Litiquette V

[ChainedUp]

Deep thoughts for a Monday...

Apologies, maybe the deep thought can be offset by giving deep throat later on.

 

[Endless_Night]

 

[ChainedUp]

EN - you should know better than to fully retract a post and replace it with emoticons. Apparently it's citation Monday.

 

[Endless_Night]

EN - you should know better than to fully retract a post and replace it with emoticons. Apparently it's citation Monday.

Uhhhh....

Ummm...

Would you consider giving it to VT?

I mean, she already has so many and all....

*flustered*

Not sure I've ever received a citation.

*shamelessly throw VT to the wolves*

 

[ChainedUp]

Post that original thought and the citation will be expunged. No reassigning of citations allowed.

 

[Endless_Night]

Post that original thought and the citation will be expunged. No reassigning of citations allowed.

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Dang it!

Apologies, maybe the deep thought can be offset by giving deep throat later on.

Errrr.... Something along the lines of could Trekka, ummm, record that session and post it as her contribution to today's EC challenge.

Which I still think is a great idea! But, we (and by that I mean me) do push quite a bit for her epic public sex events.

Just didn't want to overstep a boundary.


Note: I feel full disclosure on the citation rules is needed.

 

[ChainedUp]

Lots of "errs and ums" but as a first timer, I'll start the expunging process. May take a couple weeks.

And there'll be no explanations of what is citation worthy, completely at the purview of the OP.

................

Dang it!




Errrr.... Something along the lines of could Trekka, ummm, record that session and post it as her contribution to today's EC challenge.

Which I still think is a great idea! But, we (and by that I mean me) do push quite a bit for her epic public sex events.

Just didn't want to overstep a boundary.


Note: I feel full disclosure on the citation rules is needed.

 

[ChainedUp]

To what lengths do you go to get the attention you want/need? I know many will say that they don't want nor do they seek out attention but I don't believe them. We want the interaction and while some want a lot, others can get by with a little. My question is not about how much but rather, getting the proper amount for your needs. And when that doesn't happen, then what?

 

[Trekka]

To what lengths do you go to get the attention you want/need? I know many will say that they don't want nor do they seek out attention but I don't believe them. We want the interaction and while some want a lot, others can get by with a little. My question is not about how much but rather, getting the proper amount for your needs. And when that doesn't happen, then what?

Sexual attention junkie, right here! I must have it! Shocker!!

I don't need all the glory at work. I can be quiet in a group of friends. At family dinners I can give the spot light to my littlest bro.

But I *need* my man to swat my ass and text me sweet nothings and tell me I'm beautiful... and I reciprocate.

To what lengths do I go? I dress. I say suggestive things. I keep in shape. I bat my eyelashes at him. Gush over him. Cook for him. I send him naughty pics, words, thoughts, audio clips...

And when he gets super busy? I bring my attention whoring needs here.

And when I've maxed out what the rules allow, and have run out of time to spend garnering attention here and elsewhere, I throw in the towel and go for a run. Or clean. Or dive into my work. Etc.

 

[Lustful_Intentions]

Sexual attention junkie, right here! I must have it! Shocker!!

I don't need all the glory at work. I can be quiet in a group of friends. At family dinners I can give the spot light to my littlest bro.

But I *need* my man to swat my ass and text me sweet nothings and tell me I'm beautiful... and I reciprocate.

To what lengths do I go? I dress. I say suggestive things. I keep in shape. I bat my eyelashes at him. Gush over him. Cook for him. I send him naughty pics, words, thoughts, audio clips...

And when he gets super busy? I bring my attention whoring needs here.

And when I've maxed out what the rules allow, and have run out of time to spend garnering attention here and elsewhere, I throw in the towel and go for a run. Or clean. Or dive into my work. Etc.

Funny, I'm sort of the same way. Granted, I don't have limits here, other than not blowing my own cover. Because I'm a terrible person.

I need to go for more runs.

