Litiquette IV

[NorthRockJohnson]

I agree. Actually getting to hold the mic that Elvis and Jerry Lewis and everyone else used... That was pretty awesome.

I know, right?? What an amazing time that was.

 

[ChainedUp]

Quiet place yesterday, the weekend crowd must have thought the place was titled Library.

Is your current partner the best lover you've ever had? If not, why didn't things last with your best lover?

 

[rubydlite]

Quiet place yesterday, the weekend crowd must have thought the place was titled Library.

Is your current partner the best lover you've ever had? If not, why didn't things last with your best lover?

Well, since I'm single....no lover can't be the best lover
I didn't realize my best lover was my best lover until years later...we grew apart, we were young. I always compare everyone to him...not during a relationship...but in a retrospective way.

 

[beachbaby179]

Might as well copy Ruby's. I could have written the same thing...we were way too young to last.

 

[Lustful_Intentions]

Well, since I'm single....no lover can't be the best lover
I didn't realize my best lover was my best lover until years later...we grew apart, we were young. I always compare everyone to him...not during a relationship...but in a retrospective way.

Might as well copy Ruby's. I could have written the same thing...we were way too young to last.

My only reply is to echo these. Seems the sort of thing that happens when you're too young to understand or fully appreciate it.

 

[rubydlite]

It could also be that, without the burden of parenting, bills, neck deep adult responsibilities, the confidence of youth...yadda yadda, we're more focused on that pleasure. It reminds me of stories of empty nesters saying they enjoy sex more than ever.
*shrugs*...I know there are exceptions to everything...just my thoughts.

 

[Trekka]

Yes he is. Very much so. I'm a happy woman. Amen and hallelujah.

 

[Suz_anne]

When I first started answering this, I think I was mixing up the partner I had the best sex with and my best lover. The man I had the best singular sexual experience of my life with was not my best lover. In fact, he was probably the most selfish.

The best sex of my life over the course of a relationship has been with my husband. Because of the intimacy and the love and how that translates to how we fuck and make love.

All of that to answer... yes.

 

[tnman03]

I’m not currently involved in a relationship, opportunities and offers are there I’m just enjoying being on my own without a bunch of bad drama.


As to the why things didn’t work with the best lover I had? She was emotionally unstable and self destructive. It was years later when I learned she’d been diagnosed with borderline personality disorder. A wonderful lover in the bed room but completely untrustworthy as well as suicidal, it was a real world learning experience.

 

[Lord Pmann]

When I first started answering this, I think I was mixing up the partner I had the best sex with and my best lover. The man I had the best singular sexual experience of my life with was not my best lover. In fact, he was probably the most selfish.

I've been called extremely selfish. *winks*

 

[ElasticMermaid]

I mean...if you mix them all together.

 

[Little_Sister]

Quiet place yesterday, the weekend crowd must have thought the place was titled Library.

Is your current partner the best lover you've ever had? If not, why didn't things last with your best lover?

Yep. Best and only. Not the best kisser tho. That would be my SIL (his bros' wife)

 

[default24]

Quiet place yesterday, the weekend crowd must have thought the place was titled Library.

Is your current partner the best lover you've ever had? If not, why didn't things last with your best lover?

Current is definitely the best. She's been the most inventive and attentive, giving and willing. Frequency has dropped off from where I'd like but nothing is perfect

 

[sweetsophie512]

Quiet place yesterday, the weekend crowd must have thought the place was titled Library.

Is your current partner the best lover you've ever had? If not, why didn't things last with your best lover?

I can't say that he's the best lover I've ever had, but I can say this - I am enjoying myself a lot today. It has a lot to do with my own maturity, mind set and what my priorities are. He allows me to explore, be creative and embrace my sexuality.

 

[GiggLeGasm]

yes.

 

[Trekka]

yes.

Right?!

Lotsa happy ladies floating around in here it seems

*fist pumps*

 

[SMNaughtywife]

My first thought was no. I had a rock star, kinky as fuck BF and the sex was mind blowing. Why didn't it work-- our relationship was built on 420 glass gadgets, late nights playing Spades and escaping melting walls. But maybe it was all the elixirs that made the sex so good, hard telling.

My husband gets my vote. I've lured him over to the dark side and corrupted his once vanilla preferences. He wasn't quite sure, but I'm certain he's a happy camper now.

 

[Trekka]

But maybe it was all the elixirs that made the sex so good, hard telling.

Having vast experience in both, I've come to reaaaallllllyyyy enjoy the elixir-free version of sex... all sensory systems at full capacity

 

[Lord Pmann]

You filthy tarts. Sex is for making babies. Not fun.

 

[GiggLeGasm]

You filthy tarts. Sex is for making babies. Not fun.

that may be the nicest thing you've ever called me

 

[SMNaughtywife]

Having vast experience in both, I've come to reaaaallllllyyyy enjoy the elixir-free version of sex... all sensory systems at full capacity

Agree and agree. Fun back in the day though!

You filthy tarts. Sex is for making babies. Not fun.

Such a fuddy-duddy!

 

[Suz_anne]

Having vast experience in both, I've come to reaaaallllllyyyy enjoy the elixir-free version of sex... all sensory systems at full capacity

Ohhhhhh, but I loooove a little 420 sexin'. It has to be just the right amount of elixir or else I just get sleepy. But when it's right, it is so good.

You filthy tarts. Sex is for making babies. Not fun.

If I remember correctly, there aren't any little pboys or pgirls running around, so.... I guess you're doing it wrong?

 

[ChainedUp]

In/out.....in/out... It's not all that complicated. Tosses a manual on the counter for anyone that needs it for a "friend"

 

[GiggLeGasm]

is it an illustrated manual?

 

[All_4_Love]

is it an illustrated manual?

Hahaha!

Well, he is the only lover I've ever had. I've had partners with whom I've had sex, but none of them were lovers. It has taken me a lot of time to connect enough with him emotionally to begin opening up to him, and I still have some work to do. For this reason, I'm pretty certain I may not be his best lover, although I wish to be someday.