Kissing Techniques

[collegeteenm19]

...................

 

[sutherngent985]

I was just wondering if people could share their kissing techniques? Or if they don't want to disclose their secret "moves". Maybe some do's and don'ts?

Sure...Do
Be gentle
Be patient
Start slowly
Remember to breathe and let her breathe
Keep your lips moist but not too wet (see below)

Now for the DONTs
Slobber
Use your tongue to check her tonsils
Jam your lips into hers
Hit your teeth together
Bang heads or noses
Push your tongue into her mouth before shes ready...yea you will know when that is

The main thing is try and take your lead from your partner. Take your time, this isnt a race. Kissing is great fun as long as both people are into it. Look at kissing as something unto itself and not just as a prelude to getting in her pants. Take some time, hold her, look into her eyes, then just kiss with no expectations of anything else.

 

[somberReality]

Sure...Do
Be gentle
Be patient
Start slowly
Remember to breathe and let her breathe
Keep your lips moist but not too wet (see below)

Now for the DONTs
Slobber
Use your tongue to check her tonsils
Jam your lips into hers
Hit your teeth together
Bang heads or noses
Push your tongue into her mouth before shes ready...yea you will know when that is

The main thing is try and take your lead from your partner. Take your time, this isnt a race. Kissing is great fun as long as both people are into it. Look at kissing as something unto itself and not just as a prelude to getting in her pants. Take some time, hold her, look into her eyes, then just kiss with no expectations of anything else.

I second all this.

 

[his_lil_secret]

I second all of what was said before.
I love to kiss. For me kissing is a huge deal. If a guy (or girl) is a bad kisser it can be a deal breaker for me.


For me I like to try to remember how sensual kissing is. I like to imagine something truly decadent is coating my partners lips when I kiss them. I start softly. Slow delicate kisses, as if I were getting the first taste. I like to run my tongue over his lips, to break away from his mouth and kiss around it. To kiss his face, his chin, his neck and then go back to his mouth. I also like to touch his face, his lips, neck and ears. Last but not least I always make it a point to look at him, to keep deep eye contact when we part.
I never introduce a tongue until I can feel that things have gotten more intense. Tongue should always be as Drew Barrymore said in The Wedding Singer, " Church tongue, not porno tongue." IMO. The tongue can be a powerful turn on if used correctly but overkill and sloopy use can kill the moment in an instant.
Lastly I will say that if I feel it;s the right time I will also suck softly on a lip as the kiss breaks. Not vacum suction but just to take it between my lips or teeth and apply a little pressure, hold onto it a bit longer. When my guy is turned on he loves this.
Other then that just maintain basic good hygiene. Keep your teeth brushed, your breath fresh, ad if you're a guy either be cleanshaven or keep your facial hair in good shape.
The biggest thing is to never just start mushing your lips together and hope for the best. Kissing is an art and should be practiced often for best results.

 

[fire_breeze]

All of the above. And I would like to add, don't smoke and drink beer before kissing; pick one or the other, but not both. The combination is absolutely vile.
A great kiss is absolutely unforgettable. So is a terrible kiss. Which one do you think people will want to remember?

 

[Maxell46]

Read "his lil secret's "respone and then read it again!!!!And then read it again!
And pay attention to what this woman writes!!!
I love to kiss! To me it is the most initmate act two people can do witn each other.
This woman just wrote what most guys fail to get...that kissing is what it is all about!
If your lame at kissing..your lame at making love

Great post secrets!!!!












wa

I second all of what was said before.
I love to kiss. For me kissing is a huge deal. If a guy (or girl) is a bad kisser it can be a deal breaker for me.


For me I like to try to remember how sensual kissing is. I like to imagine something truly decadent is coating my partners lips when I kiss them. I start softly. Slow delicate kisses, as if I were getting the first taste. I like to run my tongue over his lips, to break away from his mouth and kiss around it. To kiss his face, his chin, his neck and then go back to his mouth. I also like to touch his face, his lips, neck and ears. Last but not least I always make it a point to look at him, to keep deep eye contact when we part.
I never introduce a tongue until I can feel that things have gotten more intense. Tongue should always be as Drew Barrymore said in The Wedding Singer, " Church tongue, not porno tongue." IMO. The tongue can be a powerful turn on if used correctly but overkill and sloopy use can kill the moment in an instant.
Lastly I will say that if I feel it;s the right time I will also suck softly on a lip as the kiss breaks. Not vacum suction but just to take it between my lips or teeth and apply a little pressure, hold onto it a bit longer. When my guy is turned on he loves this.
Other then that just maintain basic good hygiene. Keep your teeth brushed, your breath fresh, ad if you're a guy either be cleanshaven or keep your facial hair in good shape.
The biggest thing is to never just start mushing your lips together and hope for the best. Kissing is an art and should be practiced often for best results.

