Litiquette VI

[hotwords229_A]

Good post HW. The protection in RL vs Online comment is a harsh reality. I also concur with your context of being judicious in that protecting the Queen thing.

And yes, while I don't go around calling women broads your comment on toughness and hotness is spot on.

Thanks. I only use the term broads when trying to be entertaining while also making a point. Normally, I just call these Dames "Skirts"

 

[blade_rocknut]

The WK thing only bugs me if said Knight is spouting bullshit and vying for attention. Sometimes a person can step in a squabble, offer a fresh perspective, make a point that others have failed to make, and be a fixer. Sometimes that person is going to be on the beta end of the spectrum, too.

 

[Lord Pmann]

When I say WKing, I want to clarify. That isn't someone who says something different or even defends someone.

A WK is someone who does this because they are lame and they think it will win the affection of the damsel in distress.

Personally, I find most girls/ladies/women here are capable of defending themselves.

The grossest thing to me is when a WK apologies on behalf of the male gender. Gross. Get the fuck outta here with that. Don't apologize on my behalf. Do some guys do bad stuff? Yes. But just like there are some girls who do cunty things, no one needs to apologize on behalf of all women. Except for Eve. She really fucked that one up.

https://stupidbadmemes.files.wordpress.com/2015/09/whiteknight.jpg

 

[Suz_anne]

On the white knight thing...

There are plenty of women around here who get off on having a white knight come to their rescue. It doesn't necessarily mean that they'll cyberbone his brains out, but if someone is mean to them, they are more than happy to have the white knight ride in to defend their honor.

I've seen the reverse of this, too. There's a guy who doesn't post here much anymore, but when he used to stir shit up and people turned against him - he'd start PM'ing his female friends and ask them to defend him publicly. It was pathetic.

As a female who sincerely aspires to be in the broad/dame category - I would be insulted if I was having a discussion on the threads and a man felt the need to white knight me. I got it, boo. I can fight my own battles. And I'm mature enough to know that just because someone doesn't agree with me doesn't mean they're being mean to me.

That's not to say that I don't like it when people agree with me - I do. But I prefer it to be in the manner that Blade stated - offering a fresh perspective or making a point that has not yet been made. Or just telling me to stfu because everyone is sick of reading about it on the threads.

All of this being said - I don't think white knights are my biggest Lit pet peeve. I'll have to give that some additional thought. So I'll be back, you lucky sons of guns.

 

[The_gladiator]

When I say WKing, I want to clarify. That isn't someone who says something different or even defends someone.

A WK is someone who does this because they are lame and they think it will win the affection of the damsel in distress.

Personally, I find most girls/ladies/women here are capable of defending themselves.

The grossest thing to me is when a WK apologies on behalf of the male gender. Gross. Get the fuck outta here with that. Don't apologize on my behalf. Do some guys do bad stuff? Yes. But just like there are some girls who do cunty things, no one needs to apologize on behalf of all women. Except for Eve. She really fucked that one up.

https://stupidbadmemes.files.wordpress.com/2015/09/whiteknight.jpg

Oh good I’m safe, I have never hoped for or thought my defending anyone would get me laid with them.

Also I like what hotwords said if I’m questioning if I am I probably am not.

But yes I try to offer a fresh perspective. Mostly because I see a lot of banwagoning going on on lit here, where people do come out of the woodwork to defend their friends with presumably no context but say a dear litster post to go on.

Also one of the things that bothers me on a different note is when two litsters that you respect are at odds and they want you to take sides.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

Ghosting is exactly why I hate private messaging.
What appears to be ghosting to someone else is real life shit happening to me.

I had to very suddenly take a break earlier this year and I hate that someone would take offense to me not being around. And god forbid i come back and post without responding to a bunch of PMs. i don't feel like i should have to carry that burden. I expect others to have a healthy enough self esteem to navigate a place like this. As i type that, i realise that's completely ridiculous.... It's fucking Lit.

 

[SMNaughtywife]

I think we (dudes) all have that “protect the Queen” thing, it’s biological. But do you think the White Knight inclination is possibly a sign of not really knowing women that well?

Or is it a Beta Male, “look how woke I am, because I understand women so well” issue?

