Lesbian sex : The Thread

[neonflux]

You...

Are always welcome, my dear...

~ Justine

Ahhhhhh . . . Thank you!

 

[symbolicflame]

So, questions:

Do you practice any forms of safer sex? Yes have to in this day!
If you do practice safer sex, what do you do? Condoms on the toys
What are your absolute boundaries vs. things you'll bend on? Absoloutes is the condoms, bend is the oral
What did you base your decisions on? Not sure, just thought process, I guess.

 

[playwithlezli]

Omg

Wow-hmmm-I am just speechless and well to steal dizzy's anacronysm-TMI-very aroused reading the bits here. I think my face is even flushed.

Well, at least if I skip the yeast infection parts.

 

[playwithlezli]

Yeasties

Those little buggers can be hard to kill off.

I had tenacious yeast infections for years, at the risk of repeating some of what has already been said..here's how I cleared myself up.

had partner treated (very true what Nirvana said about reinfection and thrush)
stopped wearing tight pants
switched to cotton underwear
ditched tampons (infection EVERY time I used one)
experimented with pad and toilet paper brands as I was sensitive to the treatment process
worked out that I was sensitive to nonoxyl-9 (spermicide)
cut down on beer :-(
eat no more than 1, occasionally two, pieces of bread per day
treated flare ups with a warmed yoghurt poultice
eat yoghurt everday
take acidophulus when taking antibiotics or feeling run down
lay wide legged and naked in a sunbeam when I have an infection (honest!)

My son was born with thrush and had yeast infections on and off most of the first year. After talking to a South American woman I laid his cloth diapers out on the grass and in the sun to dry and treated him with a topical solution of gentian violet-worked like a charm.

Hope this helps.

 

[Nirvanadragones]

When is enough enough?

Here is one...

When do you stop making love? You've defined that there is no beginning and no end to your love making. And given the chance, you would just do it forever... and you know she feels the same way.

But at some stage you have to stop. (not taking into consideration time contraints and other responsibilites) When would that be?

I don't "define" or measure the art of making love to a woman by the amount of orgasm she (or I ) has had. And it is also not a case of having done a certain act and because that is done - it is now time to stop. So when do you stop? I tend to loose all track of time and other general basic needs like food - have to remind myself to eat.(food)

Perhaps it's a case of being in touch with her and your combined needs... yes i have considered that carefully. Yet it always seems to come down to not wanting to stop!

I'm a greedy girl... I know.

 

[Tymeless]

good question to which i have no answer!

 

[LaFemmeNicole]

Risks

I know there are many risks to having new or multiple partners so if you want to be totally safe you pick one partner, but, I need the pleasure I obtain from someone new. I also do not desire sex if taste and texture on my tongue play no part in sex

How does everyone here negotiate safer sex with other women?

With men, it is very clear cut. With women, less so, for me - perhaps because HIV is so less an issue and, along perhaps with Hep B is the only STI which seems utterly serious and scary.

The biggest concern for me when it comes to W-W sex is Human Papilloma Virus, also called HPV or warts. Biggest, scariest issue - while most forms of HPV (over 40 identified at this point) are benign and resolve themselves in a year or so, a couple are directly linked to development of cervical cancer. HPV is almost endemic in the sexually active lesbian community in San Francisco, as is Trichomonis (not terribly serious unless pregnant but very itchy and smelly - yuch LOL). And HPV is easy to transmit through touch, including (OH NO! and sigh...) tribbing if warts are present on the labia or other parts of the vulva.

So, questions:

Do you practice any forms of safer sex?
If you do practice safer sex, what do you do?
What are your absolute boundaries vs. things you'll bend on?
What did you base your decisions on?

