Litiquette V

[ChainedUp]

Nice to have people here to pick me up on off topic days. I still contest if you are that uninvolved during sex you either have no real interest in your partner or you're partner isn't very good at it.

Have you ever gone through the motions with someone, not the "every once in awhile just not feeling it but your long time partner is so you just roll with it", but the "well this is better than nothing" approach. A partner that just isn't good at sex? How long did you stay? Did you tell them? Did you cheat on them?

 

[Lord Pmann]

Even bad sex is still sex. Unless you're chewing my dick like it's a Slim Jim, it can't be toooo bad.

 

[lacandy]

Nice to have people here to pick me up on off topic days. I still contest if you are that uninvolved during sex you either have no real interest in your partner or you're partner isn't very good at it.

Have you ever gone through the motions with someone, not the "every once in awhile just not feeling it but your long time partner is so you just roll with it", but the "well this is better than nothing" approach. A partner that just isn't good at sex? How long did you stay? Did you tell them? Did you cheat on them?

Going on 27 years... *sigh*

 

[aussiegeekygal]

I've had good sex and bad sex. I'm married to really good sex
We still have bad sex, though.

 

[Lord Pmann]

This one is playing video games with two girls.

http://www.xvids.us/wp-content/uploads/2016/03/Double-Blowjob-While-Playing-Video-Game_thumb121-640x360.jpg

I don't play video games because I am so incredibly mature and all, but if I did, this is how I want to play them.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

I don't play video games because I am so incredibly mature and all, but if I did, this is how I want to play them.

But if you're sticking some dudes dick, are you really playing the game?

 

[PeteHulbert37]

Those poor girls. That image is depressing on so many levels. Real men don't play video games.

 

[ViciousTease]

If he can multitask through a blow job, she's not doing it right

True. Of course, even if she isn't doing it right he's still an ass for multi-tasking. When a woman gets on her knees and places your cock in her mouth, she deserves your full attention.

 

[Lord Pmann]

But if you're sticking some dudes dick, are you really playing the game?

Well played

Those poor girls. That image is depressing on so many levels. Real men don't play video games.

Depressing for whom? Depressing because he's playing video games and getting blown by two girls?

True. Of course, even if she isn't doing it right he's still an ass for multi-tasking. When a woman gets on her knees and places your cock in her mouth, she deserves your full attention.

I know. How rude? I mean, I totally give my full attention. I'm a gentleman when my dick is in someone's mouth.

 

[Suz_anne]

Nice to have people here to pick me up on off topic days. I still contest if you are that uninvolved during sex you either have no real interest in your partner or you're partner isn't very good at it.

Have you ever gone through the motions with someone, not the "every once in awhile just not feeling it but your long time partner is so you just roll with it", but the "well this is better than nothing" approach. A partner that just isn't good at sex? How long did you stay? Did you tell them? Did you cheat on them?

I've had good sex and bad sex. I'm married to really good sex
We still have bad sex, though.

^^^^ I agree. Even when you're with someone with whom you have good sex, you can still have bad sex sometimes. Luckily, we both have a pretty good sense of humor about it. I can't imagine staying with someone for a long time if we weren't having good sex ever.

 

[PeteHulbert37]

Well played



Depressing for whom? Depressing because he's playing video games and getting blown by two girls?



I know. How rude? I mean, I totally give my full attention. I'm a gentleman when my dick is in someone's mouth.

Depressing that attractive women would subject themselves to a world class douche bag like that.

 

[may_I_please]

That last page

What did I just see?

 

[aussiegeekygal]

Depressing that attractive women would subject themselves to a world class douche bag like that.

Why? They have this beautiful power to choose to do whatever the hell they want.

And, why on earth is their appearance a qualifier for extra curricular activities? That's bullshit.

 

[Lord Pmann]

Depressing that attractive women would subject themselves to a world class douche bag like that.

I'm more annoyed that they're blowing someone who lives in a house that rivals the aftermath of Katrina. Filthy.

Why? They have this beautiful power to choose to do whatever the hell they want.

And, why on earth is their appearance a qualifier for extra curricular activities? That's bullshit.

Oh, you of all people know that pretty people get different standards and treatment. I tell you about it all the time.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

I'm more annoyed that they're blowing someone who lives in a house that rivals the aftermath of Katrina. Filthy.

Oh, you of all people know that pretty people get different standards and treatment. I tell you about it all the time.

High standards much?
That place isn't that bad... You did make me go take another look, though.

And as for standards of treatment, it's bullshit. I refuse to play into that stupid game. I'll fuck who I want when I want regardless of appearance and it is noone else's god damn business when I do.

 

[Suz_anne]

This one is playing video games with two girls.

http://www.xvids.us/wp-content/uploads/2016/03/Double-Blowjob-While-Playing-Video-Game_thumb121-640x360.jpg

I'm more annoyed that they're blowing someone who lives in a house that rivals the aftermath of Katrina. Filthy.

High standards much?
That place isn't that bad... You did make me go take another look, though.

I'm with Aussie - that place isn't too terribly dirty. I've seen a lot worse examples of stellar housekeeping in porn photos.

I'm more distressed by him sitting on the furniture without anything underneath him. Unless you're fresh out of the shower, don't do that. And even then... don't do that.

 

[ChainedUp]

The conversation skewed a little toward standards yesterday. What we're willing to accept. For some, a bare bum on the couch is crossing the line, for others it's some scattered clutter, while yet others have different standards.

How do you set your standards? Have they changed over time? Are you willing to accept lower standards than you once might have? Or have you upgraaded and decided that you command a higher standard than you used to?

 

[beachbaby179]

I think in general, from a housekeeping perspective, you have to lower your standards when you have small children. It should always be clean, but you have to accept a certain amount of clutter and chaos. Otherwise you'll drive yourself crazy. As the boys got older, they've confined the mayhem to their rooms, so I just close the door.

