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Which of the following is the most likely reason you post in a thread

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When I have peace of mind and love in my heart, that is when my life has purpose and meaning. That is when I can fulfill my purpose. And that, to me, has great meaning. That is when I can be the best version of myself for others, which brings me joy, confidence, contentment, and a feeling of accomplishment... because at any given moment I can choose to do my best. There isn't any greater motivation than that.

Very well said. I like the phrase - best version of myself. In more troubled times I had a sticker stuck on the back of my door that said "Don't try to be more than you are. Try not to be less then you are." It inspired me and came from a time when I realized that I was fighting the wrong battle - I was struggling to be more than I was, when what I really needed to be was - me. It was the beginning of a long journey of self-discovery and self-exploration. Once I had figured out who I was - what I loved, what I valued - and made those aspects the centerpiece of the choices and actions of my life, it all came together.

Thank you, DS. Since it meant something to you, I'm going to share something else. As nonsensical as it may seem, I have found that the harder I work at being a better person, at seeing and knowing the goodness within, at acceptance and forgiveness, at filling myself with faith, hope, and love... I have watched some of the most significant people in my life fall away. One would think it would be just the opposite. It's not. Not for me.

I'd second this. Over the course of my journey I pretty much lost almost everyone who was there when I started it. One by one they just fell away. I think that is part of the nature of that type of inner (and outer) journey. We cling to our friends as they cling to us - out of habit, out of need, out of fundamental fear of personal change and transformation. When we open our hand and they have the choice of staying or not - quite often they make the decision, either consciously or unconsciously, to go. That's okay. Once there is space in your life, you'll find that other friends move into that space and the journey continues.
 
I won't say it's my favoritest Jim Croce song, but "Bad, Bad Leroy Brown" was his most funnest. All I had to do was listen to it, and I'd start smilin'

There's not a lot of songs you can say that and not get laughed at about nowadays...
 
Online playmates & partners can be a lot of fun. The play can be highly erotic and orgasms can be plentiful. But 99% will never physically be with their partner, it's the deal we have signed up for. But if you could be, even just once, what part of being with them would you covet the most? Would it be the fell of their skin, the smell of their hair, the look in their eyes, or the sounds of their laughter right there in the same room with you? What would you want to leave that time spent with your partner never forgetting?
 
Why, the hot sweaty sex, of course!

Just kidding.

Kind of.

I'd want to listen to some tunes together and make out like teenagers. That would be high on the agenda. As would sitting in his lap and inhaling him like human aromatherapy :)
 
Hmmm. Good one today. But I need more coffee first. I'll check back in later. Hmmmm....
 
We would spend hours watching reruns of The Bachelor, of course!

Before that, Pmann. The FIRST thing, before you need that hours long recovery period. What Trekka said...

But seriously. I would never meet anyone from here unless I knew them fairly well already and trusted them. There would already be phone calls, etc. So there would definitely be chemistry. But would it hold up in person? That's the big question. So I imagine that the first meeting would be full of anticipation. I'd guess that the first thing would be to look in his eyes. What I'd want to see is an equal amount of nervousness, and a bit of wonder that we were finally in the same physical space. And that would be followed by about 15 seconds of awkward silence and smiles. But then I'd expect a kiss hello. And then I'd know....

That first contact would be memorable. Something to hold onto.
 
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Before that, Pmann. The FIRST thing, before you need that hours long recovery period. What Trekka said...

But seriously. I would never meet anyone from here unless I knew them fairly well already and trusted them. There would already be phone calls, etc. So there would definitely be chemistry. But would it hold up in person? That's the big question. So I imagine that the first meeting would be full of anticipation. I'd guess that the first thing would be to look in his eyes. What I'd want to see is an equal amount of nervousness, and a bit of wonder that we were finally in the same physical space. And that would be followed by about 15 seconds of awkward silence and smiles. But then I'd expect a kiss hello. And then I'd know....

