Ladies, how long do you like your man to last?

[LadyJeanne]

In response to THIS thread, I'd like to do a little informal research on how long women really want a man to be thrusting inside her during any given sexual encounter.

So, ladies, tell us how much of the actual in-and-out you like!

 

[LadyJeanne]

Here's my perspective, as posted in the aforementioned thread:

I think this is such a stupid question. It shows that the questioner doesn't understand the first thing about pleasing a woman. We don't care how long your penis can thrust before blowing...in fact, most of us hate it when the guy keeps pounding away inside us forever - it hurts after a while and we get bored.

We care how long you make the entire sexual encounter last...the passionate glances long before the clothes come off, the whispered words of passion, the kisses, the caresses, the oral, the touches, the oral, what you do with your hands, the licks and sucks and tickles on our breasts, the oral...

Thrusting dicks are just a small part of the experience for women. Thrust inside me for an hour and you'll never get inside me again. And I'll bet I'm not the only one. Maybe I should start a poll on how long women want men to be inside them...

 

[M's girl]

Cool....

Well, there was one who did NOT get it if I ever saw one...
I don't even know how to answer this one, but it all depends would be the closest to it.... I guess.

Besides.... you nailed it pretty well as far as I am concerned, so...

 

[bobsgirl]

An hour?? I know it's what the porn industry would have you think, but after a while, you start counting the cobwebs in the corners of the ceiling.

 

[Munachi]

as most things in life, i'd say it depends. like, if i haven't had sex in a while, i might not want too much of him actually being in there, because i would get sore more easily. then it'd depend whether it is all in one setting or whether there are breaks. and on my mood. and on other aspects.

i think you are mainly right, though it is a bit of a generalization as well - there can be times when i am in the mood for quite a long while of mainly just him in me. though it's true that if that's all there is, then most likely it will get boring very quickly.

 

[lilwetone]

longer than 8 seconds......

jsut relax...take your time.....please me right.....

 

[Eroticmania]

Depends on too many factors. How wet. How big. How fast. How skillful the user.
If I get dry from boredom or are not wet enough when fucking is started, the end can't come soon enough. Larger cocks tend to make me sore faster. Speed demons, hurry it along too fast. A skillful lover can make it last and feel good for extended time. Bad lovers are waisting my time. Overall, no more than 10 minutes of cock in pussy time will do.

 

[Cockyfox]

Put me down as another depends-on-the-situation.

I never look at the clock and say, "Fuckin' A! You hammered away for 45 minutes...right on schedule! WOO HOO!"

 

[footlongish]

This is an interesting topic. I like hearing what women like and dislike in bed.

On a related question, how long do women like to suck cock before they want her men to cum or they do something else ? (sore jaw syndrome...)

And what about receiving oral or having their clit massaged or being fingered internally ? Is there a time when it still feels good and you are moaning, but would like your partner to stop ? Do you tell him ?

I had a gf once that like to give oral. And I liked to give her oral. Now that I think of it we only fucked in short durations, like 10, 15 minutes and then switched. But we would do it for hours. We called them sex marathons and you have to train to be good at them.

We were young. We could go to bed at midnight and play right through to the next morning with only interludes of sleep. A favorite game of ours was to wake the other up in the nastiest way possible. I'd finger her in her sleep to wake her up. One time I slipped my cock in her pussy while she slept on her side. She'd suck me or slowly straddle and mount. The idea was for the other person to be woken up by sex. It was a great game. The more tired you made your partner the harder they sleep and the more susceptible they are to being taken while they sleep. Ah, the good ole days. But I digress...

One time I got her very hot. Giving her oral before intercourse but not letting her cum seemed to do it, especially with some deep fingering. She started cumming from intercourse. We fucked, sometimes slowly, sometimes like wild beasts through orgasm after orgasm for hours. She was very wet.

It was funny because once in a while she wanted to stop and once in a while I wanted to stop. But a couple minutes after that we'd both be turned back on and humping like mad. It was like the slutty desire to keep going switched back and forth between us. Actually, she would have mini orgasms and her pussy would gush and contract, which felt good for both of us.

She stayed in the missionary position the whole time. Next day she could hardly walk, but I was boyfriend of the year ! All day long she told me what a hot stud I was.

I think women stay wetter in the mish position than other positions.

I only came once the whole time, at the end. I was dehydrated and couldn't shoot.

I've never, ever told this stuff to anyone. It is really liberating to talk about it. I forgot all about a lot of my sexual history and I start remembering it when I read the posts here.

I love pleasing a woman.

