Lesbian Domme

[TheRealThingg]

What I meant was how do those type of relationships work. Some of you people who commented are over analyzing it. I've just found out about the whole d/s relationships. It was a simple question. I didn't need it squeezed to death. Only one person who commented actually got what I was saying, and i really appreciate that.

Anyway, people who are in a d/s relationship. I would love your feedback on it.

 

[wicked woman]

Your poll doesn't seem to tie into the question in your post.

 

[bhndblueyes88]

Your poll doesn't seem to tie into the question in your post.

I'll tie YOUR question to a post!! *sleep deprivation induced nonsense*

 

[Lizzie_Borden]

I'll tie YOUR question to a post!! *sleep deprivation induced nonsense*

And then whip it, whip it good?

 

[Stella_Omega]

Well, let's see.
A Dominant person-- of any sex or gender-- expects obedience. This can be in a limited area of the relationship, like in the bedroom, or it might be in most areas.
A submissive person wishes to give their power over to someone else's keeping. Again, this could be limited to the bedroom, or it could be in many areas of a relationship.

Now then, you need to know-- there is more to BDSM than Dominants and submissives. There are a lot of people who love to do things to their partners, or be done unto. Although you hear people say "Dom/me" and "Sub" to mean that, the better term is "top" and "ottom," because Dominating someone is much much more than the specifics of getting them off in wonderful kinky ways.

So you have to think about what calls to you.

 

[TheRealThingg]

The poll doesn't go with the my question in the post, it's asking a simple question.

 

[Stella_Omega]

The poll doesn't go with the my question in the post, it's asking a simple question.

It's a very complicated question!

We do have one D/s lesbian couple who show up here. It will be interesting to hear any thoughts they might share.

 

[Mz_Cunningham]

The poll doesn't go with the my question in the post, it's asking a simple question.

Then what's the point of having the poll then?

It's a very complicated question!

We do have one D/s lesbian couple who show up here. It will be interesting to hear any thoughts they might share.

My thoughts?

I'm trying hard to see what this thread is about, Lilac just said "the question in the thread is ridiculously phrased ... what does a domme consist of? a vagina, a brain, a heart, bones, whatever she's eaten for dinner .... what does "consist of" mean?"

Or are we just a bigger enigma than "normal" women to this person? Or is he just confused as to how a woman can be dominant? or both gay and dominant?

Or are they asking if I walking in leather gear 24 hours a day with a whip at my hip, like you would see in some pornos?

 

[Lilac_Sky]

Or are they asking if I walking in leather gear 24 hours a day with a whip at my hip, like you would see in some pornos?

Now that this slave would love to see

 

[Stella_Omega]

I got the vague impression that English is not their first language. But it could be that thinking is not their best skill.

 

[Fmature2play]

This thread title attracted me in like a moth to a flame and of course I have to add my 2 pennies worth. I have thought more than a few times that I would like to be in a relationship where I am subordinate to a woman that knows about that kind of lifestyle. It just isn't something that comes up often in conversation. Of the few women I have been out with and the fewer I have been intimate with none have hinted at that inclination and I would be mortified to bring it up and get a 'are you nuts?' look. I have enjoyed the pics janeyruth puts up in the glbt forums and can sympathize with the OP about being curious and not knowing how to go about even taking baby steps. Am guessing for some of us there are lots of things that will just remain in the fantasy realm.

 

[emipet]

I posted my vote as "Great". Now my reasoning:

I live as my Mistress's petgirl 24/7ish. It has toned A LOT down since I had the twins and W/we don't want any nosy parkers butting into O/our life. I still wear my collar and go with my tail and such, but other things are way limited now.

It would be fabulous perhaps. W/we are getting married on Friday and I have never ever been more happy or at a state of peace before. Just the fun stuff has tapered a bit.