Lit Picture Swap

[watergirl]

huskie -

just for you.

 

[huskie]

huskie -

just for you.

Sorry Watergirl...... but you have been Double dog dared. you know the rules. j.k.

For what its worth, RawHumor started a similar thread over on the pic board.....

http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?threadid=143151

 

[watergirl]

oops, meant to attach

this

 

[huskie]

Re: oops, meant to attach

this

Is this the bondage one we took the other night?? opps!! I meant that YOU took the other night??

 

[watergirl]

<grin>

sure it is!

 

[FunJohnny]

I agree

modest mouse...

I agree with all that you've said. I respect your ethics on the subject, and it's good to see that others feel the same as I do... although that might provide a false sense of security... at least it's good to know that not EVERYONE's bad...

I fully understand that anything I post is available for all to see/save/trade. It's a decision I've made. As far as trading pics one-on-one with someone.... it is a trust bond... and if someone broke it... well... let's just say I wouldn't be too happy... lol

Hats off to the thread, mouse... and all those who agree.

FJ

 

[modest mouse]

Thanks Johnny, stick around, I make foolish threads too.

 

[aly*]

I know it happens frequently. I know most people say they never do it. I'd still like to believe some people really don't.

Bottom line, I'd rather be seen as overreacting or whatever than put up with anything questionable in regards to privacy.

 

[modest mouse]

Aly,
Thats the flip side I suppose. Those who will pass along thrid party pics to you, will also be passing your pic along.

Its a matter of allowing each person to decide and shape their trust.

 

[Pyper]

Only two people on this board (who haven't met me IRL) have seen my pic and known it was me. I don't really pass around my pics because nobody ever asks...maybe I'm not sexy enough?

Anyway, I would not hand out a picture to anyone I hadn't known for at least several months and trusted well. I wouldn't give out anyone else's pic, email, or any other significant personal info without their permission either.

 

[MissTaken]

No, pic swapping without permission really isn't acceptable to me on any occasion.

I have saved a couple of personal av's thinking I would use them for board jokes, but even find that I can't do that in good consience.



Trust is something that grows based upon actions and someone who does this without approval really isn't likely to be trustworthy.

 

[Jim_Henson]

I still havent seen any mouse

 

[Calamity Jane]

Have you done it? Do you think its ok to do?
Has it been done to you?

I've not swapped without the permission of the third party. There are a couple of people who've offered to send me pics of others, and then not done so after talking to the 3rd party. I'm ok with that.

I have no idea if pics of me have been shared without my permission. I suppose as long as my mom doesn't get copies of the ones on the Am Pics board, I'm ok with it though.

 

[Jim_Henson]

Only two people on this board (who haven't met me IRL) have seen my pic and known it was me. I don't really pass around my pics because nobody ever asks...maybe I'm not sexy enough?

Anyway, I would not hand out a picture to anyone I hadn't known for at least several months and trusted well. I wouldn't give out anyone else's pic, email, or any other significant personal info without their permission either.

Hey, you wont even TALK to me

 

[Pyper]

Hey, you wont even TALK to me

That's cause you're weeeeeeird!

Anyway, you've seen that old pic of me, which is what inspired you to start calling me PJ, so nyah!

 

[patient1]

Like so many other things that people will say they're against and don't do...picture swapping, like PM forwarding, is rampant here and always has been.

Time and time again I've see people post indignant denials of behavior I have evidence of in my inbox, sent to me by another.

Hanns has been instrumental in exposing that very bit of hypocrisy by posting the gossip he receives from the "friends" entrusted with the material.

My guess is that Hanns doesn't hack people's shit....he receives it in plain brown wrappers like a reporter at Punch would.

In fact for that reason...he might be the most trusted poster here.

Lance

You mean Hanns is actually Laurel?
All those names he called her were a convincing cover, I'll give you that.

 

[ksmybuttons]

It's lit-e-quette.

There are the written rules in the forum guidelines. These are the minimum rules of good behavior.

And then there are the implied rules:

Don't fake your own death.
Don't pose as someone else, the artist will find out and call you on it.

Don't play on someone else's nic.

If you say something identifying, like how you are into something really different, it will follow you your entire time here.

Anything you say in a PM should be considered confidential. Anyone who does share PMs or images will be found out and be put to flames. A campaign will be launched to let everyone know what you did and it will be repeated endlessly. This is a hassle for the rest of us who have to view those threads.

What am I missing?

 

[Minkey Boodle]

Personally, when I get a pic from someone 'round here, I send it directly to hotornot.com

 

[Cozen.rm]

Never swap.

 

[Zmey]

Personally, when I get a pic from someone 'round here, I send it directly to hotornot.com

Remind me not to send you any pictures

 

[bluespoke]

I can't understand why anyone would risk a friendship by swapping pics.

Makes no sense to me to pass a pic and lose a friend.

 

[DevilBoy79]

well i guess you can say i do, if someone im me asking to see a pic etc, i send like 2 of me alone then always send one with Angel and myself, so maybe that counts as sending pics of other people or whatever, grr wish i could get back to sleep stupid stomach

 

[Jim_Henson]

That's cause you're weeeeeeird!

Anyway, you've seen that old pic of me, which is what inspired you to start calling me PJ, so nyah!

You think I need a reason to call people names?

And PJ... EVERYONE knows I'm wierd... you coulda came with a reason or something...

 

[Soblue]

ksmybuttons, once again I find myself agreeing with everything you said.

Sharing anything personal without the permission of the original party is not cool.

 

[estevie]

It's lit-e-quette.

There are the written rules in the forum guidelines. These are the minimum rules of good behavior.

And then there are the implied rules:

Don't fake your own death.
Don't pose as someone else, the artist will find out and call you on it.

Don't play on someone else's nic.

If you say something identifying, like how you are into something really different, it will follow you your entire time here.

Anything you say in a PM should be considered confidential. Anyone who does share PMs or images will be found out and be put to flames. A campaign will be launched to let everyone know what you did and it will be repeated endlessly. This is a hassle for the rest of us who have to view those threads.

What am I missing?

These implied rules are broken everyday.

People are asked if they share pm's, the answer is always no. But just recently, pm's were posted on the board.

People are asked if they share pics, everyone says no. But...



I have done it. I'll admit it. I will say in my defense that they were not pics of people I have met here. It was during my chat days when we would do a pic swap. Some pics are just too funny not to share with a good friend. But chat was different. People didn't mind you passing their pics, unless it was stated beforehand that it was not to be shared. Which I honored.