Lady - Beginning Again . . .

[SoftShoulder]

I'm re-entering the dating arena after the ending of a 15 year marriage, and I'm a little nervous about meeting new men. If any of you have any ideas you can pass my way, that would be great!

 

[gordito]

advice

Search and examine hard to find out who Softshoulder is. It may take some time. Also find out if you like Softsholder. After 15 years of marriage you may have lost who that is. I guess the best possible advice is to find out who you are before you find someone else.

Good luck and have a Merry Christmas. I hope that if you are alone you will find some where in your community to spend the day with people. Remember that just because you may be alone, you don't have to be lonly.

 

[Merelan]

That advice is perfect, also, be yourself. No point in lying or deceiving to get a date. Not worth it in the long run. Good luck, and take your time.