Me? (as a health educator, I feel a little nagging ambivalence here - thus the question)

Right now, am only insisting on using condoms for sharing sex toys (decision based on the ease with which all sorts of bugs can be transmitted this way) and latex barriers for anal anything with someone new (STEDs are nasty buggers). Also don't trib with someone until we've had a serious discussion about STI protection and I try to avoid touching myself after I've hand-penetrated a partner but don't use latex gloves. Nor do I use dental dams for oral-vaginal, taste and my own pleasure winning out over my assessment of risk for these activities... (and yes, I know that latex or saran wrap can add to the friction and so potential pleasure)

~ J

 

[Guest]

Let's talk about fisting. Who likes it and why and who doesn't and why. Do you like being fisted or do you prefer doing the fisting. Have you had problems with it? What kind of problems?

Discuss

 

[Roxanne Appleby]

To set the stage for a scholarly and erudite discussion of the topic "fisting," (and only incidentally engage in a little shameless story promotion, of course), I post this passage from Susan's College Girl-Lust Ch. 01:

Susan covered the woman's clit with her mouth, and applied a straightforward up-and-down lapping with her tongue. Laura emitted a deep, satisfied "ahhhhh" at the contact. The younger woman then inserted one finger into the other's cavernous vagina, which swallowed it without noticing, so she added a second, followed by a third, and then a fourth, and still she felt hardly any resistance. Susan had long, elegant fingers, but they were lost in the vast reaches of Laura's pink wetness!

She had never fisted another woman, but she knew all about the theory. Susan had never done it because all of her previous lovers had been teenagers like herself, who never could have accommodated a full hand in their tender young vaginas. Given this context, she had always found the idea a little bit gross. Now, with Laura, that context of knowledge changed: Fisting no longer seemed gross, but natural, given the woman's capacious tunnel.

"Well, in for a penny, in for a pound," Susan thought, tucking a thumb in under the four fingers already buried to their hilt in Laura's dripping sex. She removed her mouth from the older woman's clit so as to focus on this new experience, watching with fascination as her entire hand slowly disappeared into the slippery tunnel, which swallowed it up.

Susan pressed deeper until her hand below the wrist was completely submerged, and then pushed even deeper before coming to the end of the line, bumping her fist against Laura's cervix. It WAS a little bit gross, but exciting, also. She rotated her hand, feeling every contour of the inside of Laura's vagina in a way she had never experienced before. Then she began stroking gingerly.

Laura was in ecstasy. She LOVED the feel of another woman's fist filling her ample cunt, but had only received this treat from older, experienced fellow dykes. Getting it from a beautiful young teen who she thought to be a lesbian first-timer was all the more delicious, and her excitement reached new peaks.

The fact that Susan had never done this communicated itself in the way she had hesitated and exercised exceeding caution while performing the act, as if afraid she would break something. The young woman's action had come about in a perfectly un-premeditated manner: Not unusual for a curious "neophyte," Susan inserted a finger into the vagina of the woman upon whom she was performing oral sex. Given its size, Laura's cunt had swallowed the finger, then another, another, and another. The next step was, well, logical.

However, neither woman engaged in this kind of analysis at this point. Susan concentrated on plumbing the depths of Laura's cunt with her fist and forearm, and Laura was focused on the orgasm that was rapidly coming to a head under Susan's indelicate ministrations.

Susan could tell that the big grad student was very close, from the increasing tempo and urgency of her moans. She had no doubt about when Laura began to cum, because her own fist and forearm were suddenly squeezed tightly as the spasms of relief powered through the muscular woman's flooding cunt.

Susan was shocked at the sensation at first, even a little put off – this was a bit more of an "anatomy lesson" than the relatively inexperienced young woman had bargained for! But these feelings were quickly replaced by overwhelming excitement and arousal. With Laura's throbbing pussy communicating every pulse of pleasure directly to the fist and arm it enveloped, Susan felt she was "riding along" with the woman's orgasm in the most intimate way possible. Her own sex quivered with sympathetic vibrations.

The powerful contractions squeezing her fist and forearm diminished to a series of weak pulses, then stopped altogether. Susan could not believe how exciting it had been, and notwithstanding her recent orgasm, felt the blood pounding with her own arousal and urgent need for release!

