LilKitKat
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Some people have asked me over the year or so I have been here if things are cool with me and them because I make a fair amount of connections/friendships on here and sure, once in a while someone may send a message where they then feel they may have overstepped some bounds, possibly said soemthing that irked me or just...got in a moment of...being far too horny or whatever and didnt get the response they were hoping for...or maybe some other situation.Please remind me to never get to this level with you.
I almost always reply "yer fine, no worries, youll know when I am mad at you"...that type of thing.
Most stuff I can brush off or like...just not really reply to that person for a day and let it calm down completely. Usually they apologize and all is well. And sometimes I have if my response is too snarky or I jumped to a conclusion or whatever.
It happens. And its the fucking internet. Text can be misconstrued EASILY.
With that person, I had told him many times to stop being friendly one moment and publicly attacking me in another...and then pretend the world is burning down in a dm...and well, I finally got tired of it, and told him to stop messaging me.
The Jays won last night so I suspect he was trying to "rub salt in my wound"...but I dont live and breathe baseball either and am not that thin-skinned. Also I had said the Jays were the only team I root for other than the Dodgers, and have no ill will towards them except for George Springer who can die a slow death. So it doesnt bother me, though yes I am rooting for the Dodgers. Maybe he was trying to be a dick. Maybe he was somehow trying to re-engage conversation with me, maybe he just has a mental issue and doesnt know what he is doing. I have no idea.
I know there are several ppl that follow my thread that are Blue Jays fans and I will congratulate them (if they win it all) if they arent asshats to me. One playful joke or whatever is totally fine. Consistently being an ass and getting pleasure from seeing a friend sad is another. I said it a week or so ago, something about being a gracious winner and loser. Dont be a dick and all is well.
And this guy was told to stop many weeks ago and now couldnt contain either his glee over the win or his dick because he still fancies me or something.
Either way, not really acceptable.
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