last night

[rosebud5446]

i was staying at my 'friend's' and i felt him touch my ass and then i heard squishy noises and the bed started to jiggle... what's up with that?

 

[Norajane]

How friendly are you with this friend? Sounds like a bit of masturbation going on.

 

[Straight-8]

How friendly are you with this friend?

Apparently friendly enough to be sleeping in the same bed with him! I'm surprised that's all that happened. Even your trusted male 'friends' have cocks and you don't want to lead them on too far unless you'e prepared to play.

 

[aka Lusty]

Apparently friendly enough to be sleeping in the same bed with him! I'm surprised that's all that happened. Even your trusted male 'friends' have cocks and you don't want to lead them on too far unless you'e prepared to play.

You're kidding, right? How does sleeping in the same bed with a man amount to leading him on? I've slept in the same bed with male friends in the past and never had they pulled a stunt like that. If they had, they'd have pulled back a bloody stump. If anyone is to blame it's the friend. He was the one who couldn't control his himself.

i was staying at my 'friend's' and i felt him touch my ass and then i heard squishy noises and the bed started to jiggle... what's up with that?

If it were me I wouldn't have anything to do with him after that little episode. He certainly has proven that he cannot be trusted. Just be glad you weren't drunk and passed out because God only knows what else he may have tried to get away with.

 

[Badd Leroy]

You're kidding, right? How does sleeping in the same bed with a man amount to leading him on? I've slept in the same bed with male friends in the past and never had they pulled a stunt like that. If they had, they'd have pulled back a bloody stump. If anyone is to blame it's the friend. He was the one who couldn't control his himself.



If it were me I wouldn't have anything to do with him after that little episode. He certainly has proven that he cannot be trusted. Just be glad you weren't drunk and passed out because God only knows what else he may have tried to get away with.

WHAT??? Are you kidding me?? You make these comments without all the details.. Like,
what kind of friend is he.. if it is a HE ?
Has she ever had any kind of sexual contact or interest at all?
Maybe this friend was making moves that seemed normal within the friendship...
Sleeping in the same bed (without a previously expressed condition on the situation) would seem like the perfect time to 'explore' the relationship to me !
Lighten up L-N-L.. fuck !

 

[Eilan]

i was staying at my 'friend's' and i felt him touch my ass and then i heard squishy noises and the bed started to jiggle... what's up with that?

I guess you've recovered from your recent breakup.

 

[aka Lusty]

If you reread her post you'll see she said 'HIM' and it doesn't seem like she expected anything of that nature to happen. I could be wrong, but that is my interpretation of her message. Sue me.

 

[rosebud5446]

well, yes we are involved sexually, and have known each other a while... but i just don't understand the situation... like why did he jack off? he could have tried waking me or something... i don't understand why he did it...

 

[human_male]

well, yes we are involved sexually, and have known each other a while... but i just don't understand the situation... like why did he jack off? he could have tried waking me or something... i don't understand why he did it...

Maybe that's why he touched your ass, to see if you'd respond. And since you didn't he just got on with it himself.

 

[phoenix1224]

well, yes we are involved sexually, and have known each other a while... but i just don't understand the situation... like why did he jack off? he could have tried waking me or something... i don't understand why he did it...

Have the two of you ever discussed what would happen if the two of you were sleeping in the same bed and one of you woke up in the middle of the night horny?

Maybe he woke up horny and was going to wake you (which explains the ass grab) and decided against it... He could have been worried that you'd be upset about being woken up to have sex... Or he could have been worried that you'd be upset at him "molesting" you in your sleep... Or he could have decided that he didn't have the energy for an all out sex session... It could be any number of things.

But, (of course) when a guy is horny, he almost always HAS to "relieve" himself somehow (which explains the masturbation).

 

[vanelane]

well, yes we are involved sexually, and have known each other a while... but i just don't understand the situation... like why did he jack off? he could have tried waking me or something... i don't understand why he did it...

Here's an idea. Ask him. We can speculate until the cows come home, and come up with many plausible answers, but we don't even know the man.

 

[ickle_stace]

didn't the single quotation marks around friend make it known from the start that this guy was more than just a plutonic friend? no need for the arguments about whether she'd slept with him or not

the 'friend's' made me notice there was more there.

sounds to me like he was horny and either didn't wanna wake you or wasn't in the mood for sex, like someone else said. maybe he wanted to get off, but didn't feel in the mood to pleasure you beforehand to get to have penetration with you? i know sometimes i have to get myself off so i can sleep because it's bothering me so much, maybe he was just doing that

 

[rosebud5446]

i guess it makes sense that he didn't want the physical activity of sex, and just wanted to cum and go back to bed. ::shrugs::

 

[ickle_stace]

i guess it makes sense that he didn't want the physical activity of sex, and just wanted to cum and go back to bed. ::shrugs::

well, the only way you'll know is if you ask him

atleast if you find out from him that that was the case, maybe if it makes you feel uncomfortable you can ask him not to do it or something?

 

[SweetErika]

Is this guy your ex-boyfriend, or a new interest?