Ladies: you are tied up to the bed and blindfolded...what can I man, or woman, do....

[buckeye1009]

What would make you crazy, in a good way? Looking for ideas for a woman I'm seeing.

 

[Zionisacat]

Probably best if you ask the lady you're seeing.
For some it will be the sound of a chainsaw revving
For some it will be the sounds of multiple footsteps and "OK $20 but you only get to fuck one hole."
For some it will be a swift intake of breath and a muttered "damn you look sexy"
Probably best if you ask the lady you're seeing.

 

[buckeye1009]

Probably best if you ask the lady you're seeing.
For some it will be the sound of a chainsaw revving
For some it will be the sounds of multiple footsteps and "OK $20 but you only get to fuck one hole."
For some it will be a swift intake of breath and a muttered "damn you look sexy"
Probably best if you ask the lady you're seeing.

I love posting just looking for ideas and advice and the advice is: "ask someone else".

I don't need to post on a message board to know to ask the woman I'm seeing. I know how to do that. I am just looking for ideas.

 

[KatieDoes]

What would make you crazy, in a good way? Looking for ideas for a woman I'm seeing.

Clean the kitchen while I take a nap.

 

[babygirl4u1966]

For me, it would be hours of play.. making me beg. Like running a knife slowly around her body, cut off her panty and her bra whispering how you're going to use her for your pleasure. Slowly caressing and sucking on her toes, working up her legs and playing with her pussy, clit and gspot, but then stopping when she's about to orgasm. Then starting over, maybe nibbling her ears, boobs, etc. Just playing with her endlessly, constantly not letting her orgasm. Do this for an hour or so till she begging you to fuck her silly. Then slide your cock against her lips making her lick it and get you hard. Then play with her clit with your cock, again till she's screaming to be fucked. Then when you're ready, give it to her. Afterwords, cuddle
Something like that. Dangerous, slow and teasing

 

[lisaharlot]

Communicate a lot first. This is the most vulnerable she can be and this sounds like you’re early in your relationship. Start with a feather and see how that goes and work your way up from there.

 

[Louiseisatease]

I've slightly edited an older post about what a lover used to use to tease me but it's not a bad list and not far off being in order: hands, mouth, cock (or breasts for a woman), obviously; pieces of silk, satin, feathers and a bit of fur; there were brushes, both soft and stiff; we had a vibrator, two glass dildos, a round hairbrush, a phallic wooden carving and then 'other things'; sometimes a hot drink in a mug and a bowl of ice.

And do be careful, some women are one and done, others enjoy orgasm after orgasm and with a very few women if you tease them for too long instead of becoming more and more excited they suddenly lose the ability to orgasm.

 

[Missk_2022]

For me it is the anticipation. Waiting for the touch and where is it going to be. Different sensations. With different pressure. If something makes her moan keep doing that... and things around the house can be used the edge and rough side of a fly swatter than a stingy smack followed by ice. That is yummy

 

[Mypssypls]

What would make you crazy, in a good way? Looking for ideas for a woman I'm seeing.

How did it go?

Gentle touching, kissing from the mouth down to her legs/feet, not kissing or licking her pussy until you see her aroused and bucking her hips in anticipation. Gentle is better than rough For most women

 

[lil_jenni]

If I'm bound and blindfolded, a mixture of rough and gentle touching, direct and teasing touching, loving and humiliating words... never knowing which to expect and when... yes, please.

 

[JuanaSalsa]

I like the idea of seeking out other ideas, because if it was me, I wouldn't want to have to set up the whole scenario. I would give limits, and free rein to do anything else and it would thrill me to have no idea which direction my sadist of the moment might go. I have no problem coming up with ideas, but if I'm in a certain head space, I want to not be in control and not have to plan it all. Sometimes I like topping from the bottom, or the top, for that matter, but not all the time.

So, in the spirit of exploration, here's some ideas:

• Whipped with a USB cord, or a nice buffalo hide flog, or a rubber hose, on the tits and nipples
• Show me a knife, (pre-frozen), then run the dull side down my skin - the intense cold feels like cutting and the dew feels like blood - fascinating sensation with no permanent damage.
• Get a tens unit or an ultravoilet wand and see how much I twitch with different stimulation points
• With legs very firmly tied apart, cunnilingus until I cum, and don't stop no matter how much I beg and squirm
• Examine me minutely and comment on parts of my body I don't see. Take photos and share them with me. Tease me that you'll send them to someone (but for god's sake, don't do that unless my face and tattoos aren't in them)
• Run paper over my skin, especially fast food napkins - no idea why, but this gives me such a bizarre feeling
• Cover me in oil and rub yourself over my body until you cum - but let's not ruin the sheets with oil, so put something under me
• Put me on a normal phone call with family or work and then suck my nipples
• Lately, I've become fascinated with the idea of sounding, so give that a try
• Hot wax!
• Grooming, body painting, then photography or art. Make a painting with wet paint on my boobs, perhaps.
• Hot sauce on the clit, then lick it - from personal experience I suggest using mild and being ready with wipes to clean it as soon as orgasm is achieved, please.
• Try to get me to say "sir" or "master" - This is not easy and will require a lot of work to get me to a point of desperation where you withhold pleasure until I comply.
• Tea-bagging, or for a woman, queening.
• Variety of tit torture - zipper, clamps, binding, slapping, etc

That's all I got for the moment.

