Litiquette V

[MessierObject]

Rainy,gray, chilly. Feels like fall is knocking at the door.

What do you feel is on its way? Are you anticipating with angst or glee?

I've found that only rarely are things as good or as bad as anticipated, why aren't we able to gauge our anticipation better, we have lots of practice at it?

The stress and business of another rapidly approaching semester. I look forward to it because I enjoy it, but dread all of the craziness that comes with it. And as quickly as it comes it will be over.

 

[Paul_Chance]

Rainy,gray, chilly. Feels like fall is knocking at the door.

What do you feel is on its way? Are you anticipating with angst or glee?

I've found that only rarely are things as good or as bad as anticipated, why aren't we able to gauge our anticipation better, we have lots of practice at it?

I'm crashing gracefully toward retirement (anytime I decide to grab the eject handles and blast out of modern working life). I won't quit working. I love what I do - but I will redo the terms under which I work significantly. I'll switch to a point where I only do what I want, when I want in terms of work engagements. I am anticipating it - but I'd be a liar if I said there wasn't an element of "what the fuck are you going to do"?

I have vague plans, some ideas, and a few Walter Mitty style fantasies. So, there is a combination of glee and angst.

 

[dacoach44]

Well Paul....

I'm crashing gracefully toward retirement (anytime I decide to grab the eject handles and blast out of modern working life). I won't quit working. I love what I do - but I will redo the terms under which I work significantly. I'll switch to a point where I only do what I want, when I want in terms of work engagements. I am anticipating it - but I'd be a liar if I said there wasn't an element of "what the fuck are you going to do"?

I have vague plans, some ideas, and a few Walter Mitty style fantasies. So, there is a combination of glee and angst.

You will find plenty. You can easily kill 2 hours/day here. Plenty of books U aint read, lots of people out there need a hand (with all sorts of chores) not to mention your daily workout, watching the news, read the paper, and the very needy volunteer organizations that are dying for lack of vols. Then, lookit me, I got 2 grandkids closeby.

 

[dacoach44]

Good girl, Suz....

My husband. He'll soon be on his way home after 2 weeks away for a work trip. And I am gleefully anticipating his return.

Who knew I liked the fucker so much?

Give the boy what her needs. U KNOW what that is.

 

[lakesailer_mi]

Rainy,gray, chilly. Feels like fall is knocking at the door.

What do you feel is on its way? Are you anticipating with angst or glee?

I've found that only rarely are things as good or as bad as anticipated, why aren't we able to gauge our anticipation better, we have lots of practice at it?

I hope that my son is on his way toward a great life.
I am anticipating his next step with a little of both angst and happiness.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Rainy,gray, chilly. Feels like fall is knocking at the door.

What do you feel is on its way? Are you anticipating with angst or glee?

I've found that only rarely are things as good or as bad as anticipated, why aren't we able to gauge our anticipation better, we have lots of practice at it?

Complete life overhaul currently in progress. I'm looking forward to being on the other side of it, but know that there's a price to be paid to get there.

I choose to enjoy anticipation as an end in itself. Who doesn't like a good daydream?

 

[ChainedUp]

Quick hitter for a Saturday.....

Blue skies, white puffy clouds, and a Saturday morning. Paint the image of what's in your head today....

 

[SMNaughtywife]

Quick hitter for a Saturday.....

Blue skies, white puffy clouds, and a Saturday morning. Paint the image of what's in your head today....

A little down time as the grill warms up. Just using my time wisely.

 

[ChainedUp]

Hmmm, wonders if I grill breakfast a little down time will come my way

I think some time ago the topic was. Reaches of exchanging sex for a favor of some kind. After that has been used as a negotiating tactic once, does that change future requests? If I'm offered a blow job in exchange for something, I'm going to hold out on all project work until offered a similar payment in kind.

 

[Suz_anne]

That's not how it works. That's not how any of this works. *smh*

 

[Paul_Chance]

I've only exchanged sex as a favor as a shared bit of humor before. I think the moment sex becomes a commodity in a relationship the actual relationship is over.

 

[ChainedUp]

That's not how it works. That's not how any of this works. *smh*

But don't you want it to work this way

You: The lawn needs mowing
Him: I'd rather watch the ball game
You: I'll suck your cock, then you mow, then watch the end of the game
Him: *thud* as his pants and belt drop to the floor

 

[ViciousTease]

But don't you want it to work this way

You: The lawn needs mowing
Him: I'd rather watch the ball game
You: I'll suck your cock, then you mow, then watch the end of the game
Him: *thud* as his pants and belt drop to the floor

*whispers* "You mow the lawn, then I'll suck your cock while you watch the end of the game," might work better. The lawn gets mowed before it gets too hot outside. Also, you're being rewarded, not bribed, so she's more likely to take her time and make it exceptional rather than a quick send off to do manual labor.

 

[ChainedUp]

*whispers* "You mow the lawn, then I'll suck your cock while you watch the end of the game," might work better. The lawn gets mowed before it gets too hot outside. Also, you're being rewarded, not bribed, so she's more likely to take her time and make it exceptional rather than a quick send off to do manual labor.

Be careful of the the "bait n switch" maneuver where the promised blow job turns into "two tomorrow"

 

[ViciousTease]

Be careful of the the "bait n switch" maneuver where the promised blow job turns into "two tomorrow"

Ahh, the source of so many trust issues. That's when you remind her she can suck or be face fucked, but payment is due.

Yeah, I said that.

 

[ChainedUp]

Ahh, the source of so many trust issues. That's when you remind her she can suck or be face fucked, but payment is due.

Yeah, I said that.

Payment is always due....

 

[Azuldrgon]

Ahh, the source of so many trust issues. That's when you remind her she can suck or be face fucked, but payment is due.

Yeah, I said that.

fuck.....*spank*

 

[ViciousTease]

Payment is always due....

You must have an immaculate lawn.

 

[Paul_Chance]

Or, just like when you're working with contractors. Half up front, half on completion of the tasks.

 

[SMNaughtywife]

Or, just like when you're working with contractors. Half up front, half on completion of the tasks.

I dig this thinking. Yup.

My negotiating skills blows goats.
Wait a minute... maybe it's not me!! Blames the husband for poor compromising skills. Yes, way better.

 

[Bitesback]

Or, just like when you're working with contractors. Half up front, half on completion of the tasks.

That was my thinking... I'd want the job done and done well.

Now I'm wondering if that's where I've been going wrong. Maybe getting rid of the lawn was not such a great idea...

 

[ChainedUp]

Chasing pleasure. It's what we do. And this group really chases it, more so than the average walking down the street person. However we all have those things that we won't do, hard limits, turn-offs. But what if you were guaranteed the most incredible sexual experience of your life if you pushed past the limit. Would you be able to? Would you want to?

 

[Endless_Night]

Not enough information. What is the limit? Who is doing the guaranteeing? Do I think they are trustworthy? How do they know it will be the most incredible sexual experience of my life?

#suspiciouskitty

I think I am more likely to have an incredible experience thrust upon me than to garner it through seeking.

Ummm. No actual pun intended there. It is early. My word bank is limited.

 

[SMNaughtywife]

Most incredible experience of my life?!
Just sign me up now, I'll ask questions later.

 

[ViciousTease]

Chasing pleasure. It's what we do. And this group really chases it, more so than the average walking down the street person. However we all have those things that we won't do, hard limits, turn-offs. But what if you were guaranteed the most incredible sexual experience of your life if you pushed past the limit. Would you be able to? Would you want to?

My hard limits are few and they are hard limits for a reason. I would pass on the guaranteed experience if it required pushing past one of them.

Now, if it were a soft limit ...