lights on or off ?

On, for the most part. Sometimes we turn it off for role play situations, or if we start when we are in bed and too lazy to turn them on
 
Depends. Making love with the spouse, then subdued lighting and soft music. Having some fun with friends, then anything from soft lights, to bright sunshine.
 
Something real special about moonlight; the shades it gives to curves, and gentle movement ... Always un-draw the curtains when the moon is full. ;)
 
I agree

Having sex is about touching, feeling and SEEING.
 
Really don't have a preference, does just depend on the mood. That being said, since I end up on my back a good bit, I do hate a bright light in my eyes. Tends to kill the mood.
 
lights on - actually, natural light since it seems like we usually do it in the morning...
 
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