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Being overlooked or "skipped" is a norm around here, just have to learn to not to take it personally.
 
A few things.

If you say "I'm not going into detail" about a certain thing someone WILL send a PM asking about it anyway.

Stay off the general board. Full of nutters. Why they don't go to another board more suited to them, I have no idea.

Someone always has to turn a funny, positive, etc. thing into something negative and frustrating.

People get SUPER jealous. We're just talking on the internet, people. Get a grip. We're all supposed to be adults here.

I've only gotten one PM from a guy that didn't gross me out or make me want to block them. So... Pretty much only accept PMs from women.

A lot of men here are very predatory. I've gotten some horror stories in my inbox. I really hope I don't come off that way. I don't particularly care if people like me or not but I don't want to be creepy.

The people I interact with often are all positive and stimulating. There are some very cool people here.

Just put people you don't like on your ignore list. You won't be getting PMs from them and whatever dumb shit they post will just be screaming into the wind.

There are a lot more racists, sexists, homophobes, and general assholes here than you'd expect. But, again, put them on the ignore list and that makes it a lot easier to deal with.

You'll probably find yourself spending a lot more time here than you thought you would. Especially if, like me, you find a lot of the topics interesting.

A LOT of people here are very interested in the idea of someone masturbating to them. I had no idea it was such a common fantasy among women.

AND FINALLY...

Some people get very insistent if you don't answer their messages quickly. Even if you've explained you have health problems and get tired very easily, and consequently can't always keep up. There's an "invisible" mode that makes it so you always appear to be offline. I suggest using that.
 
Being overlooked or "skipped" is a norm around here, just have to learn to not to take it personally.

It is often however, rude, and a sign someone can't be clever to someone of the same sex. Or it's just two people posting at the same time.
 
It is often however, rude, and a sign someone can't be clever to someone of the same sex. Or it's just two people posting at the same time.

I try not to skip over anyone, especially in the threads that ask something about the "above person", but sometimes (because the PG moves so fast) I will end up answering at the same time or just after someone else posts. However in some general threads people may engage in a conversation in which others have no comments about that, so often times people will get skipped over. Either way, I think most people don't do this with intent to be mean or try to ignore someone. It happens to everyone at some point. It's nothing personal.
 
It is often however, rude, and a sign someone can't be clever to someone of the same sex. Or it's just two people posting at the same time.

Or they don't know how to use the preview button to see if someone else has posted?

Some just don't care. But it probably isn't the majority doing it on purpose, unless I'm wrong and I could very well be. Lol
 
Or they don't know how to use the preview button to see if someone else has posted?

Some just don't care. But it probably isn't the majority doing it on purpose, unless I'm wrong and I could very well be. Lol

lol....oops, I don't really use the "preview" button before posting. I more or less just blurt and go :rolleyes:
 
I try not to skip over anyone, especially in the threads that ask something about the "above person", but sometimes (because the PG moves so fast) I will end up answering at the same time or just after someone else posts. However in some general threads people may engage in a conversation in which others have no comments about that, so often times people will get skipped over. Either way, I think most people don't do this with intent to be mean or try to ignore someone. It happens to everyone at some point. It's nothing personal.

Sometimes people skip just to be a smart ass. :D
 
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