MissTaken
Biker Chick
- Joined
- Jun 30, 2001
- Posts
- 20,570
First, thank you to everyone who has posted or pmed me with words of encouragement and support. I am doing fine and keeping a healthy perspective with regard to the current drama.
I want to end this fracas quickly and simply. I did not want to start a new thread, but there are too many threads and I wasn't sure anyone of them would be viewed sufficiently to get my message across.
I lost my internet service from May 30th until now, or otherwise, I could have taken care of this sooner.
As for "outting myself." I began doing so as developements unfolded. How so? I started a thread concerning bisexuality and then a subsequent thread concerning switching. Yes, I have finally recognized that both are part of how I am wired and am enjoying these aspects of my persona and sexuality very much.
As with everyone here, we are not one dimensional characters on a screen. We all have facets to our beings that are not or cannot be shared on line. For me, I learned some time ago, to be somewhat reserved concerning how much of my personal self I post on a public forum.
That being said, the one issue that has been brought up that I feel is worthy of clarification is the issue of having two separate profiles. Yes, there are two profiles at another site. One presents my submissive needs, the other presents Dominant needs. Why two profiles? Well, I tried to turn my submissive profile into a switch profile and clearly stated I enjoyed training and Dominating women while I was also looking for the one Dom who would have my total submission, but oddly enough, only submissive males responded. Further, the profile format and the checklist is not set up in a way that I found user friendly for the two types of relationships I was hoping to find. So, I unearthed a very old profile of mine for the Dominant piece. This profile was originally started in Jan 2002 when the Dominant I was with wanted me to start looking for a second submissive to join us. The relationship ended and the profile was closed within several weeks of opening it. I updated it last week.
Now, as for decieving anyone with those profiles. Anyone who seem genuinely interested in their contact with me is referred to the other profile. I make no secret and in fact, both profiles have id names which are so similar, it would not be difficult to make a connection. Prior to the allegations, I had talked with a friend about these profiles and suggested I just link from one to the other so as not appear deceptive. Hmm too little too late.
And as for removing my face pictures from the profiles. Given the current situation, I felt that information that could definitively identify me in real life needed to be removed at this time. One never knows what will happen with one's info.
Now, that is my explanation, my only explanation and my only post to this matter.
If anyone has any legitimate questions, feel free to pm me. But please remember, I reserve the right to decide who needs to know what goes on in my personal life. Further, I have not read all of the threads and posts concerning this. If I have missed anything terribly important, please let me know. Privately.
And again, thank you to everyone who has stepped forward, publicly or privately.
Now, can we please get on with the sex talk?
I want to end this fracas quickly and simply. I did not want to start a new thread, but there are too many threads and I wasn't sure anyone of them would be viewed sufficiently to get my message across.
I lost my internet service from May 30th until now, or otherwise, I could have taken care of this sooner.
As for "outting myself." I began doing so as developements unfolded. How so? I started a thread concerning bisexuality and then a subsequent thread concerning switching. Yes, I have finally recognized that both are part of how I am wired and am enjoying these aspects of my persona and sexuality very much.
As with everyone here, we are not one dimensional characters on a screen. We all have facets to our beings that are not or cannot be shared on line. For me, I learned some time ago, to be somewhat reserved concerning how much of my personal self I post on a public forum.
That being said, the one issue that has been brought up that I feel is worthy of clarification is the issue of having two separate profiles. Yes, there are two profiles at another site. One presents my submissive needs, the other presents Dominant needs. Why two profiles? Well, I tried to turn my submissive profile into a switch profile and clearly stated I enjoyed training and Dominating women while I was also looking for the one Dom who would have my total submission, but oddly enough, only submissive males responded. Further, the profile format and the checklist is not set up in a way that I found user friendly for the two types of relationships I was hoping to find. So, I unearthed a very old profile of mine for the Dominant piece. This profile was originally started in Jan 2002 when the Dominant I was with wanted me to start looking for a second submissive to join us. The relationship ended and the profile was closed within several weeks of opening it. I updated it last week.
Now, as for decieving anyone with those profiles. Anyone who seem genuinely interested in their contact with me is referred to the other profile. I make no secret and in fact, both profiles have id names which are so similar, it would not be difficult to make a connection. Prior to the allegations, I had talked with a friend about these profiles and suggested I just link from one to the other so as not appear deceptive. Hmm too little too late.
And as for removing my face pictures from the profiles. Given the current situation, I felt that information that could definitively identify me in real life needed to be removed at this time. One never knows what will happen with one's info.
Now, that is my explanation, my only explanation and my only post to this matter.
If anyone has any legitimate questions, feel free to pm me. But please remember, I reserve the right to decide who needs to know what goes on in my personal life. Further, I have not read all of the threads and posts concerning this. If I have missed anything terribly important, please let me know. Privately.
And again, thank you to everyone who has stepped forward, publicly or privately.
Now, can we please get on with the sex talk?