 

[Eilan]

Bobsgirl, are you suggesting that what I've seen in porn isn't 100% real?? Doesn't everybody like raw, overfucked pussy?

I'm kinda with LadyJeanne on this. I might have a sex session that lasts an hour or more, but it's not the old in-out-in-out the whole time. Sometimes we'll take a break from the thrusting and use toys or masturbate for each other. Sometimes it's slow, grinding sex instead of thrusting, porn-stud, female orgasm-faking sex.

It's not so much about the duration as it is the variety. A quickie could be boring with the wrong (clueless) partner.

 

[footlongish]

I hate the term "hammering away". I guess some guys do it. It makes me think women don't like sex, like it is a chore for them. I don't want to make love to a woman that doesn't want it.

I love to slow right down and tell my gal how beautiful she is and thob my cock in her. I get really big when I do that. Its a different kind of friction/feeling, especially when she is wet. Sometimes I can make a woman have mini orgasms just by throbbing. And kissing, of course.

The best is when she reaches down and pleasures her clit while I throb a bit. And maybe I stroke her anus, with some of her leakage. At some point she usually asks for some deep thrusting and that usually finishes off the session for both of us.

I think some women don't like big men putting a lot of weight on them. They kind of get crushed. I don't blame them.

 

[bobsgirl]

Bobsgirl, are you suggesting that what I've seen in porn isn't 100% real?? Doesn't everybody like raw, overfucked pussy?

I'm kinda with LadyJeanne on this. I might have a sex session that lasts an hour or more, but it's not the old in-out-in-out the whole time. Sometimes we'll take a break from the thrusting and use toys or masturbate for each other. Sometimes it's slow, grinding sex instead of thrusting, porn-stud, female orgasm-faking sex.

It's not so much about the duration as it is the variety. A quickie could be boring with the wrong (clueless) partner.

I know. It's a shock, isn't it?

 

[DulceRaphaela]

Longer than the commercial break...

Even if that were the intention.

 

[Bottomlover]

You didn't give the southern ladies the right choices:
10 laps at Martinsville
20 laps at Texas
30 laps at Pocono
etc.

 

[Eilan]

You didn't give the southern ladies the right choices:
10 laps at Martinsville
20 laps at Texas
30 laps at Pocono
etc.

*water spew*

 

[gdkttngnbd]

I put 10 minutes, and by that I would mean no more than 10 minutes in any one position. It really does depend on the situation. I like to mix it up and go from different acts and not just "insert, thrust, rinse, repeat." YAWN.

 

[Macayo]

I'm just here to view the results.

 

[footlongish]

You didn't give the southern ladies the right choices:
10 laps at Martinsville
20 laps at Texas
30 laps at Pocono
etc.

Under yellow or green ? It makes a difference !

I'd like to hear what the people "choosing" other have to say...

 

[JRaven]

I put down 10 minutes, but with the right lover, 20 would be fine. I very rarely orgasm during intercourse. For me, intercourse is for his pleasure, assuming he's already pleased me well. But don't over do it.

Remember guys, pound your meat as fast and hard as you want, but don't pound me!

Jenny

 

[Mazuri]

I chose other because it all depends. Some days I want it long and slow and romantic. Others, I want a good hard pounding. Still others, we may only have time for a quickie. Can't we choose "all of the above" and just apply them at will?

 

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[LadyJeanne]

Well, I'm not a lady (at least last time I checked) but I'm gonna post anyway, since I read this thread before going to a meeting this morning, and it was on my mind throughout the entire meeting.

Sorry about that, Scaly. Well, maybe not too much...

What I would like to know is why women would allow "the guy thrusting" continually for a period longer than she finds enjoyable? Why not take control of the situation? Roll him over on his back and you control the action. I can't speak for all guys, but I like it when my girl takes charge. It can be quite stimulating....and may be what I need to push me over the edge.

Ever try to roll over a 200 pound guy when you're a 125 pound girl on the bottom? Especially when he's deep into the thrust zone?

I agree with you - in a good lover situation, this really isn't a problem. It's always the bad lovers with whom this is a problem.

 

[midwestyankee]

Well, I'm not a lady (at least last time I checked) but I'm gonna post anyway, since I read this thread before going to a meeting this morning, and it was on my mind throughout the entire meeting.

What I would like to know is why women would allow "the guy thrusting" continually for a period longer than she finds enjoyable? Why not take control of the situation? Roll him over on his back and you control the action. I can't speak for all guys, but I like it when my girl takes charge. It can be quite stimulating....and may be what I need to push me over the edge.

Sometimes the cuffs and ropes make it pretty difficult for the lady, Scaly.

 

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