Literotica doesn't seem to understand BDSM

[The_Wolf_]

Hi. I posted two stories here a few weeks ago that have been view 15,000 times collectively and rated fairly well. Thanks to that I decided to post the other eight that i've written.

My stories aren't' fiction, they are true accounts of my experiences and they, along with my profile are some of the most popular on the BDSM community site Fetlife.

All of the stories have been rejected as they "include non construal sex in which the victim derived no pleasure."

These stories are no different from the first two which were approved and they all clearly involve consent and a HUGE amount of pleasure being derived from the "victims."

I'm assuming the editors didn't actually read them or have no understanding of BDSM. Any suggestions as to how to tackle this would be welcome however I'm more than happy to post my work elsewhere if thats what Literotioca would prefer.

Regards,

The Wolf.

 

[Stella_Omega]

There is only one single reader-- Laurel, the owner of the site. She doesn't always have a perfect record.
Simply re-submit, pointing out the elements that accentuate the consensual nature of the story in the notes section.

 

[BiBunny]

There is only one single reader-- Laurel, the owner of the site. She doesn't always have a perfect record.
Simply re-submit, pointing out the elements that accentuate the consensual nature of the story in the notes section.

It's kinda weird that the OP would have to, given that there's an entire "Non-Consent/Reluctance" category on the site. But nobody ever said this place was without its own level of hypocrisy, I suppose.

 

[ArkansasPrimal]

I kind'a Got The Same Feeling.

Oh well sorry to hear that.

It seems to me in the short time I've been here that real life experiences are not wanted. No matter what the venue.

I was hoping to do some of my own fantasy erotic writing based on a few folk tales/fairy tales here.

And try and offer my help and advice to others.

But, alas I think not now.

I'll go back also to Fetlife where there are real life people in the lifestyle.

And if I was not a bit under the weather I'd be at a real munch tonight with real people who are active in the lifestyle for real.

Best Regards to all, Arkansas Primal

 

[The_Wolf_]

There is only one single reader-- Laurel, the owner of the site. She doesn't always have a perfect record.
Simply re-submit, pointing out the elements that accentuate the consensual nature of the story in the notes section.

Hi Stella. Is there a way of contacting Laurel as I don't really want to go to all that effort for her to just reject them again. She's the one making money out of our stories so I don't really feel like doing all the leg work for her/

 

[DVS]

Hi Stella. Is there a way of contacting Laurel as I don't really want to go to all that effort for her to just reject them again. She's the one making money out of our stories so I don't really feel like doing all the leg work for her/

You can send her a PM. Be patient. She's a busy person, but she'll get back to you. Be respectful of her. Ask what you'd need to do to get the stories accepted. Explain what you have said in this thread and see if she understands and agrees with you.

I once had a non-consent story that got rejected. She said I could rewrite it and resubmit, if I wanted to. I didn't want to change it, so I never resubmitted it. It was a story where the woman was an unwilling victim. There was no sex in the story. I would have had to change the plot too much and the story would have been totally different. So, I posted it in my profile at Fet.

Laurel has the site to think of and laws to live with. Some stories are just against her guidelines by design.

 

[The_Wolf_]

You can send her a PM. Be patient. She's a busy person, but she'll get back to you. Be respectful of her. Ask what you'd need to do to get the stories accepted. Explain what you have said in this thread and see if she understands and agrees with you.

I once had a non-consent story that got rejected. She said I could rewrite it and resubmit, if I wanted to. I didn't want to change it, so I never resubmitted it. It was a story where the woman was an unwilling victim. There was no sex in the story. I would have had to change the plot too much and the story would have been totally different. So, I posted it in my profile at Fet.

Laurel has the site to think of and laws to live with. Some stories are just against her guidelines by design.

Thanks DVS. Where to I find that link to PM her?

 

[IrisAlthea]

Thanks DVS. Where to I find that link to PM her?

Here:
http://forum.literotica.com/member.php?u=7

 

[Sweetdaisymae]

Oh well sorry to hear that.

It seems to me in the short time I've been here that real life experiences are not wanted. No matter what the venue.

I was hoping to do some of my own fantasy erotic writing based on a few folk tales/fairy tales here.

And try and offer my help and advice to others.

But, alas I think not now.

I'll go back also to Fetlife where there are real life people in the lifestyle.

And if I was not a bit under the weather I'd be at a real munch tonight with real people who are active in the lifestyle for real.

Best Regards to all, Arkansas Primal

6 posts and the insinuation that none of us here are lifestyle kinksters.

Methinks someone got butthurt!

 

[honeybee_345]

Hi. I posted two stories here a few weeks ago that have been view 15,000 times collectively and rated fairly well. Thanks to that I decided to post the other eight that i've written.

My stories aren't' fiction, they are true accounts of my experiences and they, along with my profile are some of the most popular on the BDSM community site Fetlife.

All of the stories have been rejected as they "include non construal sex in which the victim derived no pleasure."

These stories are no different from the first two which were approved and they all clearly involve consent and a HUGE amount of pleasure being derived from the "victims."

I'm assuming the editors didn't actually read them or have no understanding of BDSM. Any suggestions as to how to tackle this would be welcome however I'm more than happy to post my work elsewhere if thats what Literotioca would prefer.

Regards,

The Wolf.

I support what DVS and Stella_Omega had to say. Best of luck

 

[Stella_Omega]

if the issue is a story you want to submit, it really does work better for her, to resubmit. And what works better for her, works better for you too, when you think about it.

You can put the same thing into the notes that you were going to tell her in a PM.