 

[Homburg]

Pay attention to what your hands are doing. Yes, this means keep them away from "other" targets. We're talking about kissing in itself, not kissing as part of foreplay, right?

Personally, I'm a Dom, so I tend to put my hands on her rather possessively, make the suggestion that I am holding her in place. Just a suggestion, mind you, not crushing her in some kind of death grip. It's a skill by itself, the ability to touch gently but be unyielding.

My personal favourite is to place a hand on her neck, usually on the side, and use the thumb to gently tilt her head up. Remember, though, the ladies I am kissing are submissives. They respond to such things viscerally. Submissive tendencies are not that uncommon amongst women, so my advice may be valid. YMMV

Someone mentioned sucking on the lip lightly on release. Yes, wow, yes, had that done to me and it nearly blew my socks off. Wow. I've also been known to concentrate on one lip at a time, and to go after that lip a bit.

The last thing is mindset and emotions. Soft sessions should be accompanied by romance in your mind. Get caught up in it. Hot sessions should be hungry. It's a mental thing, sure, but she will feel it nonetheless.

Kissing can be a wonderful thing. It can be satisfying in itself. Don't just see it as a speedbump on the way to sex.

 

[KokopelliRises]

Someone mentioned sucking on the lip lightly on release. Yes, wow, yes, had that done to me and it nearly blew my socks off. Wow. I've also been known to concentrate on one lip at a time, and to go after that lip a bit.

This is my trick to wow people I kiss. If I know them well enough and I know they can stand a little bit of pain, sometimes I'll lightly bite it as well.

 

[sutherngent985]

This is my trick to wow people I kiss. If I know them well enough and I know they can stand a little bit of pain, sometimes I'll lightly bite it as well.

Oh yea...either taking her bottom lip GENTLY between my teeth and pulling as We break the kiss or having it done to me...I love that. I dont know if Im alone in this but I also like little nibbles on my tongue too. I had a girlfriend a long time ago who did this but Ive never had anyone else do it.

The last thing is mindset and emotions. Soft sessions should be accompanied by romance in your mind. Get caught up in it. Hot sessions should be hungry. It's a mental thing, sure, but she will feel it nonetheless.

Unless we are both in that Ive got to have it now mood, I like starting off slowly and soft and get hot and hungry getting more turned on as we kiss. I love just kissing for kissings sake, with nothing else in mind. Like when your cuddling and kissing watching tv or in bed just before sleep.

 

[PertPerth]

I totally agree with everyone who's posted. My favourite is the feeling when he gently sucks on my lip while kissing. It's such a turn on.

 

[his_lil_secret]

Read "his lil secret's "respone and then read it again!!!!And then read it again!
And pay attention to what this woman writes!!!
I love to kiss! To me it is the most initmate act two people can do witn each other.
This woman just wrote what most guys fail to get...that kissing is what it is all about!
If your lame at kissing..your lame at making love

Great post secrets!!!!












wa

Thanks Maxell! That was really just lovely to say.

From what I've just read....do the gentle suction on the lip! I'm so tickled to realize so many people get pleasure from that, thought maybe I was the oddball.
Homburg also makes a great point about watching where your hands go. There's a lot of control on your part when you're kissing and a good kisser can in fact control how slowly, or how quickly things progress. Slow, passionate kissing sessions can lead to some seriously hardcore, intense sex. There is a heat and passion conveyed in a kiss that no other sex act can convey as well. Think about it this way, for the majority porn is really just a bout the sex act itself, not really the passion, or the intensity of emotion conveyed between to people when they are physically intimate and yet even the most hardcore of porn actors still kiss each other during their scenes. It may be all tits and ass after that, but most of the time it still starts with a kiss.

 

[artsmom]

I totally agree with the sucking of the lips. I would like to add that I like to gently suck on my guy's tongue and have him suck on mine as well. I think it is so erotic.