Litiquette V

[Azuldrgon]

*smiles as I walk in, kisses both VT and Enny on the cheek and walks back out*
Too cute.

 

[Endless_Night]

*smiles as I walk in, kisses both VT and Enny on the cheek and walks back out*
Too cute.

We are adorable!!!

Okay. That might really be closer to adorkable. At least in my case.

 

[ViciousTease]

*smiles as I walk in, kisses both VT and Enny on the cheek and walks back out*
Too cute.

*giggles and blushes*

We are adorable!!!

Okay. That might really be closer to adorkable. At least in my case.

Adorkable works for me, too. I'm adding that to my vocabulary.

 

[Endless_Night]

< Adorkable works for me, too. I'm adding that to my vocabulary.

Someone really needs to put together a hard copy of that Lit lexicon.

 

[Azuldrgon]

We are adorable!!!

Okay. That might really be closer to adorkable. At least in my case.

*giggles and blushes*
Adorkable works for me, too. I'm adding that to my vocabulary.

I like adorkable girls.
What was the question again? lol

 

[Paul_Chance]

Paaaaaaaaaaaaaaaapaaaaaaaaaaa C....where are you??

I have been in a world class funk...for a variety and number of reasons. So, I'm quite interested in the responses to the following question.

When you are having a bad day (or week/month/fiscal quarter/equinox) - what do you do to make yourself feel better?

*wonders if all answers will relate to masturbation*

Music.

I have a playlist I've named "Snap Out Of It" that has a particular set of eccentric songs that, for me, power me through a bad day. Each song (besides being one I like) has a certain memory attached to it - bright, beautiful, powerful memories. It works all the time for me to turn my mood around.

Besides the music I use a trick I learned that works well - it is based on a quote from the Hagakure...

http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lcc2jh9UZx1qbj01p.png

And masturbation doesn't work to pull me out of a funk. Sex will. Masturbation won't. So I get out of the funk as fast as I can so I can go back to spanking the monkey with abandon. I think that is in the Hagakure as well. Or maybe not.

 

[Lunation]

Paaaaaaaaaaaaaaaapaaaaaaaaaaa C....where are you??

I have been in a world class funk...for a variety and number of reasons. So, I'm quite interested in the responses to the following question.

When you are having a bad day (or week/month/fiscal quarter/equinox) - what do you do to make yourself feel better?




*wonders if all answers will relate to masturbation*

Bad moods are why Jesus gave us intensely violent video games.

 

[DarkSimian]

Ahhh, there it is. Masturbation can relieve stress and clear your mind. No shame in self love.

Well, if you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with....

 

[ViciousTease]

Well, if you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with....

Exactly.

 

[Girly_girl]

When you are having a bad day (or week/month/fiscal quarter/equinox) - what do you do to make yourself feel better?



If I'm having a bad day I will put in some of my favorite music, sometimes even dance to it That generally cheers me right up. Sometimes I'll take a drive, usually to the beach(even though it's an hour away)that will instantly make me forget I'm having an awful day

 

[Trekka]

I feel my way through it until the feelings pass. I share about it with my tribe. Read from a few favorite texts. Say some prayers. Exercise.

Also ice cream and shopping.

{hugs Suz}

 

[ChainedUp]

So, what is the the best way to break the silence, measured moves that try and minimize the noise allowing one's self to ease back in or a huge noise that takes everything and everyone by storm?

 

[dacoach44]

So easy for a Litster

Bad moods are why Jesus gave us intensely violent video games.

Pick up a book; get lost in it. Read something new and diffo. Never fails. For example, read up on taste and flavor.

 

[ChainedUp]

When a question doesn't work

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[MedicalMuse]

That's definitely making a point though.

 

[ViciousTease]

So, what is the the best way to break the silence, measured moves that try and minimize the noise allowing one's self to ease back in or a huge noise that takes everything and everyone by storm?

*tickletackle*

Apparently quiet is the way to go. Welcome back, Papa C.

 

[BongoGal]

Well, if you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with....

I have often wondered how many people over the years got laid thanks to others taking that song's message to heart.

 

[ChainedUp]

I have often wondered how many people over the years got laid thanks to others taking that song's message to heart.

I've always interpreted this not as gettjng laid but to not pine over someone you'll never have.

Now, I wonder how frequent fucking for fuck's sake happens. 25% of all sex, 10%? More? Less?

 

[Bjerget]

*wondered where you hung out*

 

[ViciousTease]

I've always interpreted this not as gettjng laid but to not pine over someone you'll never have.

Now, I wonder how frequent fucking for fuck's sake happens. 25% of all sex, 10%? More? Less?

I'm thinking more. When you consider all of the casual single sex, one night stands, FWBs ... then the number of times committed couples do it just for the sake of doing it or to please the other, I'm thinking it's more than half. Just my opinion.

 

[lakesailer_mi]

I'm thinking more. When you consider all of the casual single sex, one night stands, FWBs ... then the number of times committed couples do it just for the sake of doing it or to please the other, I'm thinking it's more than half. Just my opinion.

I'm a little confused on the committed couples part. I agree, if we count that, it's a lot of the time. But, then...what times exactly wouldn't count????

I mean, if we include, "for the sake of doing it" are we just ruling out sex for procreation as the only "real time" so to speak?

 

[BongoGal]

I've always interpreted this not as gettjng laid but to not pine over someone you'll never have.

From the same song:

Don't be angry, don't be sad
Don't sit crying over good times you've had
There's a girl right next to you
And she's just waiting for something to do

I think we know what they're going to do.

 

[BongoGal]

I mean, if we include, "for the sake of doing it" are we just ruling out sex for procreation as the only "real time" so to speak?

If so, I'm still a virgin in a way.

 

[ViciousTease]

I'm a little confused on the committed couples part. I agree, if we count that, it's a lot of the time. But, then...what times exactly wouldn't count????

I mean, if we include, "for the sake of doing it" are we just ruling out sex for procreation as the only "real time" so to speak?

In my head, "for the sake of doing it" was more about the mechanics of it. I was thinking the only "real time" was the passionate kind. Whether that's slow love making or desperate clothes tearing, I was talking about the kind of sex that is fueled by emotion and not just lust.

 

[ChainedUp]

I was thinking more along the lines of two people who had never met and then for some reason their paths cross and they have sex just because. No pretense of commitment, no ongoing affair. Just sex in the moment.