Lil-Brandi/Juspar/Thumper

I'm not looking forward to the results if you are.

But guys take it differently anyway. They'll all just line up and give me a quick 'head or guts' option and be done with it.
 
My bet is I'm right on the money, but the men of Lit won't admit it after the fuss they made about the women's reaction to Brandi's pic.
 
I say, if that's the case, (and I'm not convinced - some of the women may find me attractive and I appreciate that, but I doubt the men will feel threatened) then line up and deal with it like men. Punch someone once and get it over with.
 
I'm about to go look at Juspar's site right now.

Cheyenne, I think you're absolutely right about your theory. But it was still a nasty episode, at least for me. Can't speak for anybody else.
 
oh yea Cheyenne ... i am so glad you made me look at that other thread ... boy i am catching up on a lot that i missed .... ;)

but i must say i am glad i missed this whole Lil Brandi thing ... it sounds like it was awful ... i am sure it would have bothered me ....

soooooooooo i lucked in ... i missed it ...
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Oh, Brandy would be such a fine girl
And so would the sweet Judy Blue
guess I sound just like that other fella
'Cause you know I wish I had Jessie's girl too
~Adam Sandler~
 
It has merit.

I think women in general are a bit more aware of how they compare with others. In my opinion though I find I am attracted to and turned on by a very wide array of body types. Attitude is much more important.

But it can be intimidating when you see every guy going gaga over someone else's photo. I have seen Cheyenne, April, Isabella and others and each one is attractive and sexy. (wish I had saved April's picture damnit!)

Just a thought, I think maybe a large part of the response to Brandi's pic was due to the openness of it, and that it was publicly displayed. That is rare for women or men here.

As Isabella says I am shameless...and I do like the attention. It so rarely happens in RL.

As for anybody recognizing me, who cares? Anybody that would even mention it in real life would immediately give away the fact that they come here and anyone that doesn't like it would never dare give that fact away.
 
*silence*

Only the image of various papers floating in the vortex created as Thumper took off for the mailbox....
 
Re: It has merit.

Thumper said:

Just a thought, I think maybe a large part of the response to Brandi's pic was due to the openness of it, and that it was publicly displayed. That is rare for women or men here.

Maybe. But I notice there aren't any other guys posting to this thread other than you and Juspar.

My theory is still that your pics being posted and drooled over has the same effect on the men of Lit as Brandi's pic being drooled over had on the women. It seemed like such a silly reaction when the shoe was on the female foot last week, but not so silly now when the shoe is on the collective male foot of the board. We all compare ourselves to what we think is the "ideal" look the other sex prefers.

Men may not have quite as good of an idea of how they stack up against other men, but they have some idea now of how they "measure up" after seeing all the pix posted today! The longer the men are silent, the more I am convinced I hit the nail on the head with my theory.

Maybe the Monday morning crowd will comment. Ambrosious? Nightlite? Sparky? Guru? Nobody Special? Xander? Phoenix? Mackdaddy? Dillinger?

[Edited by Cheyenne on 02-18-2001 at 10:36 PM]
 
Okay I'll jump in Cheyenne.
You know I didn't even go into the thread for the longest time. And when I finally did there was a pic of lil Brandi. So.
Sure Lil Brandi is a beautiful girl. BUt when it all comes down to it. I have no interest in Brandi like that. She has nothing, and no offence Brandi, that sparks my interest.

Different people has different preferences, so yes. I can see how some may have been intimidated by Brandis openess about it.

Now, I know for a fact, that guys also measure each other up, and like in my case. I dont know, for the world why anyone would like to look at a skinny body like mine, and I probaly never will.
But some people do, and the same goes for the girls. Those of you that I've been fortunate enough to see, has been very plasant and beautiful. And I do mean ALL of you.

So there. just my two cents.
 
Re: It has merit.

Thumper said:
But it can be intimidating when you see every guy going gaga over someone else's photo.

Yes, exactly like that.

Like I said in an email to a good friend, "after looking at Brandi, who would want to be with me?"

I don't look anything like that. But that's my problem, and I'm dealing with it.

I've realized this weekend that there are a lot of body types out there, but the ones that are most attractive to me are the ones belonging to people that I know somewhat. A total stranger might be gorgeous, but knowing something about a person makes them very sexy to me.

I hope I didn't confuse anyone with this post.
 
Re: Re: It has merit.

April said:
Like I said in an email to a good friend, "after looking at Brandi, who would want to be with me?"


*hand raises tentatively from the back row, unseen face half wispers* er, me, please?
 
Re: Re: It has merit.

April said:

Like I said in an email to a good friend, "after looking at Brandi, who would want to be with me?"

I would, but you probably knew that
 
Re: Re: It has merit.

April said:
Thumper said:
But it can be intimidating when you see every guy going gaga over someone else's photo.



Like I said in an email to a good friend, "after looking at Brandi, who would want to be with me?"

I don't look anything like that. But that's my problem, and I'm dealing with it.


I would April...and Cheyenne....et al

Everybody is different and you will find most men are attracted to a vast array of body types...Brandi is good looking and sexy but she is not the be all and end all of attractiveness. Her openness is probably what struck most of us. I can see how it would be interpreted wrong. I had this problem in adolescence as we all did I am sure. I was always within earshot of girls who went on endlessly about how hot or good looking this or that guy was. I assumed that I must be chopped liver since it was never me...I still get twinges of that...

I will never be as good looking as Ricky Martin or Prince or you name it...or dance as well (or at all hehehe I dnace like an epileptic chicken) but I realize that I can get a woman interested even if she adores those others...

The only way I could really prove you are all just as attractive is to....well, let's just say that would only be possible with a fistful of plane tickets and hotel reservations and relaxed inhibitions...;)

Rest assured though...you are.
 
I haven't compared myself to the other guy's, but if you ladies still want to take a look, try this link.

http://www.harderstuff.com/storyxs/amateurpics3/macd021801/macd021801.shtml

Besides, you can't change what was given to you.(well okay you can, but I won't.)

And there is the famous saying, "Different strokes for different strokes.". What a boring place this worl would be if everyone was just a like.

Just my $.02 probably worth much less.
 
Thumper, epileptic chicken? LMAO I damn near choked to death on an M&M while reading that! I'm the quintessential white girl: can't dance to save my life. Therefore, I don't try. Can't sing, either, but that doesn't stop me from doing it in the car, though.

Juspar and Chef, thank you. Very sweet.
 
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