Lasting longer...Need help

[knightstalker]

Ok here is my problem peoiple I have recently stopped smoking weed and do not plan on starting again but this has led me to a problem..When I would smoke a big fatty I would last all night long and was always keeping my girlfriends happy but now I can't last more than ten to fifteen minutes and it is pissing me off ..My G/F said to just give it time and that once I get used to doing this with out the weed I will get better but I do not think thats the case..I want to know if there is any thing I can take that will help me with this ..Someone told me about this stuff called Top Gun but I cannot find it ..What works for you please I am desperate right now and I am proud of myself for kicking a 20 year habit and would hate to have to go back just to last longer..

 

[wetnhorny_slave]

good for you! its a hard habit to kick and i hope someone here can help you out so you can keep from using. dont let sex drive you back to drugs! i know this sounds very cheer-leaderish, but drugs are bad and once you quit you should stay off!

maybe viagra?

 

[weed]

I had a boyfriend once who liked me to help him keep going. Whenever he was about to come he'd ask me to grip him hard at the base until the edge of his orgasm had passed and he could keep going.

You might do well searching stuff on tantric sex also.

I knew a site....if I can find it I'll bring it here.

 

[knightstalker]

Thanks for the kind words ..I am not an addict I smoked pot but that was all I di I do not touch anything else..I have a good lady in my life who has been my rock latley but when you stop smoking weed it really isn't that hard I was cranky the first few days but thewn it just kinda goes away and you move on ..Thanks again and have a great day

 

[knightstalker]

I had a boyfriend once who liked me to help him keep going. Whenever he was about to come he'd ask me to grip him hard at the base until the edge of his orgasm had passed and he could keep going.

You might do well searching stuff on tantric sex also.

I knew a site....if I can find it I'll bring it here.

Thank you weed I would appreciate any advice I can get...Take care and have a great day hope to hear from you again with the tantric site..

 

[marksgirl]

Cock ring? Some say yes, that they work and some say no they don't. Hey anything is worth a try. My husband once fucked me for 45 mins. with one on and we use it often!

 

[knightstalker]

Cock ring? Some say yes, that they work and some say no they don't. Hey anything is worth a try. My husband once fucked me for 45 mins. with one on and we use it often!

Have thought of that and have used one before but was some what pain ful ..Thanks I will keep that in mind when I go shopping next time..

 

[marksgirl]

Try the jelley or latex kind, they wont hurt ya!

 

[CuriouslilQT]

STUD

The more you do..and the more u change position the longer you last...have you heard of something called STUD?

 

[cactiphile]

Emmm THe simple question is practice.

You really want to be dependent on some other form
of medication (thatn the pot) to let you enjoy sex,
its just as bad but perhaps with a more dubious origin.

What you need to do is just practice.
When you get to the edge, stop rest a bit, and hold on.
Also try different positions, some positions will give you less
stimulation than other allowing you to use them as
a calming down break.

You can also practice on your own. Masturbate right to the
edge and keep yourself balanced there.
Also the exercises which involve the PC muscles can help
as well. This muscle is the one that you use taht stops you peeing. By holding this muscle tight for as long as you can
the repeat say 20 times. Do this a few times a day
(you can do it anywhere, not just in a sexual situation).


Practice makes perfect.

Cactiphile

 

[It'sasecret]

I have also heard of creams that desensitize (sp?) your penis to make you last longer. I can't think of the name right now, but I am sure you can find them at anywebsite that sells sex toys.

 

[knightstalker]

I just want to thank you all for the suggestions they are much appreciated..I have taken all of them into consideration and will give them a try ..thanks again you guys have been great ..Have a great day

 

[Sweet Randy]

Orgasm is triggered by your mind. You have to learn to control that trigger within you. Try by masterbating and not cumming. It is simply teaching yourself to cum when you want to, not when it just feels good. As you learn to control when you cum you will start enjoying sex a whole lot more.

I have trained myself to cum only when I let myself. This is always not a good thing as you may screw too long and both of you end up sore. Not all women can take a hard cock for extened periods of time. When you find one that can and likes it. That is when you have truly been blessed.

Good luck and may you have many hot nights doing the wild thing.

 

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[knightstalker]

I bought some stuff yesterfday half heartedley but I will be damned the stuff worked like nothing else it is called up all night and it is true to its name or did I make myself believe it would work ..Anyway Two more great suggestions E.E. always a pleasure to hear from ya and pleasing my lady orally well look at my title that is never a problem with me because honestly I truely love oral and will go down on her till she screams for mercy then thats when the fun begins..Randy I will try your suggestion to because i am not taking these pills all the time but damn was last night fun it went on for over an hour then she went dry and I stopped because there was no lube and well I am not that selfish a guy to keep going after that ..ok I am not making sense right now after two hours sleep so I will check back later..

