Ladies, penises, tell us

[IrishGuy777]

I want women to chime in with their real opinions about dick size. What's too big, what's to small, what do you prefer, what's more important, length or width. We all know you ladies tell your mates that their dick is nice, but what do you say behind their backs.

 

[one_susie_q]

Just a midwest gal's opinion

Personally, I think width is more important than length. A lot of length and he can't really get all the way inside you without some amount of discomfort on your part, and not a lot of length and well, it's just not satisfying. Apologies if that's too frank, but like I said, just my opinion. With a fair amount of width (or girth as I like to think of it) you feel 'filled' no matter what his length is...and it feels different depending on your position whereas length is length no matter how it's done.

 

[IrishGuy777]

what i was hoping for

Well that's what I wanted was honest opinions. I am completely average in the size department, in both length and girth, but I know I'm not huge, and I would like to get as many honest opinions from women on penis size, because I'm sure most women aren't honest with their partner if they think he is too big or too small or something.

 

[Desdemona]

Size is not the real issue.

The most important thing is knowing how to please your partner. I've been with a couple of guys in the past who were hung like bulls. They hurt me with those big things.
My best lovers have always been guys with app 6" who were caring and interested in my pleasure. Put the silly tape measure away and pay attention to what your partner is feeling.

 

[talulah]

I think I've already answered this question, but I'll gladly restate my opinion:

Every guy is different. Every penis is different. I have yet to meet a penis that I don't like. Now, there is such a thing as TOO BIG when it comes to full-on sex, but I'm sure I can find other things to do with it that are just as fun. *wink*

So, yeah, honestly, to most women the 'size question' is irrevalent.

 

[one_susie_q]

The girls are right Irish

Concentrate on making your partner feel desired, sexy, pleasured and it will be the best sex you've ever had. I have to admit that I'm a bit dismayed at your comment that you don't think most women are honest with their partner when asked about size. I've always tried to be honest (a trait not appreciated by the man so small I couldn't tell he was inside or not) but at the same time kind as I know it can be a delicate subject.

In the 6 years I was married, my husband never once made me feel desired or in the least bit sexy. The sex was good, mind you, but I always felt something was lacking...which, if we go by your comments and concerns about size...shouldn't have happened. He's pretty well endowed. The missing link was how he made me feel. The man I'm seeing now tells me I'm hot, sexy, desirable, etc. so often it's almost embarassing. And he doesn't just tell me I'm all those attributes, he tells me what I do that makes me appear that way. THAT will get you great sex every time! If a woman knows what she's doing (on purpose or not) that's turning her man on, she'll do it time and time again.

 

[IrishGuy777]

my response

Ok, let me say a couple of things. I agree that being able to please your partner is foremost, and I have always tried to do everything i can to make the person i was with feel loved and have tried to please them. I was just curious about what women really thought, because i would assume that if a woman was with a guy who was either too big or too small,, to protect his feelings and not make him feel self conscious, they wouldn't say that. I don't mean to imply that women lie about stuff, just assume that if a girl was with a guy that was like 3 inches they wouldn't hurt his feelings about his size, and if a girl was with someone that was like 11 inches and hurt the hell out of them, they might be delicate about the situation. Just like to hear what women really think.

 

[Desdemona]

Well, now you know.