Larger wife, smaller husband

[venuslvr69]

During my last two years of college I have put on quite a bit of weight. I'm currently working on getting back in shape (not only to feel better about myself, but to be more attractive to my husband). I have lost five inches in the last two weeks, so I feel I'm making great progress. My husband has always been thin (his whole family is petite).

My question is: What positions are good for couples when the woman is much larger than the man?

While I am having fewer issues with self cofidence when we are intimate I would like a few suggestions of positions that will make having sex more comfortable (not such a balancing act) for both of us.

I want both of us to have a good time. I am still a sex goddess!!!

 

[SweetErika]

First off, welcome, and it sounds like you have a great outlook!
Instead of us just throwing out positions, it might be helpful for you to tell us what you've tried and haven't loved?

 

[Dar~]

I am 100 lbs heavier than my husband and the best positions fo rus have been doggy style and MIssionary with my legs against his chest.
A few that are reall great b/c they are low impact . .sit on the ege of the couch with your husband between your legs and then slide onto his cock while still having the couch support the brunt of your weight. It feels fantastic and is easy on him. I have also discovered that squating onti his cock while hi is on the couch it fabulous. I hold onto the couch and leverage myself up and down on his cock. All he has on him is my cunt and my tits rubbing up and down the fron tof him. Fabulous.

 

[silverwhisper]

i have lost five inches in the last two weeks

that's really damned impressive!

as already mentioned, doggy would seem to make sense. another position you might want to try: be seated on a desk or something of similar height while he stands before you and enters you that way.

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[venuslvr69]

Thanks so much!

I would like to thank everyone for your wonderful advice so far and for the encouragement. I'm feeling really positive about myself and the situation!

In response to SweetErika: we have tried doggy-style (but he gets too tired too quickly or cums too quickly), me on top -- him flat on the bed (I'm too heavy),me bending over the arm of the couch him standing behind me (still too difficult for him--funny angles, etc.)


We've also been considering LIBERATOR Bedroom Adventure Gear. Has anyone tried this? Is it any good? Is it really expensive (not that I really care at this point--anything to spice sex up)? Let me know your thoughts.

Thanks again,
venuslvr69

 

[naughtygirl69s]

I would like to thank everyone for your wonderful advice so far and for the encouragement. I'm feeling really positive about myself and the situation!

In response to SweetErika: we have tried doggy-style (but he gets too tired too quickly or cums too quickly), me on top -- him flat on the bed (I'm too heavy),me bending over the arm of the couch him standing behind me (still too difficult for him--funny angles, etc.)


We've also been considering LIBERATOR Bedroom Adventure Gear. Has anyone tried this? Is it any good? Is it really expensive (not that I really care at this point--anything to spice sex up)? Let me know your thoughts.

Thanks again,
venuslvr69

Does he have a small or average sized cock?

Try you laying on your back....him kneeling, sitting back on his feet, you can raise your hips and wrap your legs around and he barely has to move you do the thrusting with your hips......or he can move and you thrust with him.
Works nice cuz you can get some good clit action

 

[venuslvr69]

Thanks1

Does he have a small or average sized cock?

He has an average sized cock. I'm pretty happy with it. Thanks for the tip.

 

[SweetErika]

I would like to thank everyone for your wonderful advice so far and for the encouragement. I'm feeling really positive about myself and the situation!

In response to SweetErika: we have tried doggy-style (but he gets too tired too quickly or cums too quickly), me on top -- him flat on the bed (I'm too heavy),me bending over the arm of the couch him standing behind me (still too difficult for him--funny angles, etc.)


We've also been considering LIBERATOR Bedroom Adventure Gear. Has anyone tried this? Is it any good? Is it really expensive (not that I really care at this point--anything to spice sex up)? Let me know your thoughts.

Thanks again,
venuslvr69

I've heard good things about the Liberator wedges here, but I've also heard you can get similar things for a fraction of the price at medical supply stores and some other places, so you might want to check into that. They're also marketing Swiss/Exercise/Yoga balls as sexy toys. A Love Swing might be fun and allow for all sorts of possibilities too.

We don't use a ton of positions for actual intercourse, but we do play around with the basics a lot and have a variety for oral, which keeps it interesting. Some examples:
With doggy style, you can switch off between him and you thrusting (e.g. when he gets tired, he can stay still holding your hips, and you can rock back and forth). Also, experiment with different angles...press yourself farther into the bed, change the angle of your hips, etc.

Missionary- wrap your legs around him, pull your legs up as far as possible, put them on his shoulders, experiment with pillows, if he's big enough, have him kneel back and you lay facing him.

I'm significantly heavier than my husband, but haven't hurt or crushed him yet from being on top. A lot of times I'll lean forward and support my weight on my hands (kissing and breast play are an added bonus), or even lean back with my hands behind me (a little awkward, but it's fun for variety). He can also thrust so neither of us get too tired.

We're about the same height (though you can easily work around a difference), and often experiment with standing in the shower (I bend over), sitting on the couch, him standing/me on my back on the bed with pillows under my butt, etc. Sometimes our experiments work, and sometimes they don't, but if it's an angle problem, we can usually find something to make it happen. For us, the fun isn't in the positions, it's in the foreplay, variety of activities, and the experimentation.

 

[venuslvr69]

I've heard good things about the Liberator wedges here.

I went to the Liberator website and shared the info with my Hubby. I think we will be investing.

Thanks to everyone who has responded with suggestions. We haven't be able to try any out this week, but the weekend is right around the corner and Monday is a holiday.

Please keep the ideas coming.

venuslvr69