That first contact would be memorable. Something to hold onto.

what she said :D
 
Touch. Just that. Skin-on-skin.
The sensation of his breath against my neck, the warmth of his voice in my ear.
Those subtleties that are lost completely via text, but are more important perhaps than the rest.

Disclaimer: I don't have lit cyber-buddies for the above reason. But that's not to say that I've never fallen for anyone online...
 
Before that, Pmann. The FIRST thing, before you need that hours long recovery period. What Trekka said...

But seriously. I would never meet anyone from here unless I knew them fairly well already and trusted them. There would already be phone calls, etc. So there would definitely be chemistry. But would it hold up in person? That's the big question. So I imagine that the first meeting would be full of anticipation. I'd guess that the first thing would be to look in his eyes. What I'd want to see is an equal amount of nervousness, and a bit of wonder that we were finally in the same physical space. And that would be followed by about 15 seconds of awkward silence and smiles. But then I'd expect a kiss hello. And then I'd know....

That first contact would be memorable. Something to hold onto.

Clearing my calendar now...reaching for the phone...spraying a little Binaca...pick me! Pick me!
 
Online playmates & partners can be a lot of fun. The play can be highly erotic and orgasms can be plentiful. But 99% will never physically be with their partner, it's the deal we have signed up for. But if you could be, even just once, what part of being with them would you covet the most? Would it be the fell of their skin, the smell of their hair, the look in their eyes, or the sounds of their laughter right there in the same room with you? What would you want to leave that time spent with your partner never forgetting?

After jumping him and hugging and kissing him to absolute pieces! . .

:D

I'd covet and want to relish a little piece of every moment. The look in his eyes, the cocky grin I hear in his voice....touching, brushing my nails over his knuckles....breathing, dependent on behavior -- from anticipation, excitement, teasing . .

Foreplay, sex, role playing....everything that is our particular connection.

Although, mostly, I think it would be his voice. Laughing. Aurally pleasuring me in person, in or close to my ear. Moaning, groaning, talking dirty. Masturbating. Ejaculating. Hearing that masculine growl I simply adore....

Whew! .... :eek:
 
After jumping him and hugging and kissing him to absolute pieces! . .

:D

I'd covet and want to relish a little piece of every moment. The look in his eyes, the cocky grin I hear in his voice....touching, brushing my nails over his knuckles....breathing, dependent on behavior -- from anticipation, excitement, teasing . .

Foreplay, sex, role playing....everything that is our particular connection.

Although, mostly, I think it would be his voice. Laughing. Aurally pleasuring me in person, in or close to my ear. Moaning, groaning, talking dirty. Masturbating. Ejaculating. Hearing that masculine growl I simply adore....

Whew! .... :eek:

have I been talking to you on the phone too?
 
For me it's always that incredible feel of skin on skin - that is what I crave when involved in a cyber relationship or partnership.
 
Online playmates & partners .... What would you want to leave that time spent with your partner never forgetting?

I want to remember feeling the goose bumps trail across his chest and shoulders as I rake my nails across his back. His height and strength as his arms pin me up against the wall. And taste my sweetness off his soft lips. Oh I can go on....
All of this hypothetical of course, adjusts my angel wings, looks back and smiles.
 
Online playmates & partners can be a lot of fun. The play can be highly erotic and orgasms can be plentiful. But 99% will never physically be with their partner, it's the deal we have signed up for. But if you could be, even just once, what part of being with them would you covet the most? Would it be the fell of their skin, the smell of their hair, the look in their eyes, or the sounds of their laughter right there in the same room with you? What would you want to leave that time spent with your partner never forgetting?

Everything... just being in his presence. Feeling his body on mine, the sound of his voice in my ear, to see if it sound as good as it does on the phone. The expressions on his face as he laughs or smiles at whatever silly thing I might say, and the look in his eyes where I know exactly what he is thinking and wanting.
 
Looks at the citation book gathering dust. Everyone has been so good lately. I'm all about rewards so in that spirit it's a fee-for-all Thursday. Let the Litiquette spirit move you any way you want. No topic off limits, the citation book is on lock down.

Enjoy!
 
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