 

[IASFPWTF]

For me, it would be hours of play.. making me beg. Like running a knife slowly around her body, cut off her panty and her bra whispering how you're going to use her for your pleasure. Slowly caressing and sucking on her toes, working up her legs and playing with her pussy, clit and gspot, but then stopping when she's about to orgasm. Then starting over, maybe nibbling her ears, boobs, etc. Just playing with her endlessly, constantly not letting her orgasm. Do this for an hour or so till she begging you to fuck her silly. Then slide your cock against her lips making her lick it and get you hard. Then play with her clit with your cock, again till she's screaming to be fucked. Then when you're ready, give it to her. Afterwords, cuddle
Something like that. Dangerous, slow and teasing

Now, that is a great idea!

 

[ouchfeelsgood]

I like the idea of seeking out other ideas, because if it was me, I wouldn't want to have to set up the whole scenario. I would give limits, and free rein to do anything else and it would thrill me to have no idea which direction my sadist of the moment might go. I have no problem coming up with ideas, but if I'm in a certain head space, I want to not be in control and not have to plan it all. Sometimes I like topping from the bottom, or the top, for that matter, but not all the time.

So, in the spirit of exploration, here's some ideas:

• Whipped with a USB cord, or a nice buffalo hide flog, or a rubber hose, on the tits and nipples
• Show me a knife, (pre-frozen), then run the dull side down my skin - the intense cold feels like cutting and the dew feels like blood - fascinating sensation with no permanent damage.
• Get a tens unit or an ultravoilet wand and see how much I twitch with different stimulation points
• With legs very firmly tied apart, cunnilingus until I cum, and don't stop no matter how much I beg and squirm
• Examine me minutely and comment on parts of my body I don't see. Take photos and share them with me. Tease me that you'll send them to someone (but for god's sake, don't do that unless my face and tattoos aren't in them)
• Run paper over my skin, especially fast food napkins - no idea why, but this gives me such a bizarre feeling
• Cover me in oil and rub yourself over my body until you cum - but let's not ruin the sheets with oil, so put something under me
• Put me on a normal phone call with family or work and then suck my nipples
• Lately, I've become fascinated with the idea of sounding, so give that a try
• Hot wax!
• Grooming, body painting, then photography or art. Make a painting with wet paint on my boobs, perhaps.
• Hot sauce on the clit, then lick it - from personal experience I suggest using mild and being ready with wipes to clean it as soon as orgasm is achieved, please.
• Try to get me to say "sir" or "master" - This is not easy and will require a lot of work to get me to a point of desperation where you withhold pleasure until I comply.
• Tea-bagging, or for a woman, queening.
• Variety of tit torture - zipper, clamps, binding, slapping, etc

That's all I got for the moment.

Many very creaative ideas here! How about enhancing some of these sadistic scenarios with sensory deprivation in the form of a blindfold? It's quite intense to have all sorts of painful and pleasurable things done to your bound body while being unable to see exactly what is happening. You have to rely completely on your hearing and tactile senses.

 

[JuanaSalsa]

Many very creaative ideas here! How about enhancing some of these sadistic scenarios with sensory deprivation in the form of a blindfold? It's quite intense to have all sorts of painful and pleasurable things done to your bound body while being unable to see exactly what is happening. You have to rely completely on your hearing and tactile senses.

Yes, but why stop there? Also put on some headphones and play some music so that nothing can be heard of what's happening around you =] Choose the right music and all sense of time is lost, too...

 

[ouchfeelsgood]

Yes, but why stop there? Also put on some headphones and play some music so that nothing can be heard of what's happening around you =] Choose the right music and all sense of time is lost, too...

I like that idea! Without visual or sound senses, one is almost totally reliant on tactile sensation, greatly amplifying whatever is in contact with the skin.
On the other hand, there are instances where sounds can enhance a blindfolded scene. For example, the sound of a whip whooshing by (without impact); a vibrator's buzz before being used; the sound of a match being lit; heavy breathing near an ear; a riding crop hitting a bedpost or tabletop; the sound of footsteps outside in a hallway, leading up to the door accessing the room you're tied up in; the sound of the door slowly opening -- etc. The possibilities are endless.

 

[JuanaSalsa]

I like that idea! Without visual or sound senses, one is almost totally reliant on tactile sensation, greatly amplifying whatever is in contact with the skin.
On the other hand, there are instances where sounds can enhance a blindfolded scene. For example, the sound of a whip whooshing by (without impact); a vibrator's buzz before being used; the sound of a match being lit; heavy breathing near an ear; a riding crop hitting a bedpost or tabletop; the sound of footsteps outside in a hallway, leading up to the door accessing the room you're tied up in; the sound of the door slowly opening -- etc. The possibilities are endless.

I like the creativity. Ideally, of course, you get to do it one way one time and another way another time. I hope it's not ever a choice of either this or that =]

 

[dominatrixNY]

arrange another female or another guy...

 

[PWB36DDD]

Edging is great while being tied and blindfolded. I love when guys include nipple clamps, ice, wax, vibes, anything that will keep me on the edge of an orgasim.

 

[dominatrixNY]

thank you for sharing