Ladies: Do you ever fantasize about watching your man have sex with another woman?

Jenny1990

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So it's nothing new to anyone on the Forums that lots of men are turned on by the idea of watching their partner with another man. There a loads of stories, discussions and fantasies about just this. Actually, a lot of them turn me on.

But my question is this; how many women are turned on about sharing their guy? It's been a fantasy of mine for a while, to be able to have another nice girl play with my man while I watch, but I think I'm in a small minority :)

Ladies, who else finds the idea sexy? Who would simply be too jealous?x
 
I know you are asking the ladies, and I apologize for intruding, but I would like to share my experience with this subject.

Have dated a couple of women that have had this fantasy, current girlfriend as well. Out of the bunch, only one really was open enough to let it happen, one other one wanted so bad, and let it happen, then went bat shit crazy afterwards.
 
I know you are asking the ladies, and I apologize for intruding, but I would like to share my experience with this subject.

Have dated a couple of women that have had this fantasy, current girlfriend as well. Out of the bunch, only one really was open enough to let it happen, one other one wanted so bad, and let it happen, then went bat shit crazy afterwards.

Thanks for sharing! :) I think that's super hot...I can totally understand why she'd go a bit mental afterwards. Its definitely something you need to be sure you want before you let your man try it x
 
Thanks for sharing! :) I think that's super hot...I can totally understand why she'd go a bit mental afterwards. Its definitely something you need to be sure you want before you let your man try it x

It was actually quite strange, since all them are bi, and I have no problems letting them have their girl time.
 
There are a few very hot stories on this subject on the main site.

Yes? Feel free to link to one or two! I'm taking it from the lack of girl's responses that it may only be me who likes this! hehe...what about Ladies fantasising about being with MY man while I watch?x
 
I love hearing stories about my hubby with other women and often ask him to give me all the naughty details when we make love, however, on occasion I have brought home a "friend" and we all make our own naughty stories. So much nicer!:devil::heart:
 
Well, honestly I am not one to share him or even think about it. Really love him. I know, I know, that's not how it's supposed to be here on Lit.
 
I love hearing stories about my hubby with other women and often ask him to give me all the naughty details when we make love, however, on occasion I have brought home a "friend" and we all make our own naughty stories. So much nicer!:devil::heart:

I love this :) Flower you're amazing xx
 
The key here is "watching". There are many of us into swapping/swinging/open marriage where our husbands are free to play. I've been in the same room with mine while he fucked another woman but I was ... busy and not watching or paying close attention. While he had his first "other woman." I was behind him, concentrating on taking his ass with a strap-on so again, I wasn't watching his action.

ETA: There is no fantasy here, either. I know he is fucking her.

You might try searching the story side for "Watching husband."
 
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No, you're not alone.

I have the exact same fantasy, only I haven't quite figured out how to make it real. A few times, he's flirted with other women and so long as they're cute, I don't get jealous, I get aroused. I have no idea why that is. A couple of times, we've gone to a bar where there was a go-go dancer dressed in sexy lingerie. Since she took tips, my husband asked if it was okay if he slip her a five dollar bill and I gave him the go ahead. Beyond that, he's never so much as kissed another woman, but I suspect I'd enjoy it.

I'm even working on a 'cheating husband' series that includes a few characters who are "cuck queans". There's also a thread about that on reddit. I'm not sure what links are allowed on here, but it's easy enough to find if you search on there under "cuckquean community". In it, a young woman posted a story about her first experience of her boyfriend straying on her and it was very hot.
 
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It's been a fantasy of mine for a while, to be able to have another nice girl play with my man while I watch, but I think I'm in a small minority :)

Ladies, who else finds the idea sexy? Who would simply be too jealous?x

Jenny, why is this only a fantasy of yours? Are you too jealous or insecure? Or have you not found the right woman/situation to make it happen?

Would it not be sufficient to hear him describe sex with someone else, something less threatening like a lover before he met you? I wonder if your fantasy is rooted in pride in your man's ability and you want confirmation by witnessing her reactions.
 
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There are a few very hot stories on this subject on the main site.

'cause they go to Loving Wives and that can deter some writers. it's a tough gig. polarised views with feedback that doesn't hold back. a lot of vitriol, etc.

...but it's fun to read the comments. :D
 
Oh Yes!

My man was quite the mama's boy growing up. I can still tell he has a very strong Oedipus Complex even today when they are near to each other. I am not jealous in any way of her, but the opposite. I would like to watch them have sex together and maybe even join them.

Wow! bet you never thought you'd get this response. =)
 
My man was quite the mama's boy growing up. I can still tell he has a very strong Oedipus Complex even today when they are near to each other. I am not jealous in any way of her, but the opposite. I would like to watch them have sex together and maybe even join them.

Wow! bet you never thought you'd get this response. =)


Never thought I'd read this one. That's for sure.
 
Just watching, not so much. Participating, even if it is just a little bit can be fun, plus I know I'll have plenty of fun with him later.
 
I have thought about it before, like maybe test the waters with watching a stripper give my boyfriend a lap dance, but I worry that it'd only be hot in fantasy, and not in reality. On the fantasy aspect, there is a serious dearth in cuckold porn where the woman watches her man have sex with another woman. So far, I have only found one story on Lit so far where the woman is masturbating to her handsome husband having sex with another woman somewhere, he routinely cheats on her, but she doesn't care. Anyway, I do enjoy reading cuckold erotica with the premise where the man is a secret voyeur to his wife or significant other having sex with another man. The man is basically humiliated yet turned on, and watches on. It's definitely the humiliation play that appeals to me, because I put myself in the man's place, rather than the woman who is cheating.
 
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Yes? Feel free to link to one or two! I'm taking it from the lack of girl's responses that it may only be me who likes this! hehe...what about Ladies fantasising about being with MY man while I watch?x

I'd be over the moon if my gf suggested this to me, while she watched and got herself off. It would be amazing. It would only be fair to let her repay the favour and let me sit in rage while another guy got her off...I think the sex afterwards between the two of us would be so so good.
 
Facilitating his access to sex with another woman while I watch (or not) is a wonderful way to reward him for all of the sexual latitude he affords me. From within a wife led marriage I feel as though it is a gift I am giving him and any jealousy seems to be mitigated by knowing it is for me to decide who the woman is and whether it occurs at all. It is oddly rewarding to hear the other woman enjoy herself and say nice things about hubbies sexual prowess. However, I would not want humiliation of me (faux or otherwise) to be part of the program.
 
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