 

[Roxanne Appleby]

Cuddle Puddle

Oh shoot, I hate to pull the fist out in mid stroke, but this just came to my attention and I don't know where else to put it:

http://nymag.com/news/features/15589/
New York Magazine, Feb. 6, 2006
The Cuddle Puddle of Stuyvesant High School
Researchers find it shocking that 11 percent of American girls between 15 and 19 claim to have same-sex encounters. Clearly they’ve never observed the social rituals of the pansexual, bi-queer, metroflexible New York teen.

 

[Nirvanadragones]

Let's talk about fisting. Who likes it and why and who doesn't and why. Do you like being fisted or do you prefer doing the fisting. Have you had problems with it? What kind of problems?

Discuss

Off the cuff three thoughts come to mind...

She should be very very aroused...
She should be very very well lubricated...
On an emotional level, trust is the absolute fundamental. Fisting (for me) is one of those absolutely ultimate and intense experiences.

 

[playwithlezli]

On physiology

I must admit I am fascinated by something else to try, but nervous about hurting someone or getting hurt.

My hands are tiny (I wear kids size gloves) but well, I must admit, my vagina is tiny too, (I think) and can't even accommodate long tampons like Tampax brand, and my insides get sore from vigorous male thrusting.

So, at the risk of sounding like the newbie I am, would this even be feasible?

 

[Tymeless]

lezi <3

 

[Guest]

Off the cuff three thoughts come to mind...

She should be very very aroused...
She should be very very well lubricated...
On an emotional level, trust is the absolute fundamental. Fisting (for me) is one of those absolutely ultimate and intense experiences.

Good advice i reckon. A lot of people talk about this emotional experience during fisting. Is there anyone who wants to tell us how they see it?

 

[Guest]

I must admit I am fascinated by something else to try, but nervous about hurting someone or getting hurt.

My hands are tiny (I wear kids size gloves) but well, I must admit, my vagina is tiny too, (I think) and can't even accommodate long tampons like Tampax brand, and my insides get sore from vigorous male thrusting.

So, at the risk of sounding like the newbie I am, would this even be feasible?

Why don't you be the one doing the fisting PWL? See if she likes the idea

 

[Guest]

Oh shoot, I hate to pull the fist out in mid stroke, but this just came to my attention and I don't know where else to put it:

http://nymag.com/news/features/15589/
New York Magazine, Feb. 6, 2006
The Cuddle Puddle of Stuyvesant High School
Researchers find it shocking that 11 percent of American girls between 15 and 19 claim to have same-sex encounters. Clearly they’ve never observed the social rituals of the pansexual, bi-queer, metroflexible New York teen.

You can put your words in my thread anytime Roxanne. What happened to your sexy AV?

 

[Guest]

I know there are many risks to having new or multiple partners so if you want to be totally safe you pick one partner, but, I need the pleasure I obtain from someone new. I also do not desire sex if taste and texture on my tongue play no part in sex

Hi Nicole it is good to see you as a first poster here. Welcome and come back please we need the support

 

[playwithlezli]

Why don't you be the one doing the fisting PWL? See if she likes the idea

That may be the best idea, but all things in time, we are just having so much fun right now, that I shall tuck this away for another night, or afternoon or....

 

[Guest]

That may be the best idea, but all things in time, we are just having so much fun right now, that I shall tuck this away for another night, or afternoon or....

rock one

 

[Guest]

Let's talk about Femme and butch. Which do you prefer and why in terms of sex

 

[SophiaY]

If the choice is between women who strongly identify with those roles (and femme is far more than preferring to wear dresses), I would tend to chose butch.
The blend of masculine wine in a woman's vessel can be a heady mix...

 

[Guest]

If the choice is between women who strongly identify with those roles (and femme is far more than preferring to wear dresses), I would tend to chose butch.
The blend of masculine wine in a woman's vessel can be a heady mix...

It's all in the attitude.