Some Damsels are more distressing than distressed and should be left tied to the train tracks (my opinion, but I can be a dick). If she needs to be defended on an erotic message board how will she get through real life without you? How will she handle the really difficult things like getting junk mail and a low battery warning if you’re not there to protect her?

I’m definitely a “protect the Queen” kind of guy, but only if she needs help.

Personally, I think real broads are tough and tough broads are hot.

Left tied to the tracks!
Bawahahahaha
Love that.
I’ll help you.
Because in can be a cheeky bitch who appreciates a dick.

 

[Lord Pmann]

Good morning. Again, thanks to a lively conversation. We outed some white knights. Outed Aussie as a heartless bitch who will disappear on all her friends.

Today's topic is about a change of feelings. We talked the other day about what attracts you to a person. You get that initial burn. That melt. Everything the person does makes you smile. Then something happens. You fall out of love. You drift apart. The other person finds someone new. You get mad at each other. Whatever it is.

That feeling of pure and utter attraction has left and you're simply left wondering what's going on. You get that pain in your heart. You're wondering if they've moved on. You're wondering if they think about you. If they're talking about you.

How many of you have experienced that feeling? It's interesting to see it at Lit, because people post about it and it manifests itself pretty easily. You can see the pain people go through. And it's harder at Lit, because you watch people move on in front of your face. Let's hear your stories- on or off Lit.

Song of the day:

I Remember by Damien Rice and Lisa Hannigan
https://youtu.be/mYPCYboEpmk

Bonus song!

Say Hello, Wave Goodbye by David Gray
https://youtu.be/jUZZyzHyqgM

 

[The_gladiator]

Good morning. Again, thanks to a lively conversation. We outed some white knights. Outed Aussie as a heartless bitch who will disappear on all her friends.

Today's topic is about a change of feelings. We talked the other day about what attracts you to a person. You get that initial burn. That melt. Everything the person does makes you smile. Then something happens. You fall out of love. You drift apart. The other person finds someone new. You get mad at each other. Whatever it is.

That feeling of pure and utter attraction has left and you're simply left wondering what's going on. You get that pain in your heart. You're wondering if they've moved on. You're wondering if they think about you. If they're talking about you.

How many of you have experienced that feeling? It's interesting to see it at Lit, because people post about it and it manifests itself pretty easily. You can see the pain people go through. And it's harder at Lit, because you watch people move on in front of your face. Let's hear your stories- on or off Lit.

Song of the day:

I Remember by Damien Rice and Lisa Hannigan
https://youtu.be/mYPCYboEpmk

Bonus song!

Say Hello, Wave Goodbye by David Gray
https://youtu.be/jUZZyzHyqgM

I have experienced this yes. I will have to give it some thought how to find something more meaningful than yes to share though.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

I don't really have those kinds of stories, but am sitting here like the heartless bitch that I am to see what drama unfolds with this question

I'm a sucker for a good drama.

 

[hotwords229_A]

I think anyone who has ever felt anything for anyone has experienced that feeling.
I’m always surprised how, after a relationship ends, it seems like life will never be the same, but when you look back you wonder what you ever saw in that person.

Feelings are weird. They’re just a combination of chemicals entering our brains, and yet, they can destroy our lives—if we let them. We all need to figure out a way to rewire our brains to release the right chemicals at the right times to overcome our nuttiness. On the other hand, love goes way beyond brain juice.

As for Lit, I think it’s best to manage our feelings and expectations. I am perplexed by the “Lit relationship” and the deep feelings that come with it. I feel a great connection to a lot of people on Lit to varying degrees, but to fall in love with someone that you really don’t know that well seems like a disaster waiting to happen.

I’ve often said I think of Lit as an ongoing party that we slip in and out of, but maybe it’s more like a shared fantasy. It’s a virtual wet dream that we can all share, experience, add to and take from. If you meet someone here and fall in love that’s fantastic, but I don’t think it’s a great idea to come here expecting that.

It’s possible I don’t share normal human emotions, in which case please ignore everything I just said.

 

[Lord Pmann]

Posting about my pain and heartache on Lit?

Nope, haven't done it.