 

[Paul_Chance]

I prefer the term "Attention Escort". Cause, I'm like all classy and shit like that.

A healthy level of social contact is important for my well being and sex, with or without a relationship, falls into that arena.

So - the things I do to attain that level of attention...

-I maintain a certain level of fitness, both for the health reasons and because being fit is an important part of garnering that attention. I don't think you have to be a chiseled hardbody with 1% body fat - but being physically fit opens up a wide range of options for you, both from the simple woman looking at you and thinking "yeah, I'd tap that" to the ability to engage in activities your potential partner might enjoy. If your level of fitness is such you can't take a social bike ride or go on a social hike or play a game of softball, a lot of doors close for you.

-I dress well. Again, you don't have to be Beau Brummel, but the ability to dress appropriately for an event is a plus. Your clothes should fit. They should be age-appropriate. They should be clean and in good condition. They should reflect a certain social awareness so you don't embarrass your partner. Think of your clothes as honey. You want to use them to attract that sweet little bee. Most importantly out of all of that, your clothing should meet two criteria - they should look good and you should be comfortable in them.

-I read. LOL - that might be a strange one when you think of attention escorting, but from my experience the ability to have a simple conversation, reflecting some depth of knowledge of beloved subjects, is a great ice-breaker and can get you through doors that might otherwise be closed. To do that, you have to read. (I am a shameless book whore and while I might have some propriety when it comes to sex - my motto with books is anytime, anywhere, anyway.)

-I can dance. It seems like a small thing, but it's probably among THE best ways to meet new people. Plus, it's a lot of fun.

 

[Lunation]

To what lengths do you go to get the attention you want/need? I know many will say that they don't want nor do they seek out attention but I don't believe them. We want the interaction and while some want a lot, others can get by with a little. My question is not about how much but rather, getting the proper amount for your needs. And when that doesn't happen, then what?

I fall into the camp that would say "I don't need attention."

But instead I'll put it this way: the normal amount of attention I get during the day is more than I need, and generally more than I want.

So I need it, I suppose. If I was getting literally *none* I may start seeking it. But on work alone I have plenty, not to mention home.

My problem is very much the opposite. How can I do the things I enjoy and not be overwhelmed by human interaction? And when I am overwhelmed, how do I run away without hurting any feelings?

 

[SMNaughtywife]

I'm pretty independent and easy going when it comes to attention. But, I've been known to jump in my plane and ignore the no fly zone that was issued. Usually I'm pretty good about doing just a few barrow rolls, but there's a few death defying acrobatic maneuvers I've got up my sleeve to make sure I'm noticed when need be.

 

[Trekka]

Paul C can dance?!

Oh for fuck's sake, he's perfect.

Suz!! Where's Suz?! Suz, he can dance too!!!!

 

[curvyangel1969]

I fall into the camp that would say "I don't need attention."

But instead I'll put it this way: the normal amount of attention I get during the day is more than I need, and generally more than I want.

So I need it, I suppose. If I was getting literally *none* I may start seeking it. But on work alone I have plenty, not to mention home.

My problem is very much the opposite. How can I do the things I enjoy and not be overwhelmed by human interaction? And when I am overwhelmed, how do I run away without hurting any feelings?

So complex. I'd like to know if you get this answered and what advice you are given.

 

[Endless_Night]

Lunation's answer resonates with me to a large degree. I do a lot of maneuvering to get as much 'alone time' as possible. Important to my mental health.

Lit is something of an exception. I stretch myself here, try to make a point to interact with friends and on threads I enjoy. Even practice my flirt skills, which are...pretty abysmal p). But even Lit time burns me out eventually. One of the reasons I go on frequent breaks.

Now if we're talking sexual, it's more about getting the right attention than attention in general. If my focus is on you, then you have my attention. My full attention. I do all the usual things, I suppose. Message, take care of my body, make sure you are getting your needs fulfilled.

If I'm not getting enough attention? I've found a little *foot stomping* usually produces the...errr...delivery of the type of attention I need. AT least with the...uhh..right partner.

