Ladies Not Liking Oral

Maybe she just doesn't like bad oral.

Now there's a reasonable point! I've had multiple lovers in my 30-ish years of sexual activity and only TWO, in all that time, have actually given me oral that I truly enjoyed. The rest ranged from "meh!" to "don't come near me with your mouth ever again!" (same dude even kissed badly). Can't say I ever hated it, but until I met my husband it was definitely lowwww on my list.
 
Oral never really did anything for me, until recently. I honestly couldn't figure out what all the fuss was about. Then I met someone who knows what he's doing. Big difference. Huge. Now I crave it. Not saying your wife has never been with someone who knows how to use his mouth, but maybe your wife has never been with someone who knows how to use his mouth.
 
Can we get some facts and stats of good vs. bad oral?

The most general thing I can think of is enthusiasm. He moans like there's no place in the world he'd rather be. He is patient. TBH, I take various medications that make orgasm sometimes difficult to achieve. He never makes me feel like he's getting antsy or bored or irritated. He's just devoted to making me feel good, and he lets me know that he's enjoying himself, too.

Then there are specifics that probably vary from woman to woman. There was some trial and error, but we've both been able to learn what does it for me, and he's very, very good at those things.
 
The most general thing I can think of is enthusiasm. He moans like there's no place in the world he'd rather be. He is patient. TBH, I take various medications that make orgasm sometimes difficult to achieve. He never makes me feel like he's getting antsy or bored or irritated. He's just devoted to making me feel good, and he lets me know that he's enjoying himself, too.

Then there are specifics that probably vary from woman to woman. There was some trial and error, but we've both been able to learn what does it for me, and he's very, very good at those things.

This post was hot and sweet. Like sriracha :heart:
 
so don't give oral
instead
kiss her
like you are kissing her cunt
 
The most general thing I can think of is enthusiasm. He moans like there's no place in the world he'd rather be. He is patient. TBH, I take various medications that make orgasm sometimes difficult to achieve. He never makes me feel like he's getting antsy or bored or irritated. He's just devoted to making me feel good, and he lets me know that he's enjoying himself, too.

Then there are specifics that probably vary from woman to woman. There was some trial and error, but we've both been able to learn what does it for me, and he's very, very good at those things.

patient ... loving ... giving .. Got it.

I think I'm going to have to phone a friend.
 
I like oral, but honestly usually just prefer to skip it with a casual partner because;

a) you're not automatically granted sex god status just for being willing to go down on me.

B) don't come up after two minutes thinking that will be great cos at least you went there.

C) if you're not willing to take some sort of direction to make it so I get off, don't bother.

D) don't ever say to me "but that's how my last girlfriend liked it"

and I like penetration with my oral. Don't just go at my bits with the 'bulldog chewing a mintie' technique and expect me to cum after 30 seconds. Do it enthusiastically, do it right or don't do it at all.
 
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