Lap Dances

[duke20220]

Does anyone have any pointers on giving a lap dance? It would come in really handy/ plus i want one from my bf, but what else is good too? He wants to know how to give one too.

 

[SexyChele]

Well, the best idea I can come up with is - why not learn from some one who knows how? Have your boyfriend take you to a strip club and buy you a lap dance. Watch the girl, see what she does, what moves she makes. Could be fun for the both of you!

Otherwise, basically, a lap dance is simply dancing very seductively in front of him, your body mere inches away. Since it's your b/f, you can use your hands, lips, or your body to rub against him. Be creative, be sexy, have fun. The same would go for him. Each of you would encourage the other as to what you like or want to see.

Just have fun!

 

[Throbbin_Rod]

Well, the best idea I can come up with is - why not learn from some one who knows how? Have your boyfriend take you to a strip club and buy you a lap dance. Watch the girl, see what she does, what moves she makes. Could be fun for the both of you!

Otherwise, basically, a lap dance is simply dancing very seductively in front of him, your body mere inches away. Since it's your b/f, you can use your hands, lips, or your body to rub against him. Be creative, be sexy, have fun. The same would go for him. Each of you would encourage the other as to what you like or want to see.

Just have fun!

*Pulls up a chair and pulls out a wad of money*

Chele, why don't you just show her how it's done?

 

[Eric623]

The best lap dances I have had are when the ladies look me in the eye with a seductive grin at the start. Swaying to the music, hold his head in your hands, gently blow in his ears, let him smell your favorite fragrence. If you have long hair, this is a good time to be creative. Then you can begin dancing in front of him, making sure your nipple gently grazes across his nose and lips. You might gently place his face into your cleavage, and kiss his forehead. As you dance and rub up against him find ways to creatively check his "natural reaction" (he should be hard as a rock!). You can kneel down in front of him and rub the top of your head along his crotch. Every time your dancing moves brings you eye to eye with him, make eye contact with the "fuck me look." The most successful lap dancers are the girls who know how to tease him the whole way, if you were a pro, this brings out the $$. Best of luck

 

[SexyChele]

*Pulls up a chair and pulls out a wad of money*

Chele, why don't you just show her how it's done?

Hmmm...depending on how large that wad of money is, it might be worth it for me to set up a streaming video!

 

[CuriouslilQT]

Man o Man great advice Eric....I am so dying to try that..!!!

 

[deliciously_naughty]

I don't know where you live, but a hot new trend at fitness clubs is a class that is essentially strip aerobics...I forget the actual name. From what my friends in NYC tell me, you have a ton of fun and giggle and gain confidence....if you live near a major urban area you may want to look into them. You'll learn some moves and gain some confidence.

The idea of buying a lap dance is also a really good one.

A few pointers...

pysche yourself up...you are hot...you are sexy...you're a goddamn goddess! You love your eyes, your breasts, your skin, your stomach, your ass, your thighs, your pussy....you are the best thing that's ever happenned to your boyfriend...and let's face it darlin...you are.

buy new lingerie for the experience...something you are turned on by....your arousal is as important as his.

maintain eye contact and keep transmitting "fuck me" through your eyes...the most erotic things are often little ones...a lover once kissed my hand while keeping eye contact...I almost came right there.

good luck!