 

[Idle_Hands]

good for you! its a hard habit to kick and i hope someone here can help you out so you can keep from using. dont let sex drive you back to drugs! i know this sounds very cheer-leaderish, but drugs are bad and once you quit you should stay off!

maybe viagra?

Sorry, but this is hirarious! "Don't use drugs for sex. Try some Viagra."

Maybe it was meant to be funny. I hope so.

Come on! Prescription or not, they're all drugs. If you want to stay off pot, then great. But let's quit these stupid distinctions about legal/illegal drugs. The ones the doctor gives you can fuck you up just as bad, if not worse.

sorry for the rant, folks. back to your scheduled program.

 

[Herb Fiend]

I think we all know the solution...... PUFF THA HERB
If uv been doing it for 2- yrs why would u stop know?
if u grew it that is..

 

[knightstalker]

I quit smoking weed about two weeks ago now and I never smoked for sex purposes since I was smoking it before I ever had sex but I do miss how long I would last after I would burn one..I will not be going back to it for this simple fact my G/F had been on my case about it because she does not smoke and was worried if I had to look for another job that it would interfer ..Also the main reason was my 9 year old son found my stash and asked me what it was ...I told him that sometimes when I am out of money I roll my own smokes well it worked this time and do not ever plan on there being another..Also to those who smoke I have been a weed smoker for 20+ years and was smoking about an ounce a week to my self yes major pot head I was but after a week of not smoking I do not even think about it now so it isn't that bad if you decide to quit thank god for other cruthes in life such as Sex and Beer...So lets turn this back to lasting longer and not about drugs ..Start another thread on Drugs and I will post there for I have had some wild experiances in life involving them

 

[Different Guy]

I got this in an email wierdly enough:

One of the big mysteries of sex is, how to stave off the premature ejaculation. Of course, none of us here at Mystery Mail suffer from such a problem (ahem!), but a lot of people do. Durex has come up with a novel answer – the new 'Performa' condom. The Performa, already on sale in Italy, Spain, France and Greece - and due out here before Christmas - is coated with an anaesthetic, benzocaine. The man feels less, so delaying the big moment - simple! The thing is, with a big picture of a stopwatch on the box, do you know many guys who'd walk into a chemist to buy a pack? Ladies, this condom could be very good news for you - just make sure your man puts it on the right way round!

 

[knightstalker]

Thanks guy oddly enough I bought some condoms yesterday that promote the same effect they are made by trojen and they advertise the same thing ..I will be using them tonight so I will get back on that later to let all know if they work or not..The thing is I am not premature but just want to go the distance once in awhile but if those condoms work then I hope it will help others who have this problem..Have a great day

 

[Different Guy]

I don't think anyone mentioned this, I looked thru and it didn't seem to be mentioned...

How about jacking off and climaxing sometime before sex. Clears the initial climax and personally I can last longer that way. It's kinda, like not needing to cum seem as tho I already have y'know? However, you might not have as much of the drive as before?

I've never smoked anything so I'm a little don't have a clue around drugs but is it addictive... weed I mean? If not, what it harm to have some before sex...? Wow... I just endorsed a use of a drug that's never came from my brain ever...

 

[dreamer]

Well intead of a long session, how abour a few short ones? You can orgasm 3 times the amount and orally pleasure her in between!

I love the way you think Em.

 

[weed]

Here is some of the tantric sex stuff although folks here seem to know what they're talking about already.


prolonging sex

 

[knightstalker]

I don't think anyone mentioned this, I looked thru and it didn't seem to be mentioned...

How about jacking off and climaxing sometime before sex. Clears the initial climax and personally I can last longer that way. It's kinda, like not needing to cum seem as tho I already have y'know? However, you might not have as much of the drive as before?

I've never smoked anything so I'm a little don't have a clue around drugs but is it addictive... weed I mean? If not, what it harm to have some before sex...? Wow... I just endorsed a use of a drug that's never came from my brain ever...

Me personally do not find weed to be addictive because I have smoked for 20+ years and stopped a few weeks ago without one problem...The reason I do not start again is because I made a promise to my girl that I would she is anti drug and for the most part so am I because I don't think people who smoke weed think they are druggies ..Also my son ran across some of my stuff and I promised myself to stop before he understands what it is ...I am a man of my word and besides I am saving lots of money that I used to blow on the shit and that is kinda nice...

I have done the masterbating thing since I was young and have done it since but the problem there is we are always together and I have not been doing that to much latley..Take care all and have a great day Also thanks for the site weed much thanks to you..And much thanks to all of you ..

 

[Different Guy]

I got my girlfriend off dope and just lots of alcohol. Now it's just a with the friends thing she does it. Or just about anyway