You could either take turns or play a game, with the outcome deciding who is who. In the end that would turn out to be close to 50/50 and it would be kind of exhilirating to let it be determined totally at random.
My boyfriend and I have a very open and honest sexual relationship. I've always been open about my submissive tendencies. Slowly he's really coming into his own as a submissive as well. You tend to play over who's going to top each night. I just need to need some advice on how to Open myself up to a more dominant side.
What's the best way to strike a balance between the two of us? I would really love to have an equal time in both roles
Ask your self and him what Dom/domme things appeal to him...try to remember that just because its something you would like from a Dom doesn't mean it's what he would need from you and vice versa...it takes a good bit of communication at first till you develop a rhythm and know preferences...we both ended up being switches and it works out well now