 

[Lord Pmann]

High standards much?
That place isn't that bad... You did make me go take another look, though.

And as for standards of treatment, it's bullshit. I refuse to play into that stupid game. I'll fuck who I want when I want regardless of appearance and it is noone else's god damn business when I do.

It's not as bad as some pics, but those Xbox cases there aren't well organized and that pile of mail in the back makes me want to scream. I hate messy papers and such. And yes, high standards.

I am sure all the ugly people appreciate your willingness to fuck them and treat them with respect. Me, I'll have no part of that. No thank you. Ugly people delivering the news? No thanks. I'll try another channel. Ugly actors? Sorry, CBS, I have to change the station.

 

[Lord Pmann]

The conversation skewed a little toward standards yesterday. What we're willing to accept. For some, a bare bum on the couch is crossing the line, for others it's some scattered clutter, while yet others have different standards.

How do you set your standards? Have they changed over time? Are you willing to accept lower standards than you once might have? Or have you upgraaded and decided that you command a higher standard than you used to?

I have pretty high standards about cleanliness. I'm not saying my house is never unclean or cluttered. But I think compared to most, my house probably seems less cluttered. Perhaps it was my overbearing mother who kept the house as clean as one can keep a house and still live there. I don't like going into houses where there is massive clutter or dirty things. It makes me uneasy.

One of my best friends, growing up, lived in a filthy house. And as a five year old kid, I was terrified to bathe there.

I think in general, from a housekeeping perspective, you have to lower your standards when you have small children. It should always be clean, but you have to accept a certain amount of clutter and chaos. Otherwise you'll drive yourself crazy. As the boys got older, they've confined the mayhem to their rooms, so I just close the door.

To be fair, I don't have kids. So, I'm less tolerant of clutter and chaos. And my house is the least kid friendly place on earth. When anyone comes to my house to do work, I get one comment- "You don't have kids, do you?"

I do always wonder about this... what is it with children and their sticky hands? I have a feeling that parents leave a jar of honey or jam at the door and dip their kids hands in it before they leave. What's with the jam hands, parents?!

 

[lacandy]

I have pretty high standards about cleanliness. I'm not saying my house is never unclean or cluttered. But I think compared to most, my house probably seems less cluttered. Perhaps it was my overbearing mother who kept the house as clean as one can keep a house and still live there. I don't like going into houses where there is massive clutter or dirty things. It makes me uneasy.

One of my best friends, growing up, lived in a filthy house. And as a five year old kid, I was terrified to bathe there.



To be fair, I don't have kids. So, I'm less tolerant of clutter and chaos. And my house is the least kid friendly place on earth. When anyone comes to my house to do work, I get one comment- "You don't have kids, do you?"

I do always wonder about this... what is it with children and their sticky hands? I have a feeling that parents leave a jar of honey or jam at the door and dip their kids hands in it before they leave. What's with the jam hands, parents?!

We only do that when we know we are going to someone with no kids house...

 

[LWulf]

How do you set your standards? Have they changed over time? Are you willing to accept lower standards than you once might have? Or have you upgraaded and decided that you command a higher standard than you used to?

In some regards, my standards have risen, while others have lowered.

For example, I used to like a rough and tumble kind of crowd. You could sing Garth's "Friends in Low Places" used to sum up my life nicely. I aspired to white trash. While a child, I lived in an ivory tower, with a silver spoon in my mouth. Even then, I sought out the poorer quarters Where the ragged people go Looking for the places Only they would know.

Don't get me wrong, I still like the rough and tumble kind of life (said as I am wearing my shit kickers), but there are times nowadays when I seek out nicer accommodations (said in my Comfort Inn with indoor pool, master bed with opulent furnishings).

 

[Lord Pmann]

We only do that when we know we are going to someone with no kids house...

We do not appreciate that. Not one bit.

 

[Paul_Chance]

The conversation skewed a little toward standards yesterday. What we're willing to accept. For some, a bare bum on the couch is crossing the line, for others it's some scattered clutter, while yet others have different standards.

How do you set your standards? Have they changed over time? Are you willing to accept lower standards than you once might have? Or have you upgraaded and decided that you command a higher standard than you used to?

There are so many areas where we have standards.

In friends and lovers, I gravitate toward compassion, intelligence, imagination and a certain love of life that is hard to quantify. People who, like me, enjoy both the simple and complex things in life.

In terms of appearance, I jokingly tell people that if I was gorgeous, I might be picky, but I'm not. I'm basically average looking and I'm comfortable with it. Every imaginary standard you apply shrinks the pool of potential friends and lovers and you miss out on some great people because vanity and concern about what other people think blinded you to the true beauty of the world.

As for home cleanliness - I'm a minimalist (as a larger part of my spiritual and life journey) so my home is, as an ex-girlfriend used to say "scary clean". Because there isn't much stuff here, it takes me minutes to clean it, so it stays clean.

I really don't care what someone's home looks like - I grew up dirt poor on a hard scrabble ranch and I've traveled into all kinds of environments over the world through the years. I care about whether the person is a good person and happy - those are the things that really matter.

 

[Paul_Chance]

High standards much?
That place isn't that bad... You did make me go take another look, though.

And as for standards of treatment, it's bullshit. I refuse to play into that stupid game. I'll fuck who I want when I want regardless of appearance and it is noone else's god damn business when I do.

Well said Aussie, well said. The science fiction author Robert Heinlein once say "true freedom begins when you tell Mrs. Grundy to go fly a kite". The world is full of people who want to tell you how to live. Smile. Be kind. Then live the life you want to live and they don't like it that's their karma, not yours.