Licking Bum

[sarah_94]

Hello!

Hope this is the right place to post this but i've got a bit of a potential problem coming up. My boyfriend of about six months has recently started asking me most times im giving him a bj if i'll "go a bit lower down" , and lick his bum. I've put it off everytime because it wasnt something I really thought id like to do but, after much nagging, i've agreed to give it a go next time we see each other, probably tomorrow night.

Soooo, my question is (and I hope this doesnt sound stupid), but does it feel funny licking a guy there? Do most guys love this because he's asked me quite a few times, and are there any techniques I can use to do the job well?

Thank you for any advice!
Sarah x

 

[twstdf8]

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We loooooooove it!

 

[infinity706]

I've never had a single complaint from anyone that I've licked their ass. It is extremely pleasurable and I'd recommend it to anyone that can get over the idea enough to try. There aren't really any tips, though. It's not like you're going to orgasm from having your asshole licked.

 

[rthnck]

Click here to read the "Rimming" thread from the Sticky: The Blank Manual. It's a good start and the Blank manual at the top of the HowTo has links to lots of anal related threads. Or maybe this thread: Rimming and Ass Play

 

[wildehafer]

Anything to do with the anus must be clean, clean, clean!

Best if he's removed all the hair from the area too. A hairy ass isn't very attractive if you're going to shove your tongue into it.

As for techniques, rim around the hole with the tip of your tongue, lick over the hole, stick the tip of your tongue into the hole and wiggle the end, tongue fuck his hole. Get him to lay on his stomach, with his legs not so far apart so his ass isn't stretched out and with some nice anal foreplay, you can eventually "suck" his puckered hole partway into your mouth and then lash it, drill it with your tongue.

Have fun! I know he will

Hello!

Hope this is the right place to post this but i've got a bit of a potential problem coming up. My boyfriend of about six months has recently started asking me most times im giving him a bj if i'll "go a bit lower down" , and lick his bum. I've put it off everytime because it wasnt something I really thought id like to do but, after much nagging, i've agreed to give it a go next time we see each other, probably tomorrow night.

Soooo, my question is (and I hope this doesnt sound stupid), but does it feel funny licking a guy there? Do most guys love this because he's asked me quite a few times, and are there any techniques I can use to do the job well?

Thank you for any advice!
Sarah x

 

[pplwatching]

In my humble opinion, it's very rude and selfish to keep asking a lover for a sexual favor that she finds distasteful. You used the word "nagging", which really makes him sound like a jerk.

However, I think there's a middle ground if you are open to giving him something special in spite of that. I don't care for rimming (analingus) but I absolutely love it when my wife lets her fingers gently massage my perineum while blowing me (the sensitive area between the ball sack and anus). As I get more excited she'll press more firmly, and all I can say is "wow".

Then there are the times when she gets a little lube and gently strokes my anus itself before finger fucking me. I really wish I knew what I was doing right to get her to treat me to that, because it's absolutely exquisite. I'd shower her with gifts if I thought it would get me more of that .

If you are worried about the mess, or whatever, get some latex (or latex-free) gloves. Once your lover cums, toss the gloves in the trash and demand that he show you how much he deserves a repeat performance next time

 

[SweetErika]

In my humble opinion, it's very rude and selfish to keep asking a lover for a sexual favor that she finds distasteful. You used the word "nagging", which really makes him sound like a jerk.

However, I think there's a middle ground if you are open to giving him something special in spite of that. I don't care for rimming (analingus) but I absolutely love it when my wife lets her fingers gently massage my perineum while blowing me (the sensitive area between the ball sack and anus). As I get more excited she'll press more firmly, and all I can say is "wow".

Then there are the times when she gets a little lube and gently strokes my anus itself before finger fucking me. I really wish I knew what I was doing right to get her to treat me to that, because it's absolutely exquisite. I'd shower her with gifts if I thought it would get me more of that .

If you are worried about the mess, or whatever, get some latex (or latex-free) gloves. Once your lover cums, toss the gloves in the trash and demand that he show you how much he deserves a repeat performance next time

Great advice. We keep a box of nitrile gloves with our toys for exactly that reason.

Also, if you're not quite up for unprotected rimming, you can put some lube on his anus, then use something as a barrier between it and your mouth. Dental dams are standard, but you could also cut a condom or glove so you have a square of material to use as a barrier.

 

[Nataliefun41]

Once your taking his cock in your mouth, drag your finger down slowly until you get to his butt. Gently touch it. Tell him that if he will jump in the shower that you'll put your tounge right there. He will clean up and I think you will enjoy it too. You'll be amazed how much he goes crazy over it. After you tounge him for a while his butt will be very wet, slick from it. Slide your finger inside him, he will melt.

 

[sarah_94]

Hi again

Thanks for all your replies everybody they've made me feel a bit less stressed. As wildehafer mentioned I think it's the hair thing thats really putting me off. I mean he's not a hairy person at all but from what I've seen he has got some in his ass crack, but I suppose I'm just going to have to get on with it.

Anyhoo I'm meeting up with him soon so I suppose I'll be doing the dirty deed a little later on

Thanks again
Sarah x

 

[NippleMuncher]

Rimming is definitely NOT something you want to do without knowing he's recently washed himself in preparation for you.

Other than that, relax, let loose, and enjoy. If you can't bring yourself to rimming, then as others suggest, grab some lube and go with anal play. Be sure that the lube is safe for internal use. A flavored lube may make the rimming experience more enjoyable as well. You don't need it for play, obviously, but you might get brave after some fingering to try rimming.

 

[pplwatching]

One more thing ...

It's probably also worth mentioning that anal-oral sex is a high risk activity. In less committed relationships (new ones like yours, or ones with indiscretions), there are more risks. Hepatitis A, B, or C can be passed via anal-oral contact, as can other STDs such as herpes and HIV. Also, the normal bacteria that we all have in our intestines (including the possibility of E Coli) can make you sick with food-poisoning type symptoms for a couple of days.

Also see http://www.sexualhealth.com/question/read/215 , http://www.health.com/health/condition-article/0,,20188681,00.html , and of course good old http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anilingus

 

[infinity706]

It's probably also worth mentioning that anal-oral sex is a high risk activity. In less committed relationships (new ones like yours, or ones with indiscretions), there are more risks. Hepatitis A, B, or C can be passed via anal-oral contact, as can other STDs such as herpes and HIV. Also, the normal bacteria that we all have in our intestines (including the possibility of E Coli) can make you sick with food-poisoning type symptoms for a couple of days.

Also see http://www.sexualhealth.com/question/read/215 , http://www.health.com/health/condition-article/0,,20188681,00.html , and of course good old http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anilingus

Yes, you can catch all that, but I wouldn't say it's high risk. Most of the bacteria from the rectum is killed by oxygen exposure and e-coli mostly stays well up inside the intestine. Unless you're talking about the person shitting in your mouth, it's no more risky than oral-genital sex and lower risk for general illness than french kissing.

 

[pplwatching]

Risk varies depending on what the receiver is infected with.

 

[laozmo2]

Has your boyfriend rimmed you???

I was a little hesitant the first time I rimmed a woman, but discovered I enjoyed it as well as her reaction to it. If its done as a part of oral sex its a very natural transition to move a bit lower. And its great to rim each other in a 69 position. The only thing you have to contend with is helping each other down off the ceiling.