 

[SophiaY]

Speaking of attitude

"How To Satisfy a Femme Every Time

Caress, praise, pamper, relish, savor, massage, make plans, fix, empathize, serenade, compliment, support, feed, tantalize, bathe, humor, placate, stimulate, stroke, console, purr, hug, coddle, excite, pacify, protect, phone, correspond, anticipate, nuzzle, smooch, toast, minister to, forgive, sacrifice for, ply, accessorize, leave, return, beseech, sublimate, entertain, charm, lug, drag, crawl, show equality for, spackle, oblige, fascinate, attend, implore, bawl, shower, shave, trust, grovel, defend, coax, clothe, brag about, acquiesce, aromate, fuse, fizz, rationalize, detoxify, sanctify, help, acknowledge, polish, upgrade, spoil, embrace, accept, butter-up, hear, understand, jitterbug, locomote, beg, plead, borrow, steal, climb, swim, nurse, resuscitate, repair, patch, crazy-glue, respect, entertain, calm, allay, kill for, die for, dream of, promise, deliver, tease, flirt, commit, enlist, pine, cajole, angelicize, murmur, snuggle, snoozle, snurfle, elevate, enervate, alleviate, spotweld, serve, rub, rib, salve, bite, taste, nibble, gratify, take her places, scuttle like a crab on the ocean floor of her existence, diddle, doodle, hokey-pokey, hanky-panky, crystal blue persuade, flip, flop, fly, don't care if I die, swing, slip, slide, slather, mollycoddle, squeeze, moisturize, humidify, lather, tingle, slam-dunk, keep on rockin' in the free world, wet, slicken, undulate, gelatinize, brush, tingle, dribble, drip, dry, knead, fluff, fold, blue-coral wax, ingratiate, indulge, wow, dazzle, amaze, flabbergast, enchant, idolize and worship, and then go back, and do it again.

HOW TO SATISFY A BUTCH EVERY TIME

Show up naked and with a BEER!!"

 

[fantazyfun]

Hmmmmmmm...

*Wondering why this isn't being posted to??!!*

Oh well...maybe this will get things moving again?

 

[Guest]

"How To Satisfy a Femme Every Time

Caress, praise, pamper, relish, savor, massage, make plans, fix, empathize, serenade, compliment, support, feed, tantalize, bathe, humor, placate, stimulate, stroke, console, purr, hug, coddle, excite, pacify, protect, phone, correspond, anticipate, nuzzle, smooch, toast, minister to, forgive, sacrifice for, ply, accessorize, leave, return, beseech, sublimate, entertain, charm, lug, drag, crawl, show equality for, spackle, oblige, fascinate, attend, implore, bawl, shower, shave, trust, grovel, defend, coax, clothe, brag about, acquiesce, aromate, fuse, fizz, rationalize, detoxify, sanctify, help, acknowledge, polish, upgrade, spoil, embrace, accept, butter-up, hear, understand, jitterbug, locomote, beg, plead, borrow, steal, climb, swim, nurse, resuscitate, repair, patch, crazy-glue, respect, entertain, calm, allay, kill for, die for, dream of, promise, deliver, tease, flirt, commit, enlist, pine, cajole, angelicize, murmur, snuggle, snoozle, snurfle, elevate, enervate, alleviate, spotweld, serve, rub, rib, salve, bite, taste, nibble, gratify, take her places, scuttle like a crab on the ocean floor of her existence, diddle, doodle, hokey-pokey, hanky-panky, crystal blue persuade, flip, flop, fly, don't care if I die, swing, slip, slide, slather, mollycoddle, squeeze, moisturize, humidify, lather, tingle, slam-dunk, keep on rockin' in the free world, wet, slicken, undulate, gelatinize, brush, tingle, dribble, drip, dry, knead, fluff, fold, blue-coral wax, ingratiate, indulge, wow, dazzle, amaze, flabbergast, enchant, idolize and worship, and then go back, and do it again.

HOW TO SATISFY A BUTCH EVERY TIME

Show up naked and with a BEER!!"

Nasty Sophia. Very nasty