 

[curvyangel1969]

To what lengths do you go to get the attention you want/need? I know many will say that they don't want nor do they seek out attention but I don't believe them. We want the interaction and while some want a lot, others can get by with a little. My question is not about how much but rather, getting the proper amount for your needs. And when that doesn't happen, then what?

I'm trying to figure out how to answer this one. I'm a greedy kitten but I'm super picky about who I'm getting attention from.

 

[Trekka]

I'm trying to figure out how to answer this one. I'm a greedy kitten but I'm super picky about who I'm getting attention from.

word.

 

[UnchainedWordist]

Hmmm....Im used to not getting attention, but I enjoy it when it happens. Usually poetry earns attention for me, but I don't write it to get attention necessarily.

 

[Lunation]

So complex. I'd like to know if you get this answered and what advice you are given.

I'd like it answered too!

Lunation's answer resonates with me to a large degree. I do a lot of maneuvering to get as much 'alone time' as possible. Important to my mental health.

Lit is something of an exception. I stretch myself here, try to make a point to interact with friends and on threads I enjoy. Even practice my flirt skills, which are...pretty abysmal p). But even Lit time burns me out eventually. One of the reasons I go on frequent breaks.

Now if we're talking sexual, it's more about getting the right attention than attention in general. If my focus is on you, then you have my attention. My full attention. I do all the usual things, I suppose. Message, take care of my body, make sure you are getting your needs fulfilled.

If I'm not getting enough attention? I've found a little *foot stomping* usually produces the...errr...delivery of the type of attention I need. AT least with the...uhh..right partner.

You said it perfectly!

I'd give you a hug but we'd probably both get overwhelmed. Quiet, introverted high five followed by silently reading in the same room?

 

[Endless_Night]

< You said it perfectly!

I'd give you a hug but we'd probably both get overwhelmed. Quiet, introverted high five followed by silently reading in the same room?

I was thinking more along the lines of a steamy, yet unconnected and distant romance. One where we never meet, know each other's names, or have any human contact. All play negotiations to be carried out by carrier pigeon, or better yet, raccoons, those wild-eyed minions of the inky night.

If either party speaks, or utters any sound, Chained can slap us with a 'public nuisance' citation. Which we will quietly (and I mean that literally ) pass on to VT for her private, and ever growing, collection.

Sounds extra hot, huh?

 

[ViciousTease]

I was thinking more along the lines of a steamy, yet unconnected and distant romance. One where we never meet, know each other's names, or have any human contact. All play negotiations to be carried out by carrier pigeon, or better yet, raccoons, those wild-eyed minions of the inky night.

If either party speaks, or utters any sound, Chained can slap us with a 'public nuisance' citation. Which we will quietly (and I mean that literally ) pass on to VT for her private, and ever growing, collection.

Sounds extra hot, huh?

I've decided to refuse all future citations. What's the punishment for "resisting a citation" anyway? Is it like resisting arrest? Will I be wrestled to the ground and handcuffed? I might be in to that.

 

[curvyangel1969]

I've decided to refuse all future citations. What's the punishment for "resisting a citation" anyway? Is it like resisting arrest? Will I be wrestled to the ground and handcuffed? I might be in to that.

Would Chained be doing the wrestling to the ground and handcuffing? does he have a posse for that? do you get to pick who you get? These are all important questions to ask.

 

[Endless_Night]

I've decided to refuse all future citations. What's the punishment for "resisting a citation" anyway? Is it like resisting arrest? Will I be wrestled to the ground and handcuffed? I might be in to that.

Oooooh!

*takes a seat*

This could be good. I am pro 'wrestling to the ground'. And maybe some handcuffs!

*bounces*

Oh! Ummm....I mean for VT....

....of course.

 

[Endless_Night]

Would Chained be doing the wrestling to the ground and handcuffing? does he have a posse for that? do you get to pick who you get? These are all important questions to ask.

*nods vigorously*