Ladies Not Liking Oral

[PearcyPorker]

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[koalabear]

Arkansas, I'd bet her brothers just did it better.

 

[islandman]

I am just wondering if there are other woman out there that don't like or enjoy receiving oral sex. My wife and I have been married for 10 years, and she has always hated receiving oral. It is also not just me, she told me she has never liked it period and that she has actually told most guys she didn't want it. I was just wondering if anyone other ladies didn't like it either, because this is first time I have ever been with a woman that didn't love to receive it.

It took you 10 years of marriage to learn this about your wife?

Dumbass.

 

[Mischka]

I enjoy it, but it's a but further down my list. I've had many pleasurable encounters, but I get off on fingers or a cock more easily than straight oral. I orgasm more easily from penetration than clitoral stimulation; perhaps your wife is in the same boat? On the other hand, I adore giving oral. Much rather give than receive.

But your wife hates it? That's extreme. Have you tried incorporating toys with the oral? The Hitachi Magic Wand may be the best thing ever invented; a couple of attachments, and she may never let you leave the bedroom again.

 

[dolf]

But your wife hates it? That's extreme. Have you tried incorporating toys with the oral? The Hitachi Magic Wand may be the best thing ever invented; a couple of attachments, and she may never let you leave the bedroom again.

OR you could just respect that some people don't like certain things.

 

[Mischka]

OR you could just respect that some people don't like certain things.

We're not talking about something well outside the sexual bell curve. If he was talking about stress positions or golden showers, then yeah, back off. But oral stimulation is pretty garden variety, and is usually just a more gentle stimulation of an area that can handling a solid pounding. Hating oral stimulation merits further discussion.

 

[PearcyPorker]

It took you 10 years of marriage to learn this about your wife?

Dumbass.

I guess you have a difficult time reading, because I said that she has "NEVER" liked it in our 10 years of marriage.......DUMBASS!!!!!!

 

[PearcyPorker]

I enjoy it, but it's a but further down my list. I've had many pleasurable encounters, but I get off on fingers or a cock more easily than straight oral. I orgasm more easily from penetration than clitoral stimulation; perhaps your wife is in the same boat? On the other hand, I adore giving oral. Much rather give than receive.

But your wife hates it? That's extreme. Have you tried incorporating toys with the oral? The Hitachi Magic Wand may be the best thing ever invented; a couple of attachments, and she may never let you leave the bedroom again.

Yes, we have tried all of that, she has really gotten into the intercourse and toys at the same time. We actually have great sex, but I just miss giving oral. I am glad to know that there are others that don't make it a priority in their sex life!!!!

 

[PearcyPorker]

Arkansas, I'd bet her brothers just did it better.

WOW, I would have thought that with 90,000 post you could have come up with a better reply than a Hillbilly joke about Arkansas!!!!!

 

[dolf]

We're not talking about something well outside the sexual bell curve. If he was talking about stress positions or golden showers, then yeah, back off. But oral stimulation is pretty garden variety, and is usually just a more gentle stimulation of an area that can handling a solid pounding. Hating oral stimulation merits further discussion.

nobody should have to explain their hard limits. you either accept them or you don't.

i hate coffee and onions. they're within the culinary bell curve.

i don't hate oral but i can see why the sensation of a tongue, which is unlike any other sensation, might gross a person out. toe sucking makes me want to hurl for that exact reason.

since when was ''well everyone else does it!'' a valid argument for getting your own way in bed?

sexual acts are very personal. if they don't feel right then you're entitled to say no. always.

 

[koalabear]

WOW, I would have thought that with 90,000 post you could have come up with a better reply than a Hillbilly joke about Arkansas!!!!!

It does work better for Kentuckians.

 

[LiFeNdEaTh]

Arkansas, I'd bet her brothers just did it better.

hahah

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

Pearcy prolly is her brother.

 

[ivantheterrible]

I enjoy it, but it's a but further down my list. I've had many pleasurable encounters, but I get off on fingers or a cock more easily than straight oral. I orgasm more easily from penetration than clitoral stimulation; perhaps your wife is in the same boat? On the other hand, I adore giving oral. Much rather give than receive.

But your wife hates it? That's extreme. Have you tried incorporating toys with the oral? The Hitachi Magic Wand may be the best thing ever invented; a couple of attachments, and she may never let you leave the bedroom again.

maybe you haven't had your pussy eaten properly. there's more to it than clit stimulation. eating pussy is my fetish. maybe the men you have been with should stop watching porn. porn gives the idea that eating pussy is just flicking the clit.

 

[blackleggings]

Maybe she just doesn't like bad oral.

 

[islandman]

Maybe she just doesn't like bad oral.

You're mean.

 

[gardenia19]

It's not something I found too enjoyable. Suppose the giver could just not be any good though.

 

[Mischka]

nobody should have to explain their hard limits. you either accept them or you don't.

i hate coffee and onions. they're within the culinary bell curve.

i don't hate oral but i can see why the sensation of a tongue, which is unlike any other sensation, might gross a person out. toe sucking makes me want to hurl for that exact reason.

since when was ''well everyone else does it!'' a valid argument for getting your own way in bed?

sexual acts are very personal. if they don't feel right then you're entitled to say no. always.

