tommynova2001
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We both have lost weight by eating better and in her case exercising to make it possible to be emotionally handle baring it all. We feel better and are more able to be athletic in the bedroom at our fighting weights.
Browsing the threads over (for me) several years has helped me to express in better terms to my wife that she is beautiful even though her body is not the same as it was of course 17 years ago when I fell in love with her. It gave me concrete examples that I could show her of women who I think look great despite the ravages that age and childbirth wreak on a womans body and esteem.
Posting has caused us to examine in critical detail our bodies and has made me understand better what insecurities she has so that I can show her they are at times unfounded. A good example of this is the rave reviews she has received about an anatomical part that she always thought looked atypical.
I think that planning and posing for pictures here and for our blog has added a fun dimension of kink that wouldn't otherwise be there. Looking to do something different for the audience has made us consider the visual stimulation needs of the most two important people in that audience, ourselves.
She has long been involved with graphic design, and I have been lazy about learning to use her adobe photoshop. As I learn so that I can resize, crop, and do actions like color maps and contrasts I am learning the language of a hobby she loves. This has brought us closer by combining her hobby of pictures with mine of kinky pictures and gives us a common interest.
Browsing the threads over (for me) several years has helped me to express in better terms to my wife that she is beautiful even though her body is not the same as it was of course 17 years ago when I fell in love with her. It gave me concrete examples that I could show her of women who I think look great despite the ravages that age and childbirth wreak on a womans body and esteem.
Posting has caused us to examine in critical detail our bodies and has made me understand better what insecurities she has so that I can show her they are at times unfounded. A good example of this is the rave reviews she has received about an anatomical part that she always thought looked atypical.
I think that planning and posing for pictures here and for our blog has added a fun dimension of kink that wouldn't otherwise be there. Looking to do something different for the audience has made us consider the visual stimulation needs of the most two important people in that audience, ourselves.
She has long been involved with graphic design, and I have been lazy about learning to use her adobe photoshop. As I learn so that I can resize, crop, and do actions like color maps and contrasts I am learning the language of a hobby she loves. This has brought us closer by combining her hobby of pictures with mine of kinky pictures and gives us a common interest.
