Ladies... if it was your man's fantasy to have you fuck another man so he could eat

[ChemistryNine]

Ladies... if it was your man's fantasy to have you fuck another man in front of him so he could eat your pussy after th guy ejaculated into you and on you would you induldge him ? Would you judge him harshly for wanting such a fantasy ?

 

[catalina_francisco]

LOL, well I indulge him but he isn't into unprotected sex with others and isn't interested in cleaning up afterward, more into having me used to the best of his ability and mood. Works for us in a variety of ways, as do a good many things we include in play.

Catalina

 

[Ma Petite]

Only if clean

I would indudlge him, if
1) the guy had been tested and proben clean (of stds etc...) and because of partial paranoia, I would go with the man to have him tested before hand (like the day of) spend the day with him and then induldge my man.
2) if we both agreed on who the man was

I really cant think of anything else, but yea, If we both agreed and the guy was clean I think it would be a wonderful experience. As for judging him harsly for the fantisy, never. I have fantasies that my love doesn't care for at all (like exobitionism) and he has ones that i dont care for (like rape). Everyone has fantasies, some are just not what you would care for.

-Tears

 

[His_pita]

Yup, if the guy was clean I would have no problem doing it and I wouldn't judge.

 

[catalina_francisco]

I would indudlge him, if
1) the guy had been tested and proben clean (of stds etc...) and because of partial paranoia, I would go with the man to have him tested before hand (like the day of) spend the day with him and then induldge my man.

Only problem with this is it takes longer than a day to incubate and/or test for many STD's....and then you have those ones you can pick up through oral/genital contact....risk is high, but sometimes you just have to do all you can and then decide.

Catalina

 

[Ma Petite]

Only problem with this is it takes longer than a day to incubate and/or test for many STD's....and then you have those ones you can pick up through oral/genital contact....risk is high, but sometimes you just have to do all you can and then decide.

Catalina

yes but i'd be not too much of a problem if i or my man knew the guy well and his sex habbits it would just be the quick day or two test and id have him stick around

 

[incubus'_sub]

My Master & I share this fantasy. Well, maybe not the lick it up, but definately the look & feel of the whole scene. No, we don't judge each other, we both think it's hot.

The potential disease problem is the only thing holding us back, as most everyone else has said too. The spilled bodily fluids are a big part of the scene & the safety aspect is a real nuisance these days.

Therefore, for us, it won't be a stranger, but someone (or 2 or 3 hehehe ) well known to us and trusted enough to care for their own health too, and be very honest about it.

 

[Etoile]

This isn't too rare or uncommon, so I wouldn't worry about it. I think it's got strong links to cuckolding though, which is typically for male subs rather than male doms. ChemistryNine, you don't mention the reason for your question - are you thinking about asking your partner for this? If so, I wouldn't be ashamed of it at all. If you can both manage the issues of bringing a third into your relationship, then you are already on the way to asking for more fantasy fulfillment.

 

[alice_underneath]

Ladies... if it was your man's fantasy to have you fuck another man in front of him so he could eat your pussy after th guy ejaculated into you and on you would you induldge him ? Would you judge him harshly for wanting such a fantasy ?

In any relationship (d/s or otherwise), one of my hard limits would be: No Other People. I am a one-on-one type of person, for whom physical and emotional intimacy are tightly intertwined.

But that's just me. And I've read enough to know that there are lots of women (and men) who would think what you are describing is really, really hot.

As to your second question - the answer is NO. I would not judge him, harshly or otherwise.

However, finding out that my partner had this fantasy would definitely make me want to have long, explicit conversations with him about what he desires. I agree with Etoile that this sounds like the fantasy of a submissive man.

That may not necessarily be true. But if it were, then we would both need to acknowledge the fact that I would be a really bad match for him sexually. I'm just not a sexually dominant person, and I would be utterly unable to meet his needs.

It is important not to confuse "judging" with an honest assessment of whether two people are well-matched.

I could respect a submissive man, and we could be extremely close friends. But, in terms of fulfilling his sexual needs, I would fail him completely.

Alice

 

[Etoile]

It is important not to confuse "judging" with an honest assessment of whether two people are well-matched.

I would also add that one's personal dislike of something does not mean one would judge others for it. I may not go for the AB/DL fetish, but if that's what floats someone's boat I'm not going to respect them any less for it.

 

[catalina_francisco]

In any relationship (d/s or otherwise), one of my hard limits would be: No Other People. I am a one-on-one type of person, for whom physical and emotional intimacy are tightly intertwined.

But that's just me. And I've read enough to know that there are lots of women (and men) who would think what you are describing is really, really hot.

As to your second question - the answer is NO. I would not judge him, harshly or otherwise.

However, finding out that my partner had this fantasy would definitely make me want to have long, explicit conversations with him about what he desires. I agree with Etoile that this sounds like the fantasy of a submissive man.

That may not necessarily be true. But if it were, then we would both need to acknowledge the fact that I would be a really bad match for him sexually. I'm just not a sexually dominant person, and I would be utterly unable to meet his needs.

It is important not to confuse "judging" with an honest assessment of whether two people are well-matched.

I could respect a submissive man, and we could be extremely close friends. But, in terms of fulfilling his sexual needs, I would fail him completely.

Alice

I used to also feel I was exclusively one on one, but given the option of being stubborn or contemplating another way which would mean a lot of growth and pleasure for him, I found it is possible to move out of that safe space a step at a time.

Given the scenario, it is more likely to be the desire of a submissive man to actually eat his lover after another man had cum in her, but not exclusively for some I expect. Also if it were ths case of a sub male and sub female being in a relationship, this could be the perfect scenario for them both to have their needs to be dominated met if the one invited to have sex with the woman were a Dominant.

Catalina

 

[sprfreak2002]

my ex and i did this several times, very hot. his idea. however, the baggage is one of the things that led to my leaving him. some fantasies should remain just that.

that said, i wouldn't rule it out if the situation felt safe, both physically and emotionally.