I know that would never occur to you.

https://vignette.wikia.nocookie.net/disney/images/1/1c/Profile_-_Eeyore.png/revision/latest/top-crop/width/360/height/450?cb=20190315134852

 

[Lord Pmann]

That's the second picture posted like that of me this week.

https://forum.literotica.com/showpost.php?p=91980980&postcount=6

I feel like the other one was for a different reason.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

That's the second picture posted like that of me this week.

https://forum.literotica.com/showpost.php?p=91980980&postcount=6

FWIW, I appreciate the modestly the bow on your tail leaves s little something to the imagination in today's picture.

 

[Lord Pmann]

I don't really have those kinds of stories, but am sitting here like the heartless bitch that I am to see what drama unfolds with this question

I'm a sucker for a good drama.

Yes! I'm waiting for some dramatic stories.

I'll tell a non-lit story about pteen...

I liked this girl named Ashlie. We were friends for years. Then we started dating. For a short amount of time. I thought she was the cat's ass. She was pretty, fun and we got on so well.

But one day, out of the blue, the bitch dumped me for no good reason. And then she hooked up with a friend of mine.

Anyway, we remained friends. But I always wondered if she missed me. (no, was the answer) I just wanted to know why and what happened... it ate up lil' ol' pteen's heart.

She wasn't the worst heartbreak of my teen years. But damn... It hurt.

 

[parker77]

are y’all suggesting that in this, what did SMN call it, fantasy fuckland, propledevelop feelings for one another and, as a result, get hurt? say it ain’t so!

i’m going to keep it strictly fantasy fuckland and avoid the dama!

 

[Lord Pmann]

are y’all suggesting that in this, what did SMN call it, fantasy fuckland, propledevelop feelings for one another and, as a result, get hurt? say it ain’t so!

i’m going to keep it strictly fantasy fuckland and avoid the dama!

Some people even get mad and fight on the boards!!!

 

[Lonelywife1205]

Some people even get mad and fight on the boards!!!

And some people can’t help but stir the pot.
Lookin at you LP

 

[Lord Pmann]

And some people can’t help but stir the pot.
Lookin at you LP

You just be mistaking me for someone else.

 

[Lonelywife1205]

You just be mistaking me for someone else.

https://media3.giphy.com/media/2uy09Y7XhprXtflooV/giphy.gif?cid=19f5b51ad01a6edb7867c84ddacc2b3813c2292e0aa3587a&rid=giphy.gif

 

[Fermina_Daza]

Good morning. Again, thanks to a lively conversation. We outed some white knights. Outed Aussie as a heartless bitch who will disappear on all her friends.

Today's topic is about a change of feelings. We talked the other day about what attracts you to a person. You get that initial burn. That melt. Everything the person does makes you smile. Then something happens. You fall out of love. You drift apart. The other person finds someone new. You get mad at each other. Whatever it is.

That feeling of pure and utter attraction has left and you're simply left wondering what's going on. You get that pain in your heart. You're wondering if they've moved on. You're wondering if they think about you. If they're talking about you.

How many of you have experienced that feeling? It's interesting to see it at Lit, because people post about it and it manifests itself pretty easily. You can see the pain people go through. And it's harder at Lit, because you watch people move on in front of your face. Let's hear your stories- on or off Lit.

Song of the day:

I Remember by Damien Rice and Lisa Hannigan
https://youtu.be/mYPCYboEpmk

Bonus song!

Say Hello, Wave Goodbye by David Gray
https://youtu.be/jUZZyzHyqgM

Been there, done that, got the huge trophy to display. For me the hardest part was trying to sort out what was real and what wasn’t. In the end, I just had to chuck it all out as nothing was real. But I got to try sushi finally, visit some cool bookstores, and spend Christmas with my sister.

Now it’s just an inbox of nonstop dick pics as the Lit gods intended.

 

[default24]

But I got to try sushi finally

I thought this was a euphemism at first

Now it’s just an inbox of nonstop dick pics as the Lit gods intended.

Yes, praise them!

 

[aussiegeekygal]

I thought this was a euphemism at first



Yes, praise them!

Is it awful that my mind immediately thought that dick cut transversely looks a lot like sushi?

 

[default24]

Is it awful that my mind immediately thought that dick cut transversely looks a lot like sushi?

You're not wrong... yes, it is absolutely awful

 

[Fermina_Daza]

I thought this was a euphemism at first

Lol - no, I was always told you have to have good sushi the first time you try it or you will hate it. Indiana is not known for its sushi.