Sexual acts are indeed very personal, but when you choose to share your life with a partner, communicating on those acts is part of the give and take of the relationship. Pearcy enjoys giving oral. He's married to a woman who hates receiving it. That's a fairly large disparity, and that's where the "everyone else is doing it" argument comes into play. Sex is integral to a marriage (unlike toe sucking or onions). Knowing why your partner isn't interested in a normal sex act is a fairly important piece of information. And the use of hate is what grabbed my attention. You may very well be right in your explanation for the revulsion. But if after a decade Pearcy is still wondering on the subject, it seems there is room for more communication between the two of them on the topic.

maybe you haven't had your pussy eaten properly. there's more to it than clit stimulation. eating pussy is my fetish. maybe the men you have been with should stop watching porn. porn gives the idea that eating pussy is just flicking the clit.

I've been with men and women who are downright gifted at oral. I've climaxed from it countless times. But qualitatively speaking, I still prefer orgasms from penetration. But thank you for your concern.

 

[IrezumiKiss]

Sexual acts are indeed very personal, but when you choose to share your life with a partner, communicating on those acts is part of the give and take of the relationship. Pearcy enjoys giving oral. He's married to a woman who hates receiving it. That's a fairly large disparity, and that's where the "everyone else is doing it" argument comes into play. Sex is integral to a marriage (unlike toe sucking or onions). Knowing why your partner isn't interested in a normal sex act is a fairly important piece of information. And the use of hate is what grabbed my attention. You may very well be right in your explanation for the revulsion. But if after a decade Pearcy is still wondering on the subject, it seems there is room for more communication between the two of them on the topic.

Ten years with someone is a long-ass time to just discover something in your partner that you can't connect with sexually. Maybe Pearcy was in a Siberian gulag and just escaped or something.

IBut qualitatively speaking, I still prefer orgasms from penetration.

*ahem* So, your twin sister is unmarried and living in the Tri-State area, you said?

 

[dolf]

Sexual acts are indeed very personal, but when you choose to share your life with a partner, communicating on those acts is part of the give and take of the relationship. Pearcy enjoys giving oral. He's married to a woman who hates receiving it. That's a fairly large disparity, and that's where the "everyone else is doing it" argument comes into play. Sex is integral to a marriage (unlike toe sucking or onions). Knowing why your partner isn't interested in a normal sex act is a fairly important piece of information. And the use of hate is what grabbed my attention. You may very well be right in your explanation for the revulsion. But if after a decade Pearcy is still wondering on the subject, it seems there is room for more communication between the two of them on the topic.

he knew she hated it when he married her. she didn't trick him into marriage by pretending to love it. you accept people's limits.

if he needed to give oral then he should've married a woman who didn't hate it.

'hate' is the exact reason he shouln't push the issue. asking people to justify & applying pressure towards acts that they hate is how even bigger rifts are formed.

a hundred years ago the accepted wisdom was that it was a disgusting act and only the most depraved husband would expect it. the norm is subject to fashion and cultural fad.

can you be talked out of hating a feeling? does being told that the other person wants to make you hate it less? or does it just make you feel shitty about being unable to satisfy them without causing yourself distress?

 

[blackleggings]

You're mean.

I thought I was giving him a tip.

 

[PearcyPorker]

Pearcy prolly is her brother.

And you are probably one of those sick fucks Jerking off to all the incest threads!!!!!!!

 

[PearcyPorker]

Ten years with someone is a long-ass time to just discover something in your partner that you can't connect with sexually. Maybe Pearcy was in a Siberian gulag and just escaped or something.



*ahem* So, your twin sister is unmarried and living in the Tri-State area, you said?

Wow, I never realized how many people in this world are illiterate, which is very scary!!!!!! I said she has never liked it!!!!!! This is something that I miss but I am more than willing to live with because she is a wonderful person and great mother and wife. I was just wondering if any other ladies didn't care for oral. I had no idea it was that difficult of a question and that so many people would make this into a hate thread or an incest thread. By the way, if there are any ladies willing to let me giving give them oral, I would be happy to oblige them and let them decide if I am any good or not.

 

[islandman]

Wow, I never realized how many people in this world are illiterate, which is very scary!!!!!! I said she has never liked it!!!!!! This is something that I miss but I am more than willing to live with because she is a wonderful person and great mother and wife. I was just wondering if any other ladies didn't care for oral. I had no idea it was that difficult of a question and that so many people would make this into a hate thread or an incest thread. By the way, if there are any ladies willing to let me giving give them oral, I would be happy to oblige them and let them decide if I am any good or not.

Yeah, we know, dude. We've known since your first post.

I thought I was giving him a tip.

Very kind of you as he seems to have trouble giving his wife the tip at the present.

 

[SexyWench]

Firstly, grow thicker skin.

Secondly, this is the GB
you get what you get