rarity it makes you smile and leaves you without words or explanation.

 

[Lord Pmann]

infatuation. It's not only for the young, we all experience it. Lit can be wrought with it, be it the stories, our new freedom of self expression, or that special someone that has entered our lives. It can be such a great feeling, and yet so fleeting. Can infatuation be held onto, or is it inevitable that it slips through our fingers?

Thanks for the proper question, Papa Chained!

Lit is rife with infatuation. That's good and bad. One, people see you as this idealized version of the real you. We filter what we want here and unfilter what we don't. If I went around in my daily life saying the shit I say here, people might think I'm a dick. I filter a little more in real life. However, I also filter what people see here. This is for fun banter. I think most people do that. Then, as we meet people, we pull those layers back and reveal what we want.

I believe infatuation fades.

 

[Lord Pmann]

We all have good Lit stories. We all have bad Lit stories. It seems like some people just have terrible stories all around. Like, they are Eeyore or something. This is a two part question.

1. Do you think that people are just unlucky here? Or do you attract good or bad depending on your personality?

2. What are your experiences here? Mostly good? Mostly bad? I wanna hear. Especially if they're bad.

 

[hotwords229_A]

We all have good Lit stories. We all have bad Lit stories. It seems like some people just have terrible stories all around. Like, they are Eeyore or something. This is a two part question.

1. Do you think that people are just unlucky here? Or do you attract good or bad depending on your personality?

2. What are your experiences here? Mostly good? Mostly bad? I wanna hear. Especially if they're bad.

For the most part you attract certain types based on your personality. Although, I assume, if you're female you may attract the wrong guys just because.

At the same time, guys can smell damage on a girl like a shark smells blood in the water and dick-headed guys will exploit that.

As a guy, my experience has been totally positive, I think. I haven't had any real trouble, but I'm not a dramatic person either, so I guess even if there was drama I probably just ignored it.

I think Lit is like anything else in life, you get back what you put in. If you come here looking for sorrow, drama, anger then you will definitely find it. If you come looking for fun there's plenty of that too.

If drama finds you it's up to you how you deal with it.

 

[ChainedUp]

Normally I'd issue a citation for a blatant duo question post but I'm feeling generous, but don't think that generously means I'm going to answer.

 

[Suz_anne]

infatuation. It's not only for the young, we all experience it. Lit can be wrought with it, be it the stories, our new freedom of self expression, or that special someone that has entered our lives. It can be such a great feeling, and yet so fleeting. Can infatuation be held onto, or is it inevitable that it slips through our fingers?

I have been infatuated with a few people here for quite some time. So I think it depends on the nature of the infatuation and if you have a need for it to be something more. If you do not need it to be more, I think it can last longer.

We all have good Lit stories. We all have bad Lit stories. It seems like some people just have terrible stories all around. Like, they are Eeyore or something. This is a two part question.

1. Do you think that people are just unlucky here? Or do you attract good or bad depending on your personality?

2. What are your experiences here? Mostly good? Mostly bad? I wanna hear. Especially if they're bad.

I am a big believer in the idea that the energy you put out into the world is what you get back. So I think it is the same here, based on my experiences. And my experiences have been way more on the good side than the bad. I guess I'm lucky? But I'm also careful and thoughtful about my actions. Usually. Except that one time. Ugh.