Labia Discussion

[misshpilot]

So I'm here for some advice - I hope I posted this in the right place!

I don't have much experience sexually mainly because its the only area in life I'm nervous about. I've had a few boyfriends but sex hasn't been important to them and that doesn't do a girls confidence much good!

I have a hanging labia which I'm not comfortable with because I'm worried that a guy in the heat of passion will laugh that its not the prettiest thing in the world, while I try not to be vain its nerve wrecking and for this reason I've never let a guy go down on me.

So what do you think I should do carry on saving for surgery or get a wax and enjoy myself (easier said than done)

Any advice or encouragement would be very helpful

 

[Saint Peter]

parts are parts

 

[hd1828]

'''''

 

[yossi]

All genitals look odd, but they're beautiful. I really hope you don't feel like you have to have surgery performed - and if anyone laughs at your cunt, they honestly are not worth your time.

 

[Aphro]

First off, unless they are halfway to your knees, get caught in your panty elastic, or clap together when you run, it's probably not an issue. In fact, there's a thread somewhere here that is called "Show me the labias" or something similar. Go check that out - you will see some pics of women with MASSIVE labia, and a bunch of guys posting about how tasty they look.

When I first joined this forum, I hadn't seen porn, and I really hadn't seen any other women's "bits and pieces" naked. Women don't go walking around change rooms spread-legged. I was surprised how different everyone is!

To that vein, also check out something called The Great Wall of Vagina. It's an art installation of plaster casts of women's vulvas. Every possible type. If looking at that doesn't make you feel normal, nothing will.

I wouldn't get my genitals cut up unless it was causing me problems with chafing or soreness. Any guy who is grossed out by your parts to the point of refusing to go down on you isn't someone you want down there.

 

[Saint Peter]

Surgery is extreme. If it makes you feel better, go for it. A man that is worth keeping would not have issues before or after the knife.

Natural women are a thing of beauty. Big tits or small. Camel toes. Big or small junk. These things make you unique, not a freak show.

 

[Fata Morgana]

First off, unless they are halfway to your knees, get caught in your panty elastic, or clap together when you run, it's probably not an issue. In fact, there's a thread somewhere here that is called "Show me the labias" or something similar. Go check that out - you will see some pics of women with MASSIVE labia, and a bunch of guys posting about how tasty they look.

When I first joined this forum, I hadn't seen porn, and I really hadn't seen any other women's "bits and pieces" naked. Women don't go walking around change rooms spread-legged. I was surprised how different everyone is!

To that vein, also check out something called The Great Wall of Vagina. It's an art installation of plaster casts of women's vulvas. Every possible type. If looking at that doesn't make you feel normal, nothing will.

I wouldn't get my genitals cut up unless it was causing me problems with chafing or soreness. Any guy who is grossed out by your parts to the point of refusing to go down on you isn't someone you want down there.

Fuck.

I thought I had a small fan club.

 

[doctor_insanus]

Fuck.

I thought I had a small fan club.

Make me look like a walrus, baby.

 

[adrina]

I understand you're self conscious, but the reality is that you care far more than they will. If they care at all. I used to be far more self conscious about my breasts, thinking because they weren't the perky perfection we see in all the pictures that I needed a boob job or something. I don't. In fact, come to find out, my boobs are just fine and it was me being silly.

Unless they're getting caught up in your underwear, I'd seriously take a second and third look at Yossi's, Aphroditiac's and Peter's posts. They really are spot on.

 

[lovetoread]

fuck whatever anyone else thinks

its your body - rock it with all that you have

no one needs to look like what porn says you should

 

[SophieUK]

http://www.labialibrary.org.au

You're normal. We're all just normal whatever our cunts look like.

Seconded (thirded? Fourthed! Wish Lit had a 'Like' or 'thumbs up' button..)

 

[misshpilot]

Thank you for all the lovely kind honest messages you've all posted, I know your all right and I'm going to accept it and not be so anxious, thank you all

 

[Ms_Ann]

Glad we got that all cleared up.

 

[Super-Surprise]

Glad we got that all cleared up.

I have a problem too.

My penis is too big. It's too long and it's too girthy.

I am considering penis reduction surgery.

What does everyone think I should do?

 

[Ms_Ann]

I have a problem too.

My penis is too big. It's too long and it's too girthy.

I am considering penis reduction surgery.

What does everyone think I should do?

I recommend The Bobbitt.

 

[SophieUK]

I have a problem too.

My penis is too big. It's too long and it's too girthy.

I am considering penis reduction surgery.

What does everyone think I should do?

Your problem is that it has two ears and a big mouth
(Only joking honey)

 

[FL30]

I've had several girlfriends over the years and none of them have been the same in any way. But, I've loved all their different shapes and sizes.

I've never had a problem with any differences in labia, breasts, or ass sizes. If I like someone, then I like someone.

