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[ak2002usa]

Begining at age 9 I've enjoyed sexual activities with both male and female. With women I'm pretty much open to anything. I just love them and everything about them. But with men it's a little different. I'm not attracted to men I just enjoy BJs they can give and sometimes I like to get fucked. I'm very passive. I don't kiss, suck, cuddle or have tender moments as I do with women. With men it's more like I'll hook up with a guy he sucks me off and leaves or if the conditions are right I'll invite him to fuck me. Then he leaves. Most have been one night stands though there was one guy I got together with from time to time over a 5 year period.

I'm not unconfortable with any of this but I do wonder how common my attitude or my sexual behavior is. Also do you think that fit the lable of bisexual?

 

[Raimondin]

Begining at age 9 I've enjoyed sexual activities with both male and female. With women I'm pretty much open to anything. I just love them and everything about them. But with men it's a little different. I'm not attracted to men I just enjoy BJs they can give and sometimes I like to get fucked. I'm very passive. I don't kiss, suck, cuddle or have tender moments as I do with women. With men it's more like I'll hook up with a guy he sucks me off and leaves or if the conditions are right I'll invite him to fuck me. Then he leaves. Most have been one night stands though there was one guy I got together with from time to time over a 5 year period.

I'm not unconfortable with any of this but I do wonder how common my attitude or my sexual behavior is. Also do you think that fit the lable of bisexual?

So, what you're saying is that men are just a sexual substitute for women. (?) You state that you are "very passive", but do you reciprocate by giving them a BJ in return or fucking them? Bisexuality covers a lot of ground. Do you consider yourself to be bisexual? I think you probably are. As long as you're happy and comfortable with it is all that matters.

 

[ak2002usa]

I've sucked a few guys but not to completion. I don't really get into it. Same for fucking. As for being bi I guess so. I prefer women but I'll take a bj or fucking from a man when I can get it.

 

[chrk1]

i don't get into hugging or kissing either. but i love to give bj's to completion. i also have fucked one of my friends, and recieved oral several times. still waiting to be fucked. other guys say i'm bi so i say it too. title doesn't mean much anyway.

 

[gypsywitch]

historically and now

Men seemed to be much more open to having 'just sex' type play together without the hangup of being labeled as gay. There are probably lots of men that feel shame over these experiences though.

I'm not sure what makes people click to just be stimulated by one sex. It feels like social pressure really does mold us yet hetro porn or just viewing sexual behavior makes us kinda horny.

My man prefers lesbian porn and doesn't like to see other men that much. He's also fascinated with anal but not into having it done to him. MM porn doesn't thrill me at all, but I enjoy the real life tender moments that my Gay friends openly share. With no experiences with another woman yet, I know that if it was all comfortable together that would be fine. I mean if I like a guy going down on me, I should be able to go down on a girl too.

One of my favorite movies is Quest For Fire. It makes good commentary about such things.

 

[VinnieMeatball]

I'm not unconfortable with any of this but I do wonder how common my attitude or my sexual behavior is. Also do you think that fit the lable of bisexual?

I think it may be more common than anyone knows. My best friend is very much the same way and when he and I "get together" there's almost never any tenderness unless I initiate it. I can tell it makes him a little less comfortable, so I usually don't. Also, I am really not big on labels but with that said, it would appear to me that you are bi.

 

[deezire1900]

Big difference in men and women...that I have noticed.

We love to kiss and cuddle and do all that type of stuff.

 

[gypsywitch]

Gay men do kiss and cuddle n' stuff when its that kind of relationship. A circle-jerk or whatever is a different story.

 

[Her sissy slave]

is it?

Begining at age 9 I've enjoyed sexual activities with both male and female. With women I'm pretty much open to anything. I just love them and everything about them. But with men it's a little different. I'm not attracted to men I just enjoy BJs they can give and sometimes I like to get fucked. I'm very passive. I don't kiss, suck, cuddle or have tender moments as I do with women. With men it's more like I'll hook up with a guy he sucks me off and leaves or if the conditions are right I'll invite him to fuck me. Then he leaves. Most have been one night stands though there was one guy I got together with from time to time over a 5 year period.

I'm not unconfortable with any of this but I do wonder how common my attitude or my sexual behavior is. Also do you think that fit the lable of bisexual?

i guess..by social norms...
if you like guys and girls..yeah..i guess it is bi.
i am just gay curious..only.

not been there or done that.