Kink advice

[CompletedXvids]

Hi folks. Really appreciate any help.
Just hoping for some tips, I'm looking to book a European city break just a night or two, my wife and I are pretty vanilla as a couple but I'd like to subtly push her boundaries and see where it goes.
Truth be told id be up for anything, very much including seeing her with another guy, but I can't just go in like a wrecking ball.
Any ideas of kinky saunas, stores hotels etc. maybe somewhere not so in your face or strictly advertised as a sex club?
Obviously I'm not coercing her or anything, first sign it's not for her it's over and we'd leave, I just think and hope that under the right circumstances she'd try something new.

 

[njlauren]

Never been there, but you may want to research Amsterdam, they have a number of clubs from what I recall around sexual themes, ranging from BDSM clubs, swingers clubs to erotic caberet and of course have erotic boutiques (or did). Worth doing a search on it, ask an AI prompt or something

 

[Rob_Royale]

I'd start small. Like a clothing optional, lifestyle friendly place. If she's not cool getting naked in such a situation, your odds of anything more intimate are nil.

 

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[LMWM321]

I think you're reaching to think your wife will go from "pretty vanilla" to wanting to have sex with another guy in front of you without any sort of prior discussion about it. I think the more likely outcome is your wife will feel very disoriented and destabilized by you putting her in the position of having to call a halt to what seems like a setup. Or, worse, she goes along with it just to please you which could linger in her memory like a sexual assault.

My recommendation: Tell her what you're planning and what you're hoping for and ask how she'd feel about it.

Sorry... but just sayin'