Ladies - A little dating advice please

[Stormdoodle]

Hello, I'm relatively new here and haven't started a thread yet although I've posted in a couple.
Last september my fiance and I broke up after three years together. we realised that we were at different places in our lives. She was three years older than me, had been married before, and this was my first every relationship.

Well that is the brief back story.

I've started (internet) dating again and have been on 3 real dates (as well as a couple coffee dates) and we're getting on really well. However whenever it comes time to say goodbye/goodnight I can only every get a kiss on the cheek.

Yet we then arrange to meet again.

I'm getting a little confused, if she doesn't like me why keep agreeing to meet? If she does like me why only a kiss on the cheek?

Any ideas?

 

[gardenia19]

Hello, I'm relatively new here and haven't started a thread yet although I've posted in a couple.
Last september my fiance and I broke up after three years together. we realised that we were at different places in our lives. She was three years older than me, had been married before, and this was my first every relationship.

Well that is the brief back story.

I've started (internet) dating again and have been on 3 real dates (as well as a couple coffee dates) and we're getting on really well. However whenever it comes time to say goodbye/goodnight I can only every get a kiss on the cheek.

Yet we then arrange to meet again.

I'm getting a little confused, if she doesn't like me why keep agreeing to meet? If she does like me why only a kiss on the cheek?

Any ideas?

Quit being a pansy. Chicks only like the flower form.

 

[kiwi_submissive]

Maybe shes used to guys doing the runner after they have gotten laid?

 

[Lancecastor]

why keep agreeing to meet?

Keep feeding her long enough and you should be able to train her to do whatever you want.

But you need to start hitting her on the snout when she desn't obey the command to blow you after dinner.

 

[ms_ann_thrope]

Sounds like let's be friends.

 

[MacLe0d]

Or that she wants to go at a slower pace than you.

 

[GinaeEvans]

Hello, I'm relatively new here and haven't started a thread yet although I've posted in a couple.
Last september my fiance and I broke up after three years together. we realised that we were at different places in our lives. She was three years older than me, had been married before, and this was my first every relationship.

Well that is the brief back story.

I've started (internet) dating again and have been on 3 real dates (as well as a couple coffee dates) and we're getting on really well. However whenever it comes time to say goodbye/goodnight I can only every get a kiss on the cheek.

Yet we then arrange to meet again.

I'm getting a little confused, if she doesn't like me why keep agreeing to meet? If she does like me why only a kiss on the cheek?

Any ideas?

Why don't you ask her?

 

[killallhippies]

maybe you should try asking her, you jackass.

 

[Tryharder62]

Gently stroke her the other cheek than the one she presents you to kiss. When she straightens up kiss her mouth and tell her you've been wanting to taste her for a long time. Then run your hand up the back of her neck and into her hair and kiss her again. Tell her it was worth the wait.

 

[Tryharder62]

Then again you could just ask her?

 

[MidgetClown]

Then again you could just ask her?

 

[kotori]

Why don't you ask her?

maybe you should try asking her, you jackass.

Then again you could just ask her?

Or...this. And this. And this.

 

[ms_ann_thrope]

Ask her and you can kiss her good bye. Really, really bad advice.

 

[Soulen]

just be like "hey, instead of a kiss on my cheek, how about you give me a rimjob and let me stick my prick in your various fuckholes?"

 

[kotori]

just be like "hey, instead of a kiss on my cheek, how about you give me a rimjob and let me stick my prick in your various fuckholes?"

Poetry on the fly, that is.

 

[Wat_Tyler]

 

[LiFeNdEaTh]

*shakeshead*

 

[bg23]

talk to her between dates and try to get to know her better. it sounds like she wants to move more slowly than you -- she might like you, but not be ready to go further, maybe she's still trying to get to know you as well. sexual desire doesn't always just happen instantly.

maintaining contact and conversation between dates allows you to build rapport and gain a higher level of comfort such that you actually are moving the relationship along more than if you simply go on dates and then don't really talk until you see each other again.

there's always the chance that she's just not that into you. if you give it a couple more dates, tell her you'd like to kiss her, and gauge her reaction. if she says no she's probably just not that into you.

 

[bg23]

Gently stroke her the other cheek than the one she presents you to kiss. When she straightens up kiss her mouth and tell her you've been wanting to taste her for a long time. Then run your hand up the back of her neck and into her hair and kiss her again. Tell her it was worth the wait.

if a guy did this to me i would be so fucking creeped out. "taste" me? first kiss and you're already sticking your tongue in there?

 

[Lancecastor]

Hilarious....you guys couldn't get laid in a barrel full of cunts.

 

[Colonel Hogan]

If you ask her if she "likes you," she's going to write you off as a pussy.

Instead, ask her who she thinks of when she's spanking her clit. If your name doesn't come up in the first five.....well, you didn't stand much of a chance anyway.

 

[Noor]

She might like kiss as a matter of course after dates, it can feel very artificial and forced to some women.

I don't always like kissing at the end of a date, a hug maybe, sometimes I can't let go, sometimes I drag them inside.

Maybe try something else like putting your leg against her during a movie, touch her hand, something, so she gets used to your touch and can see how she feels about it.

 

[Noor]

talk to her between dates and try to get to know her better. it sounds like she wants to move more slowly than you -- she might like you, but not be ready to go further, maybe she's still trying to get to know you as well. sexual desire doesn't always just happen instantly.

maintaining contact and conversation between dates allows you to build rapport and gain a higher level of comfort such that you actually are moving the relationship along more than if you simply go on dates and then don't really talk until you see each other again.

there's always the chance that she's just not that into you. if you give it a couple more dates, tell her you'd like to kiss her, and gauge her reaction. if she says no she's probably just not that into you.

Sound good ideas. I don't know if you can judge a person intent solely by whether they kiss at the end of a date, I have had lovers I didn't kiss until we made love.

I like it when a guy kisses the palm of my hand...

 

[killallhippies]

conversely you could try hitting her with a hammer and then rifling through her medicine cabinet to see if she has any good scripts. it won't get you laid, but if you're asking this place for advice... well, just hope for adderall or oxy's.

 

[Noor]

conversely you could try hitting her with a hammer and then rifling through her medicine cabinet to see if she has any good scripts. it won't get you laid, but if you're asking this place for advice... well, just hope for adderall or oxy's.

he could just ask to use her bathroom and do that, no need to hit her and make a mess.