If a guy likes you, he really won't care and some will be turned on even more by big labia.

Jut find a guy that like you for being you.

Everyone is different and unique in their own way.

To get a better idea of the differences, you should check out the Favorite Pussy types forum. Lots & lots of different shapes & colors and lots of complements to the owners.

 

[Elixxxher]

First off, unless they are halfway to your knees, get caught in your panty elastic, or clap together when you run, it's probably not an issue. In fact, there's a thread somewhere here that is called "Show me the labias" or something similar. Go check that out - you will see some pics of women with MASSIVE labia, and a bunch of guys posting about how tasty they look.

When I first joined this forum, I hadn't seen porn, and I really hadn't seen any other women's "bits and pieces" naked. Women don't go walking around change rooms spread-legged. I was surprised how different everyone is!

To that vein, also check out something called The Great Wall of Vagina. It's an art installation of plaster casts of women's vulvas. Every possible type. If looking at that doesn't make you feel normal, nothing will.

I wouldn't get my genitals cut up unless it was causing me problems with chafing or soreness. Any guy who is grossed out by your parts to the point of refusing to go down on you isn't someone you want down there.

Agreed.

 

[Nellie60]

So I'm here for some advice - I hope I posted this in the right place!

I don't have much experience sexually mainly because its the only area in life I'm nervous about. I've had a few boyfriends but sex hasn't been important to them and that doesn't do a girls confidence much good!

I have a hanging labia which I'm not comfortable with because I'm worried that a guy in the heat of passion will laugh that its not the prettiest thing in the world, while I try not to be vain its nerve wrecking and for this reason I've never let a guy go down on me.

So what do you think I should do carry on saving for surgery or get a wax and enjoy myself (easier said than done)

Any advice or encouragement would be very helpful

I understand why women can be self conscious about their labia appearance but hey what do I really know being of the male species.

I love the difference appearance and the larger labia and you should embrace what makes you attractive.

 

[Zenheredonethat]

While the thread is back, labia and vulvas all have appeal to me. They are as varied and wonderful as the array of people are. I think that larger ones are nothing to hide or be embarrassed over. So darn sexy!

 

[jehoram]

I'm worried that a guy in the heat of passion will laugh that its not the prettiest thing in the world

If that happens, you're clearly with the wrong guy. The great majority of men would have no problem with it and might even dig it, and want to play with those lovely flaps.

The only reason I've heard for surgery is if the labia is constantly chafed in bicycle riding.

 

[lil_pete]

So I'm here for some advice - I hope I posted this in the right place!

I don't have much experience sexually mainly because its the only area in life I'm nervous about. I've had a few boyfriends but sex hasn't been important to them and that doesn't do a girls confidence much good!

I have a hanging labia which I'm not comfortable with because I'm worried that a guy in the heat of passion will laugh that its not the prettiest thing in the world, while I try not to be vain its nerve wrecking and for this reason I've never let a guy go down on me.

So what do you think I should do carry on saving for surgery or get a wax and enjoy myself (easier said than done)

Any advice or encouragement would be very helpful

Female private parts/genitalia are like fingerprints; there are no two the same.
As for long labia there are many men that are ga ga for them, they are beautiful, like flower petals, wings on a butterfly.
Yes, my wife wishes hers were longer!
Forget any negatives for you are beautiful the way you are.

 

[UtilityCurve]

I have a hanging labia which I'm not comfortable with because I'm worried that a guy in the heat of passion will laugh that its not the prettiest thing in the world

Miss, if a guy is laughing at your womanhood, let me assure you: He is not passionate about your sexuality. You should never be insulted by someone whose opinion you do not value and he will have made that judgment easy.

As a man, "passion" to me is being very nearly feral with desire not only to take my pleasure in a woman but to try to give her more pleasure than I imagine (fear?) other men have given her. I don't see how the appearance of her feminine attributes has anything to do with that goal. What DOES matter is that she feels absolutely safe to let herself go and enjoy and vocalize that pleasure.

 

[Lovfam308]

So I'm here for some advice - I hope I posted this in the right place!

I don't have much experience sexually mainly because its the only area in life I'm nervous about. I've had a few boyfriends but sex hasn't been important to them and that doesn't do a girls confidence much good!

I have a hanging labia which I'm not comfortable with because I'm worried that a guy in the heat of passion will laugh that its not the prettiest thing in the world, while I try not to be vain its nerve wrecking and for this reason I've never let a guy go down on me.

So what do you think I should do carry on saving for surgery or get a wax and enjoy myself (easier said than done)

Any advice or encouragement would be very helpful

Not to worry. You will find the right person that will love you as you are. Personally I love large labia and know many men who do also.

 

[Maydaypilot]

Please don’t change yourself surgically.

I love large suckable labia.

Imagine, being adored because of what you’ve found embarrassing about your body…

I’ve considered writing a story about this very thing, and maybe I will now.